HARMONY2012

Why can't we all just get along?????
If you don’t have anything of substance to say then keep your nonsense comments to yourself...OMG!! What's the problem??? Some people act like they own this site and no one can post topics that they feel...Seriously lighten up!! It’s only a forum....And a forum that’s supposed to be helpful and fun and we prepare for our loved ones to come and be with us. If you want to belittle people this is not the place....And to need to keep it movin....
S_R thank you for your post...It was very helpful to me and I am sure it will be very helpful to others who are going through Lagos!

I don't think S_R was "puting a price on love", but rather looking back at the journey from beginning to where he is now. I have done that many times myself....so to say it will not "end well" just for reflecting on the financial aspect of this journey is a little harsh. Anyways S_R nice post....you forgot the cost of having university credentials evaluated .

Wise men keep silent and then speak once they have achieved. Wish you the best of luck "Genuine Immigrant", and I will surely be waiting to hear your "APPROVAL in a couple weeks".
May God Bless.

I am not saying that at all at all, please dont twist this.....I am speaking specifically to your case...and I am simply saying that YES it's good to be confident...I am also confident, but to go around saying "I know I will be APPROVED, I will be APPROVED" is setting yourself up to look foolish....keep it close to you so when it happens then you can SCREAM IT TO THE WORLD....becuase there is ALWAYS a chance it might not so then you have now made yourself look silly...believe me im rooting for all the genuine relationships. Anyways declare it and keep it close to you then when it happens you can now tell the world....But seems you have your own way of doing things and thats fine.
Wonders shall never end.....Me selfish? LOL...If you only knew....Look at yourself very well my dear someone who has no timeline and who has been "secretly reading several posts..while going thru my visa petition", and who's only post on VJ has been to tell the whole world that he will be "APPROVED". Abeg, im not here to fight with anyone....I have said my own and I stand by it....Like I said before May God Bless your journey...

Wise men keep silent and then speak once they have achieved. Wish you the best of luck "Genuine Immigrant", and I will surely be waiting to hear your "APPROVAL in a couple weeks".
May God Bless.

I am not saying that at all at all, please dont twist this.....I am speaking specifically to your case...and I am simply saying that YES it's good to be confident...I am also confident, but to go around saying "I know I will be APPROVED, I will be APPROVED" is setting yourself up to look foolish....keep it close to you so when it happens then you can SCREAM IT TO THE WORLD....becuase there is ALWAYS a chance it might not so then you have now made yourself look silly...believe me im rooting for all the genuine relationships. Anyways declare it and keep it close to you then when it happens you can now tell the world....But seems you have your own way of doing things and thats fine.
Wonders shall never end.....Me selfish? LOL...If you only knew....Look at yourself very well my dear someone who has no timeline and who has been "secretly reading several posts..while going thru my visa petition", and who's only post on VJ has been to tell the whole world that he will be "APPROVED". Abeg, im not here to fight with anyone....I have said my own and I stand by it....Like I said before May God Bless your journey...

Why can't we all just get along?????
If you don’t have anything of substance to say then keep your nonsense comments to yourself...OMG!! What's the problem??? Some people act like they own this site and no one can post topics that they feel...Seriously lighten up!! It’s only a forum....And a forum that’s supposed to be helpful and fun and we prepare for our loved ones to come and be with us. If you want to belittle people this is not the place....And to need to keep it movin....
S_R thank you for your post...It was very helpful to me and I am sure it will be very helpful to others who are going through Lagos!

Why can't we all just get along?????
If you don’t have anything of substance to say then keep your nonsense comments to yourself...OMG!! What's the problem??? Some people act like they own this site and no one can post topics that they feel...Seriously lighten up!! It’s only a forum....And a forum that’s supposed to be helpful and fun and we prepare for our loved ones to come and be with us. If you want to belittle people this is not the place....And to need to keep it movin....
S_R thank you for your post...It was very helpful to me and I am sure it will be very helpful to others who are going through Lagos!

Why can't we all just get along?????
If you don’t have anything of substance to say then keep your nonsense comments to yourself...OMG!! What's the problem??? Some people act like they own this site and no one can post topics that they feel...Seriously lighten up!! It’s only a forum....And a forum that’s supposed to be helpful and fun and we prepare for our loved ones to come and be with us. If you want to belittle people this is not the place....And to need to keep it movin....
S_R thank you for your post...It was very helpful to me and I am sure it will be very helpful to others who are going through Lagos!

Why can't we all just get along?????
If you don’t have anything of substance to say then keep your nonsense comments to yourself...OMG!! What's the problem??? Some people act like they own this site and no one can post topics that they feel...Seriously lighten up!! It’s only a forum....And a forum that’s supposed to be helpful and fun and we prepare for our loved ones to come and be with us. If you want to belittle people this is not the place....And to need to keep it movin....
S_R thank you for your post...It was very helpful to me and I am sure it will be very helpful to others who are going through Lagos!

Your a riot! Lol...I like that...

Hi Love....HAHA....Giiiirrrrrl glad I struck you as someone who could care less at what people say or do because you are absolutely correct. Anyways I was not really asking about my situation specifically and might have worded my post as if I was...I just wanted to hear what people thought it general about the stigma placed on people coming to America that they only want a visa (thought it would be an interesting topic, come to find out its been covered on VJ...LOL). Anyways there is nothing that anyone can say or do that can break the bond my sweetheart and I have built, WE know what we have been through and where we are going....Love, keep strong and keep pushin...You know that God is working all this out for you two...Always in my prayers....XOXO
Thank you everyone for your input and opinions.

AwWw...See you didnt even waist time to send them right back the information they are looking for.....You guys will be fine...
This is the time to put your whole trust in God because he is the one really in total control....He is a faithful God and WILL get you guys through this.
GoodLuck!

Thank you everyone! I really appreciate your input on this topic! Payxibca....Maybe I was not clear in my question, but I have a binder full of all kinds of evidence of proof of an ongoing relationship....I was just asking specifically of the western union receipts and if they would be good to include or not. Of course I know I can't just use WU receipts as sole evidence.

Lol...well said....

The first thing is too have that faith in God that He is in Control of this whole process. I pray to Him everyday to show us the way and guide and protect us...He is a faithful God and will NEVER let us down. Also, I am in nursing school, so that keeps me very busy as I am always studying...But now that my summer classes are over, I went out and bought a binder and a photo album and started putting some of the paperwork and evidence together needed for his interview. For me that makes time go by soooo fast....I also try and talk to him on the phone everyday, even if its for 5 mins....
Wishing you all the best of luck...XOXO