RFE at AOS interview

[Mily90 8]

Hello everyone

My husband and i had our interview yesterday did not go as plan my husband forgot our wedding day i was very shocked alittle pissed off but after all he is very forgetfull person with the dates but that is nothing we showed the io pictures of our wedding and showed her that we had one credit card joint she asked if we hhad bank accouns joint and i said not yet she said anything else like life insurhealth insirance i told her were are just getting started and havent been able to get anything she told us we did not have abuthing toghter and that wewere getting an rfe to prove that we are a bonafied marriage. And that we have 12 weeks to submit the paperwork lnowing me i got a little sentimetal its just sad i tought they would not ask for that so i did not think about these things

My question idoes anyone know id its too late to actually join him to my bank accounts and put him on my 401k as the beneficiary?

Any input wod be very helpful

Thank you

Emi

[queng 5]

Hello everyone

My husband and i had our interview yesterday did not go as plan my husband forgot our wedding day i was very shocked alittle pissed off but after all he is very forgetfull person with the dates but that is nothing we showed the io pictures of our wedding and showed her that we had one credit card joint she asked if we hhad bank accouns joint and i said not yet she said anything else like life insurhealth insirance i told her were are just getting started and havent been able to get anything she told us we did not have abuthing toghter and that wewere getting an rfe to prove that we are a bonafied marriage. And that we have 12 weeks to submit the paperwork lnowing me i got a little sentimetal its just sad i tought they would not ask for that so i did not think about these things

My question idoes anyone know id its too late to actually join him to my bank accounts and put him on my 401k as the beneficiary?

Any input wod be very helpful

Thank you

Emi

1. did you file jointly on your tax???? that can be one documents you can show

2. Do you own a house??? or you rent?? Lease contract is second documents (just make sure both your name is on that contract IF NOT ask for the landlord to make a letter that stating both of you leave at the same address)

3. since you have joint credit card show the monthly statement of your credit card make sure both of your names is there (If not call the credit card company and ask if you can have a letter stating that you and your husband have a joint account in their company)

4. affidavits sworn to or affirmed by third parties having personal knowledge of the bona fides of the marital relationship (Each affidavit must contain the full name

and address, date and place of birth of the person making the affidavit, his or her relationship to the petitioner of beneficiary, if any, and complete information and details explaining how the person acquired his or her knowledge of your marriage);

hope this will help...

[love4life09 15]

It's not too late to add him as a joint bank account holder ,you NEED to do that.

Can you add him to your lease or mortgage?

Life insurance? At your age you can get a policy for under 25 bucks per month.

Maybe add him to car insurance for secondary type evidence?

Utilities? Most of our utility companies would not add my wife but the Gas company did ! So it was worth the effort.

For ROC you will need a couple of notarized statements from friends of bonafide marriage maybe you can get them for AOS as well? Anything will help.

Capital One has a credit card with a 500 dollar limit and is great for building BOTH of your credit scores.

Just some ideas , best wishes