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jojolicious

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  1. I don't want to invalidate anybody's opinion here, but please do NOT listen to anybody who says talk to your husband if what you write is true. As a developed and supposed civilized nation, there is way too much domestic abuse here. He sounds like an abusive individual, and there is no telling how he will act. He has repeatedly demonstrated that your feelings don't matter to him, so there is no reason to take him or his feelings into consideration when you make your decisions.

    As others have suggested, I would take the things you need one day when he is gone and seek refuge with a friend or a women's shelter. I'm sorry you've found yourself in such a desperate situation, but don't make a bad situation worse by sticking around and thinking things will change.

    I completely agree with this! And please remember, if you do leave, don't ever go back... no matter what he says... it will only get worse from there and he will be even more suspicious of you.

  2. So sorry for your loss. I hope that you find the strength to cope in your time of grief. (F)

    In relation to your question, I think you should do an InfoPass. Your situation has changed and USCIS should be informed. If you don't inform them and you end up getting the new card based on a joint filing, it might have implications down the line if you decide to apply for citizenship. Better safe than sorry.

    Vanessa&Tony's advice was spot on in my opinion. All the best!

  3. You are very emotional because of the pregnancy. Just try to take things easy and not worry about things too much. When it comes in your head, don't think about it. Now is not the time to be trying to solve issues, but a time to take care of yourself. Congratulations on your pregnancy :)

    I completely agree with this poster. OP your issues can be worked out with a little more communication and perhaps you will find that your mind will be a bit clearer after delivery.

    Think about it... you have been here almost two years and so far you've been having a wonderful life for the most part...

    You'll be fine :) I wish you all the best for your labour and delivery :thumbs:

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