Did He ever give money?

[B_J 2,752]

I am covering all expenses for my fiancee! 100%

I'm covering all expenses also. Visa fee, medical, hotel in Manila, and don't forget the plane tickets.

Like others have said, this is something the two of you need to talk about. I know it's tough to bring up the topic of money, but if you need help with the expenses, then it's something you'll have to do. Good luck.

[Tahoma 2,291]

It's a mystery to me how a couple can be engaged to be married and are planning to spend the rest of their lives together as husband and wife, yet they have not discussed their financial situation.

I think it's a red flag.

[~happyndinlove~ 540]

It's a mystery to me how a couple can be engaged to be married and are planning to spend the rest of their lives together as husband and wife, yet they have not discussed their financial situation.

I think it's a red flag.

Certainly seems peculiar.

[lyf's a beach 1]

Thanks for all your replies guys. It's not entirely true we have not discussed the financial situation, we did, the question pertains to asking money when i know he's having a hard time right now..

I appreciate all your answers as some has pointed out a way how they manage their finances when it comes to visa processing and stuff.

[Gumbolette 58]

It's a mystery to me how a couple can be engaged to be married and are planning to spend the rest of their lives together as husband and wife, yet they have not discussed their financial situation.

I think it's a red flag.

Some women tends to build up the respect from their fiances and just doesn't ask a cent or two. I second the motion Tahoma, they have to have some sort of closure how they want to set up the financial part. What I would like to know is that, they want to marry each other ALREADY and still hasn't build that strong foundation to get to know each other as simple as when to give or when to ask.

[tallcoolone 102]

Humme'

Why would you or you fiance post videos on Youtube with your girl wearing her underwear and or bra/panties for the whole world to see?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JxII-9j8Yqs&feature=player_embedded

[Tim/Mav 305]

Why would you or you fiance post videos on Youtube with your girl wearing her underwear and or bra/panties for the whole world to see?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JxII-9j8Yqs&feature=player_embedded

Jelous little Man. Whats your real picture look like there Donny Osmond ? At least we show Ours.

[jrmejia 31]

Why would you or you fiance post videos on Youtube with your girl wearing her underwear and or bra/panties for the whole world to see?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JxII-9j8Yqs&feature=player_embedded

I wanted to question that but I let some one else question it. I don't feel comfortable doing that. But then again that is me.

Is that when we say "too tacky" ?

back to the topic:

My gut opinion tells me that the petitioner should pay in full. Hey read carefully, I said my gut opinion and that is what I did. You are free to do what your guts tell you to do.

my 2 cents

Edited May 7, 2011 by jrmejia

[~happyndinlove~ 540]

Jelous little Man. Whats your real picture look like there Donny Osmond ? At least we show Ours.

IMHO, as a woman, I think your videos/ pictures are inappropriate for public display. Your video is very risques. VJ is not a burlesque site.

Of course, it's ok to up some pictures and video of yourself but, have some couth and show decorum!

Why don't you replace these with some decent ones?!

Edited May 7, 2011 by ~happyndinlove~

[~happyndinlove~ 540]

I wanted to question that but I let some one else question it. I don't feel comfortable doing that. But then again that is me.

Is that when we say "too tacky" ?

my 2 cents

Junior?

Getting that visa makes you BOLD?

That's my 3 cents.

[jrmejia 31]

Junior?

Getting that visa makes you BOLD?

That's my 3 cents.

I don't feel comfy showing pictures like that of my fiancee. But that is me.

Still 2 cents only.

Go pacman! go!

[southcalhog 43]

I don't feel comfy showing pictures like that of my fiancee. But that is me.

Still 2 cents only.

Go pacman! go!

I Would never do that! EVEN IF I WANTED TO, My fiance would never allow me to do that!those pics are for your eyes ONLY!

[jrmejia 31]

I Would never do that! EVEN IF I WANTED TO, My fiance would never allow me to do that!those pics are for your eyes ONLY!

I thought I was alone on this issue!

Go Pac go!

[HappyInHawaii 6]

Im also one of those guys paying all expensis, why cos she was only making 2000 pesos a month working HARD 12 hours days 6 days a week but it did include a little food and a place to sleep.

So it was my decision to put her into a 6 month crash Computer High Skills School. Now she has no time to work. In the end with rent simple apartment 1500, smartbro internet 1000, food and transport plus care for her daughter and a little to her family each month runs me maybe $150 a month. Overall its affordable to me considering it takes care of everything.

Her family members occasionally ask to borrow money for emergencies, so not to be a scrooge but I know the chances of getting paid back can be slim we decided to only borrow 500p max to who ask and not worry about it.

I did a Excel spreadsheet and grand total (not including the monthly 150)for both of them including AOS, airfare, etc ect etc ect its just about $7000. Im not rich, I pretty much live month to month but considering our happiness is really nothing the expense.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JxII-9j8Yqs&feature=player_embedded

I didn't see anything really wrong with his vid, there was no nudity, you see more at the beach.

To each his own

Thats my 86 centavos

I also second - Go Pacman

[I_Am_Pretty 0]

I Would never do that! EVEN IF I WANTED TO, My fiance would never allow me to do that!those pics are for your eyes ONLY!

Same here...