Wife raped

[Jim♥Michelle 0]

[Dakine 26]

i agree now that its time for the thread to end.

the OP has made his mind up early in the posts to believe his wife and not the common sense and red flags pointed out here on the board.

the common theme of if the wife was raped or had consensual sex with her boyfriend is a moot point. the overwhelming advice is they will be denied at interview unless the wife has police report to back her story. She wont do that since the philippines is very harsh on that crime and if he was her boyfriend she couldnt do that to him. once they are denied at the interview, the OP can either choose to move there and live with his wife, have a long distance marriage, which he doesnt seem able to afford to travel alot,or divorce her since they cant be together here in the usa. the only hope they have of her coming here is her to file charges to make her case legitimate.

Im willing to bet if the OP pressured her to file charges on the guy, she wouldnt even if it meant having the USA husband divorce her, harsh as that sounds. she has the old guy, the baby and can always meet another foreigner in the future to give her another life once all this stuff has cooled down and time has passed from the birth of the child. right now she is trying to salvage what she can out of this mess, but she cant without going the distance. her words are not enough in the boards opinion. i really feel sorry for her and the husband.

thread is dead.

Chris

divorce her since they cant be together here in the usa.

The sad thing is there isn't divorce in the Philippines only annulment which takes a couple 1000 bucks.

If the pinay was telling the truth and it was truely rape and the OP truely loves the lady and wants her to have a decent life she is pretty much screwed in being able to move on with her life as it looks like the OP is broke and can't help her in anyway.

There is no way the average Filipina can afford an annulment.

Bottomline is is not to marry in the Philippines if you are short on money and can't finish what you started.

Lots of married pinay in PI have been "hung out to dry" when visas were denied.

Guys can get a divorce easily in the US and move on with their lives.

One click on the computer and the pinay is history.

Fiance visas are the "safest" way to go for all concerned.

[Donna A 4]

is rape a common thing in the phillapeans? someone else here had the same story a while back...wife raped and now pregnant by rapist. dont remember how it turned out tho.

[archie07 0]

is rape a common thing in the phillapeans? someone else here had the same story a while back...wife raped and now pregnant by rapist. dont remember how it turned out tho.

I believe somewhere in this thread the guy said his wife was denied. I do agree with others though, there isn't much more advice we can give Dave accept for his wife maybe having a consultation with an immigration lawyer.