Child support for a Ukrainian baby?????

[tmma 467]

If I could reach through my monitor and wring your neck right now now I would. ...............

Kip- that's not cool. At all.

[Fandango 1,439]

Actually, can we end this topic or lock it? I think I have the information I came for. The arguing is kind of depressing.

Even more depressing should be the thought that you are worried about money instead of proving paternity before walking away.

Kip- that's not cool. At all.

Yeah, go figure that my comment to someone got invis'd, but this stands. Gotta love the judgment of certain moderators

I do not disagree with people just because they are who they are, something I have seen a lot of from other areas of this site. Anita, if I agree with you, as I do with children, I will say so. If I disagree with you on something else, I will say so. It will not chnage my agreement on the other topic.

It is exceedingly stupid for unmarried people to be making babies without a stable family to raise them in. It is unfair to both the parents and the children. I will not be swayed from that opinion. Children belong in a stable family and it is something the adults need to be willing to sacrifice for and put first in their lives.

People having sex, all fun and good, need to be responsible with their bodily fluids, it is potent stuff and makes things that don't go away and you can't just take an injection for.

It is also not fair game to claim a child is someones and use that child for blackmail or as a source of income

I've personally seen it more rampant in here among the regionals as a whole. Politics trumps all, though.

But otherwise, ITA with your post. In fact, as much as I often disagree with you, I just said something nice about you elsewhere.

[mr and mrs 187]

some alaskans seem to be able to break TOS with impunity. whether it be threats of physical violence or hate speech. shrug.

Edited January 18, 2012 by mr and mrs

[mox 298]

some alaskans seem to be able to break TOS with impunity. whether it be threats of physical violence or hate speech. shrug.

Or as I like to call it, "the RUB Good 'ol Boy Network."

[mr and mrs 187]

Or as I like to call it, "the RUB Good 'ol Boy Network."

you must call it like you see it, eh?

edit: lack of verb

Edited January 18, 2012 by mr and mrs

[Bad_Daddy 2,209]

I'm surprised so many electrons have been wasted on this topic. OP, what you're really asking is for somebody to assuage your guilt. You want the good ol' boy RUB network to pat you on your back and tell you it's ok, not to worry, she's a million miles away in some hick country, she's probably a ####### (which makes her less than human of course), and hey, don't mess up your life just because she had the bad judgment to sleep with you. "Manipulitive" is a nice touch.

Here's the only advice that matters: Either do the right thing or live with being filth for the rest of your life. Those are your choices. You don't need a DNA test to know what you should do, and you certainly don't need to study international law. She was good enough for you to have unprotected sex with, it's a bit late to be second-guessing her motivations now. Man the #### up.

If you really need an out, here it is: send the mom a couple hundred bucks a month for the next 18 years so that YOUR child can have some kind of life. Set up a trust fund so the child can get an education. Is that inconvenient for you? Tough. Be a man and deal with it.

You have the DNA test results mox showing that it's his child, or should he pay some scammer for the next 18 years? Are you recommending on here that peeps pay scam artist because that's what it looks like. He has no way of knowing if it's his kid or not without a DNA test.

So ya, if you have those test results please post them, but please do not advise people on here to feed the scam artist.

some alaskans seem to be able to break TOS with impunity. whether it be threats of physical violence or hate speech. shrug.

Is there a UK forum that you can troll? Last time I checked there was.

[Ban Hammer 12,850]

Actually, can we end this topic or lock it? I think I have the information I came for. The arguing is kind of depressing.

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