RFE Please Help.

[ls1sdgto 0]

I got my rfe because i need more evidence of have met within 2 years. the thing is that i dont have no stamp on my passport because i live in san diego and she lives in tijuana and well its not required. i dont have any airline tickets neither, i mean i litteraly live 5 minutes away from the border. The one thing i do have is the certificate of my childs birth abroad. the dates they want the evidence from is may 2009 - may 2011. my child was born on oct 2011 so that clearly means i have to had been with her 9 months ago from the date my child was born. but please advise me on this. i dont know what to send out. thanks in advanced.

[TeapotGirl 66]

Is there any paper being signed before you cross the border to Mexico? Tollway ticket at least?

Edited November 5, 2011 by teapotgurl1983

[TeapotGirl 66]

Pictures, credit card transaction done in Tijuana, hotel receipt..

[ls1sdgto 0]

Is there any paper being signed before you cross the border to Mexico? Tollway ticket at least?

nope, nothing. the only thing i can think of is that if every time i cross back to the USA if it stays in the customs system and if i can get like a print out.????? but idk. HELP

[TeapotGirl 66]

There you go. Your situation is kinda unusual for the rest here. Most peeps fly to meet their partners face to face. I assume there's other way there to document the people that crosses the border. There should be. If you can get that kind of paper, then it could be as good as passport. Hopefully we'll get an answer from Tijuanans who have been through your situation.

By the way when you take pictures, include her families, digital date in it, do it on a famous landmark in the area.

[TeapotGirl 66]

Mexicans are not strict to the Americans getting in to Mexico but if you are coming back from Mexico, then there's major scrutiny because of human and drug smuggling. If you can get that kind of paper, then it could be as good as passport.

[TeapotGirl 66]

sorry..tech prob

Edited November 5, 2011 by teapotgurl1983

[TeapotGirl 66]

sorry..tech prob

Edited November 5, 2011 by teapotgurl1983

[ls1sdgto 0]

There you go. Your situation is kinda unusual for the rest here. Most peeps fly to meet their partners face to face. I assume there's other way there to document the people that crosses the border. There should be. If you can get that kind of paper, then it could be as good as passport. Hopefully we'll get an answer from Tijuanans who have been through your situation.

By the way when you take pictures, include her families, digital date in it, do it on a famous landmark in the area.

thanx for the advise......we'll see what happens and if anyone else has anything to say.

[ls1sdgto 0]

anyone????

[DerZinker 4]

How about pictures? Did you submit pictures when you filed the petition? I'm sure you must have some pictures of the two of you together with your son. Pictures that have other family members (yours or hers) in them with either of you are also a big bonus. In my opinion, a picture's worth a thousand words.

Aside from that things like correspondence between the two of you - phone records, emails or anything else you can think of could also help. Any kind of correspondence from family or friends that address you two as a couple is also good.

[mapletree 33]

I am not sure what your situation is and what you submitted, but a declaration under oath might be enough. There is a big difference between saying you have seen her, and stating so under penalty of perjury. You might want to include photos and a statement under penalty of perjury as to the dates of the photos.

[KayDeeCee 4,900]

I got my rfe because i need more evidence of have met within 2 years. the thing is that i dont have no stamp on my passport because i live in san diego and she lives in tijuana and well its not required. i dont have any airline tickets neither, i mean i litteraly live 5 minutes away from the border. The one thing i do have is the certificate of my childs birth abroad. the dates they want the evidence from is may 2009 - may 2011. my child was born on oct 2011 so that clearly means i have to had been with her 9 months ago from the date my child was born. but please advise me on this. i dont know what to send out. thanks in advanced.

How long do you have to send back the RFE? You could try asking at the border for records of your crossings. However, they might not give them to you. You can request them in writing, but it might take longer than you have to return the RFE. If you don't get it in time before you have to send the RFE back, include a copy of your records request along with any other evidence to show you are trying to get the records to prove your crossings: http://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis/menuitem.eb1d4c2a3e5b9ac89243c6a7543f6d1a/?vgnextchannel=34139c7755cb9010VgnVCM10000045f3d6a1RCRD&vgnextoid=34139c7755cb9010VgnVCM10000045f3d6a1RCRD

Photos of you together during the 2 year time frame with her friends and family in some of them, if you have any of those. Receipts from shopping there, hotels, cab rides, ATM withdrawals, etc. Anything that shows you were there during those times. Anything at all you might have received at the border crossing. Notarized affidavits from witnesses that saw the two of you together during those 2 years. Phone records, including any from while you were there, chat logs and emails discussing your trips before and after they occurred.

You could also make an INFO pass appointment and tell them about your situation. Ask them what evidence you could provide to satisfy the 2 year meeting rule.

Good luck!

[ls1sdgto 0]

anyone else have any thought or experience with this kind of situation???

[ls1sdgto 0]

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