trusting your fiance

[KarenCee 3]

honestly jealousy and trust issues have never come up between us at all. Even being in totally different countries we've just never worried about it.

I think when one of us has a super spectacular evening or weekend...we get a little twinge of "Awwwwhhhh *boo hoo* I wish I was there with you"

Just looked at your timeline! WOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!! Glad to know he's coming home soon!

*grin* Hey thanks!! I am thrilled!

Everything good on your end???

Incredible! It will soon be one year that Joel came home. He's working for the Georgia DNR...starting out small but there is a future there! We were just up that way last weekend...went through Charlotte on our way to WV. We met Rebeccajo and her hubby. Had a great time! Next time we're up that way we'll have to meet up!

[ajames79 0]

honestly jealousy and trust issues have never come up between us at all. Even being in totally different countries we've just never worried about it.

I think when one of us has a super spectacular evening or weekend...we get a little twinge of "Awwwwhhhh *boo hoo* I wish I was there with you"

Just looked at your timeline! WOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!! Glad to know he's coming home soon!

*grin* Hey thanks!! I am thrilled!

Everything good on your end???

Incredible! It will soon be one year that Joel came home. He's working for the Georgia DNR...starting out small but there is a future there! We were just up that way last weekend...went through Charlotte on our way to WV. We met Rebeccajo and her hubby. Had a great time! Next time we're up that way we'll have to meet up!

no kidding!! That is so cool. Keep me up to date when you guys do that again. The next 4-5 months I am going to assume will be nuts but we LOVE road trips!

Wow I can't believe Joel has been here almost a year! Whoa baby!

and with that...and I know it isn't important...and I have been a member here for well over a year...I HAVE A HEART~ and it is so pretty!

Now....back to topic!

Edited April 8, 2007 by ajames79

[rebeccajo 14]

honestly jealousy and trust issues have never come up between us at all. Even being in totally different countries we've just never worried about it.

I think when one of us has a super spectacular evening or weekend...we get a little twinge of "Awwwwhhhh *boo hoo* I wish I was there with you"

Just looked at your timeline! WOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!! Glad to know he's coming home soon!

*grin* Hey thanks!! I am thrilled!

Everything good on your end???

Incredible! It will soon be one year that Joel came home. He's working for the Georgia DNR...starting out small but there is a future there! We were just up that way last weekend...went through Charlotte on our way to WV. We met Rebeccajo and her hubby. Had a great time! Next time we're up that way we'll have to meet up!

And we had a blast!

[NYGirl 0]

Without trust there is no relationship.

Does he give you any reasons to be jelous or to make you feel the way you feel?

For the 1st time in my life I trust a man ( my fiance) completely without any stupid thoughts going through the back of my mind, and that's an awesome feeling that I never have to think or worry about " what if". He has NEVER gave me any reasons to be jelous or to even think there might be any other woman.........And I hardly ever trust people especially man, i always used to check on my EXes and it never occured to me to check on my fiance and that really means something.

My instincts are very strong and if i sense something than it's usually right and with him I just know and feel that he's 100% committed only to me

I don't have a problem when he goes out and he doesn't mind me going out. Even when i tell him that i am extremely bored and have nothing to do he's the one that tells me " go out, do something". We spend so much time talking to each other seeing each other on computer that i would be surprised if he found any time to do something with another person Schol, work and then me on computer until he falls asleep ( he's 7hrs ahead of me)

We're really supportive of each other and trust one another all the way. Maybe now for the 1st time ever I know that he's THE ONE and he feels the same. It'll be our 1st marriage for both of us

Edited April 8, 2007 by NYGirl

[Peikko 1,575]

You either trust someone, or you don't and the distance is irrelevant. If someone is a cheater they'll do it whether you live 1 mile or 5,000 miles apart. You need to have emotional maturity to enter a long term, commited relationship. If one person feels insecure then there is a problem somewhere along the line which needs to be worked out if you want to end up having a successul monogomous relationship, at least, in my opinion