Packet 3 and other questions (split)

[KimMerrell 0]

Greetings,

I am understanding so much more.

1. Our application I-129-F made it through the NVC ok.

2. NVC sent approved I-129-F to Consulate.

3. Consulate sent Package 3 to my fiancé.

Package 3: This 'next step' is where errors could occur to cause us to falter. My fiancé "and I" are required to do 'all the work' to get Package 3 returned to the Consulate, 'in a timely manner, correctly.' Of course I will help her every step along our way. Why not?

A. Instructions in Package 3 are very complete.

B. Package 3 must be filled in according to instructions. No exceptions. There is no defense for not following instructions, other than human error. We both have access to, are given instructions in our home languages.

Yes, instructions are sometimes difficult to follow when encountering:

A. language/reading obstacles:

B. Reading/writing levels are lower than the writing level.

In our case, my fiancé is able to comprehend and understand what she needs to do. We are fortunate she has command of the English language, and the foresight to know where she needs clarification.

We must recognize our responsibilities together. We discuss everything together. More than one time. Yes, it can be tenuous. Where she/we find items may be incomplete, incorrectly answered, we discuss the matter together again. We do it to the best of our combined abilities.

She is very animate about getting everything correct to the consulate the first time. I am so thankfully blessed by her forbearance.

An attorney explained to me "During the interview, your fiancé does not have the rights I do as an American citizen, she is a foreign national."

Yes, we believe honesty is everything in this process. Be confident, humble and respectful.

As long as everything is filled in correctly, their work entails "THEN" to explore her character, your character, the validity of your relationship as it "meets"

"their" guidelines. We must remember, they are human. While our case is the most important to us, it is just another case to them.

A. Some cases are rejected, visa denied, for reason of incomplete information: 'Get the information to them.'

B, Some visas are denied because there are circumstances in them that need clarification: 'Clarify/answer their questions clearly.

C. Some visas are denied because the fiancé/fiancée and you are not 'proving to the Consulate Officer' your relationship is benefice, 'for real.' This again, is according to their guideline, their perceived genuineness of your relationship.

1. This is set in place by reviewing your relationship in an historical context, according to their guidelines and their experience.

My fiancé and I know it is impossible for us to be denied based upon our relationship. But, we must remain resolute together in our strength as a couple, all they know is what they see on a paper presentation.

2. Consulate Officer will rightfully request you satisfy their request for more information.

3. My fiancé and I must take the responsibility to act if we see the Consulate pushing paper without consideration of its meaningful content. Even then, everything is subject to their scrutiny, or lack thereof.

Again, they are human, we are human. Thus the words "human error."

Hopefully, this forum will help us all as we follow our individual paths. My "rattling on" here is meant to be helpful, I pray not offensive in any way. We are all doling our best.

We must remember, it is our responsibility to do everything honestly and correctly, we are all going through this together, the key words are; "we are going through this together because we are worth the journey."

Blessings.

KimMerrell

[aleful 1,905]

hi kim

you should start your own thread in the forum of K1

this is the forum of citizenship, nothing to do with K1 or consular processing