what would you do,i need real answers please!!!!!!!

[ziggy`s wife 1]

guys, i believe i was raelly happy as well as my husband as we waited for 4 long years to get through uscis and nvc,finally we got interview, passed and i arrived in the US with our two children, 4 and 1 g n b, but after being hear for awhile i feel as if i do not know this man who struggled so hard, paid all fees and even getting into the Us army just to get citizenship in order to bring us over faster,3 months after our arrival,I found letters and emails addressed to my husband from his supposed bussiness partner whom i know as a very worthy woman living back home,I comfronted him and he told me that they were about to go into a relationship but for no reason it did not happen,I didn`t believe this but because I love my husband I did not confront the lady, niether did i make a big deal a out of it,I later found out that he still communicate with her on phone, I asked him once again he said its solely bussiness,i cant say i believed him on tht one.guys the big deal is i just realised the man I marraide and have kids for is simply something i cant describe he cant live with just one woman, I have seen numeruos love letters and pictures from a whole lot of different women,i always get heart breaks anytime i hack into his phone or email because i always find another different woman,If I confront him he says he did those things when we were seperated but now he does it no more, but can you believe i was able to open his locked phone and saw a conversation between he and another brand new woman whom he seems to know and been dation for a while,i treathened to leave him but he begged me to stay, I try my hardest to trust him and maintain the trust and love i have for him but its just so hard, his cell phone is always locked,i dont want to pick his call even when he is in the bathroom becuase am sceared of what i might find out again. the amazing part is that he tells me all the nice things that every woman wants to hear from a man,he buys me a lot of good things,he loves our kids and plays with them all the time,he never denies me any of my needs or wants I can feel he tries to hide his bad side in order to maintain our relationship and the home but it seems he is adicted to sex with various women, in a nutshell my husband is a two faced he goat lol!! I hope there is a way I can make him stop all that because afterall he makes me feel loved???????????does he??or he is just fooling me for his kids??????

GUYS PLEASE I NEED SERIUOS ANSWERS FROM YOU BECAUSE I DONT KNOW IF MY HUSBAND LOVES ME, I love him and will not like to leave him because of my children,I dont wont to go through divorce because i have a very bitter experince from my stepmother as a child i was 16 years befoer i got to meet my own mother after so much malthretment from my stepmother.

I DONT WONT DIVORCE,AM AFRAID FOR MY KIDS AND MYSELF,I LOVE MY HUSBAND BUT DOES HE LOVE ME? I NEED REAL OPINIONS, ADVISES, ANYTHING GUYS AM CONFUSED MY HUSBAND IS A HE GOAT!lol!!!

[keyshawn18 52]

Honestly its very hard to read and follow this story.I am not sure what you are asking here?

[ghanalover 7]

Thats a gh man for u I met a guy wwnt to visit him in gh and everything and I literally got my #### beat to the ground because he was ashanti and my sons dad was ewe and I wanted to leave to visit family. Ive dated three gh my sons father was the best but was controlling im now with another gh is he was very much like ur situation but he has really changed he gave me his password to fbook emails and he actually uses my gmail account on his phone and has everything back up to I even have all his contacts in my phone

[NYAMEYEODO 0]

So sorry to hear your story. am not a relationship expect but i can say be patient and pray to God to restore the man you met years ago.

There is a saying that goes by "far from the eyes is far from the heart'. there is no excuse for cheating but i tell u, this immigration journey

force people to do things way beyond understanding. the stress, loneliness, depression and all that evil.

Be patient because am in similar situation. my wife did same to me. i found things very disturbing about what seperation can do.

am still hanging on beacuse i know the lady i met years ago. sad people can be stereotype already.

My mama used to say "the grass is not greener anywhere but where u water it". take time to celebrate the goodness in him and your family as a whole.

God is good. We are here for you.

[ziggy`s wife 1]

So sorry to hear your story. am not a relationship expect but i can say be patient and pray to God to restore the man you met years ago.

There is a saying that goes by "far from the eyes is far from the heart'. there is no excuse for cheating but i tell u, this immigration journey

force people to do things way beyond understanding. the stress, loneliness, depression and all that evil.

Be patient because am in similar situation. my wife did same to me. i found things very disturbing about what seperation can do.

am still hanging on beacuse i know the lady i met years ago. sad people can be stereotype already.

My mama used to say "the grass is not greener anywhere but where u water it". take time to celebrate the goodness in him and your family as a whole.

God is good. We are here for you.

thank you so much for the encouraging words, i really appropriate it, my thaught is i really love this man i am not thinking of seperation or devorce now what i need now is more advice from you my good people on how to make him to turn and keep his eyes on me and the kids,I am a person who really love God and always want to stay at peace with everyone aside that i really want to keep my fanily together and happy.

[aws&ndd 103]

I know maybe this will be hard to hear, but he doesnt love you. No man who really truly loves their woman would be sleeping around with someone else. It doesn't matter if he treats you good or maybe makes you feel loved. The fact he is unfaiithful shows his love for you isnt real. Sorry to say it but that is how i see it. If he loved you, he has no reason to be unfaithful.