Stuck in Ap cancel and marry advice please

[Renee2016 14]

Its very frustrating we want to see each other but we are scared to touch his passport. This really needs to change some people get their visas in 60 days. Others like me just get stuck our wedding date was dec 31 i never thought about this happening

[Dima_April 9]

I would strongly advise you go to see him and not the other way around. We were told not to visit, unless I went to his country; there is a possibility they would view it as a means to by pass immigration laws and he could be barred from entering the US for a very long time. The question they asked me: Do you have the kind of money it would take to fix that problem? I do not; so we cancelled our engagement party. Remember if you marry him there, you still have to go through AP. If you marry and fly home, you don't have to necessarily prove domicile; but can you really demonstrate the validity of your relationship if you are still living apart? It's a catch 22. Believe me, I feel your pain.