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Hi there..thanks for stopping by my page. I see you started your time line but I know there is a story here...2009? Inbox me so that we can share. Maybe I can impart something into what you are going thru.. God always gives a word...I depend on that day by day. Soon

HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL MY VJ FAM... If your loved one is here enjoy your new beginning and if your loved one is still waiting.. now is the time to keep going... the struggle is worth it. I love you guys...keep pushing.

HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL MY VJ FAM... If your loved one is here enjoy your new beginning and if your loved one is still waiting.. now is the time to keep going... the struggle is worth it. I love you guys...keep pushing.

The Ahuwa Christmas Get Together is about to be on and Poppin this Sunday... RCHOA in full effect...But can I tell yall I'm so tired..Shoping, Cooking, lil Decorating.. setting up Music...but it's goin to be off the Chain... my knees might be killing me but I'm going to dance like never before... Hubby better keep up..Wish I could invite all of you guys. Got to come up with a way for us all to celeberate together!

welcome to VJ...great to meet you..If you have any questions...I'm here. or if you just need to talk... I'm here for that too.

Welcome. I see that you are new here. You have not filled in your time line. Please fill in your time life. It will help me as well as others help you thru your process. I love helping people so you are welcome to ask anything you need advice or guidance on. Happy to meet you.

THIS BIRTHDAY WAS SOOOO GREAT. HUBBY GOT TO SPOIL ME AND I SOAKED IT UP. IN THE WORDS OF TEDDY P....IT FEELS SO GOOD LOVING SOMEBODY AND SOMEBODY LOVES YOU BACK.

I have to pat myself on the back and pop my collar..I'm a super shero! My name is Wonder Wife able to conquer my husbands spending habbits with a single NO! Yaay to Wonder Wife for shutting that wallet down with my laser eyes and lightning words! All I need now is theme music. LOL

HEY NOW! JUST STOPPING BY TO SAY HELLO. WE HAVEN'T SPOKEN IN A WHILE...HOW IS EVERYTHING? MISSED YA...I KNOW YOU HAD A WONDERFUL THANKSGIVING...OURS WAS QUIET PRINCE HAD TO WORK. SO CHRISTMAS IS ON THE WAY..YOU READY? I NEED TO SHOP..I'M PROBABLY THE ONLY WOMAN I KNOW THAT HATES SHOPPING..LOL PRINCE HAS TO WORK THAT DAY TOO..SAD. LET ME HEAR FROM YA..

your husband. Allow him to take the lead as head of house but...do what you have to do to maintain..feel me. Adjustment will come..prayer for endurance not patience. Pray together and play together...keep it fresh...try new things....and sister..COOK...COOK feed that man. He will eat some of the food we eat but try to find either a African market or a restaurant that makes Nigerian food. Enjoy

and not every situation warrants an argument. He's a man..an African man so he's thoughts and will for the marriage will be strong. So lead by example..teach by doing..I say this because certain things can and will be taken out of context when you verbalize it. Be calm when you talk to him...as strong American women we can go from 0-100 in not time. Stand you ground but allow him to be ...

you only have one more day..right? well I try to be honest about everything that happens once he get's off that plane...It's a fairy tale when we travel to Nigeria..don't get me wrong it's all love but the culture shock comes into play. You are now under one roof so you have to LEARN TO BE MARRIED that means neither one of you should expect perfection. Bend don't break

HEY NOW... YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO BE COMING DOWN HERE??? LADYBUG..I DO MY BEST TO BE HONEST ABOUT OUR LIVES NOW THAT HE IS HERE IN THE STATES. FOR THE MOST PART IT'S BEAUTIFUL...BUT THEN THERE ARE TIMES WHEN...LAWD HAVE MERCY! BUT WE LEARN HOW TO BE MARRIED DAY BY DAY..NO ONE STARTS OUT KNOWING HOW TO BE MARRIED..WE HERE ON VJ ARE WORKS IN PROGRESS. INBOX ME YOUR NUMBER.

NIGERIAN PARTY CELEBRATION.....OWERRI PARTY NOV 23 1102 DOWNS ROAD STE-A PINEVILLE NC 28134 SPECIAL INVITATION ....PARTY STARTS AT 9....WE WILL MEET AT 10PM. REAL CHARLOTTE HOUSEWIVES OF AFRICA REPRESENT... AFRICAN ATTIRE IF YOU HAVE IT...IF NOT DRESS OR DRESS CASUAL SEXY

THANKS FOR THE WELL WISHES. I TRY TO KEEP MY UPDATES HONEST..LIFE BEGINS FOR REAL AT THE POE. I'VE BEEN BLESSED..HUBBY IS A HARD WORKER AND SUPPORTS ME. DON'T GET ME WRONG..WHEW WE CAN GO AT IT SOMETIMES BUT WE BRING IT BACK IN FAST. YOUR OWN TIME WILL BE COMING SOON..ONCE YOU GET PAST THIS NEXT STEP IT'S GOING TO START GOING FAST....REAL FAST. CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR ENDURANCE AND JUS...

UPDATE: It has been one year today Nov 19 that Prince has been in the United States. Boy time goes fast. But in all that time there was so much growth. I...mean Marriage is definately taking care of one another. We've gone thru one huge surgery, sicknesses. Loss of employmemt, struggles to keep going...however we've gone thru gainful employment, two new cars, nursing eachother thru illnesses learning to communicate effectively, how to deal with anger and how to love boundlessly and al...

CONGRATS! I KNOW THE PROCESS WAS LONG BUT YOU MADE IT THRU! HAPPINESS AND BLESSINGS TO YOU

WHAT'S UP CHICA? EVERYTHING IS FINE. LIFE AS USUAL..UPS AND DOWNS BUT WE TAKE THE STRUGGLE TOGETHER. DON'T GET ME WRONG...SOMETIMES I WANT TO BUST HIM UP..LOL BUT I LOVE ME SOME HIM. HOW ABOUT YOU GUYS..YALL GOOD?

Date Night last Saturday was nice. As we got dressed in our seperate corners we both came out wearing red and black...as usual we dress alike unplanned. I aint patting myself on the back but when we stepped out we looked good together...so I know.. I DONE GOOD!

thanks for the add. If you have questions or just wanna talk...always here! congrats on finally making it under the same roof.

WOW...My husband is very supportive and works hard..but I'm beginning to suspect that he is also very spoiled... I starting to think that it's my doing..??? grrr..DID I DO THAT?

Next month the husbands will have been here for a year..wow how time flies.

I see you stopped by my page...how is everything? Inbox me with what's up. Later

thanks for the add. If you have any questions I'm officially a vet..lol