I-129f proof of relationship

[VinhBao MyTam 3]

So far everyone has said that just basic info is better for proof of relationship at this step and all the main evidence is for the consulate. But I had a thought that I want to hear thoughts/experiences on.

It seems that interview #1 is so often a request for some pretty standard info in HCM. If I were to send this in with the I-129f (it does have a pretty vague instruction that you can send any other info you think will show the validity fo the relationship) then wouldn't this info be sent over to the consulate with the packet and then they wouldn't have to waste a whole interview just asking for it. I know some people have had the info with them on 1st visit and the CO refuses to look at it, but just tells them to bring it to the window by X date.... but wouldn't the fact that everything they're requested is not only with my so today, but was already sent to them in the original packet negate their ability to request it and waste our time like that? (I'm thinking timeline, photos, etc...)

[jkelly07 120]

having met physically in two years,evidence your boarding pass, your us passport pages with stamps highlited,color pictures togather, put in a zip lock sandwick bag,phone bill, cell phone bill,e.mails,receipt for engagement ring,receipts from gifts, letters ,cards, every thing needs dates and names on yor pictures,

[ScottThuy 140]

do a search of the VN regional forum for the terms 'frontloaded' or 'frontloading'... at the initial phase of filing it can be a great way to make sure that the CO sees the entire picture when they look at the file rather than just the minimum requirements to get USCIS to approve the petition.. Getting USCIS's approval is small potatoes... almost insignificant in retrospect, but the dealings with the CO and consulate are the biggest hurdle when it comes to HCMC.

Many say that including a notarized timeline of the relationship with the initial filing is a good idea as it shows the CO a step by step progression of the relationship... it can be quite difficult trying to get the CO to see the reality of the relationship after they already have that first impression.. they have refused to accept evidence many times and if something is provided to USCIS, the consulate will find it very difficult to ignore or claim that it does not exist... bear in mind that going overboard when frontloading could backfire as well.

[VinhBao MyTam 3]

do a search of the VN regional forum for the terms 'frontloaded' or 'frontloading'... at the initial phase of filing it can be a great way to make sure that the CO sees the entire picture when they look at the file rather than just the minimum requirements to get USCIS to approve the petition.. Getting USCIS's approval is small potatoes... almost insignificant in retrospect, but the dealings with the CO and consulate are the biggest hurdle when it comes to HCMC.

Many say that including a notarized timeline of the relationship with the initial filing is a good idea as it shows the CO a step by step progression of the relationship... it can be quite difficult trying to get the CO to see the reality of the relationship after they already have that first impression.. they have refused to accept evidence many times and if something is provided to USCIS, the consulate will find it very difficult to ignore or claim that it does not exist... bear in mind that going overboard when frontloading could backfire as well.

Would this timeline need to be notarized by both of us? Or can it be just me? Since I don't want to wait for any additional paperwork to arrive in the mail from Vietnam.

[ScottThuy 140]

Its a document created and signed by you not her... but she will need to 'know' everything in it to the letter... write it up.. sign it when you get it notarized and send it off to her...

[VinhBao MyTam 3]

Its a document created and signed by you not her... but she will need to 'know' everything in it to the letter... write it up.. sign it when you get it notarized and send it off to her...

Hehe, she will definitely 'know' everything in it b/c she is the one who keeps the records. I will definitely be going on her memory with this timeline. :-)

Thanks,

[ScottThuy 140]

[BinhJerome 14]

The poblem with frontloading is what to send. If your fiancee has any relatives currently in the US, then you could send their info in pre interview, the same if you were married, and the timeline as well. The thing is that even if they already have it they can still ask for it again, they can ask for updated info, just because you send it in does not mean they will look at it, and then not ask for it at the interview, and if they want to give a blue, they will give a blue, there is no way around it. If you send in a timeline, and other info, and she messes up on one thing, they might hammer her for it. If for instance the address was 132 S cedar lane Who cares Texas, and she stated it was 123 S. cedar lane who cares texas, this could hurt. Also the same with any info that you submit. This is my biggest problem with frontloading is because the stress can cause a lapse in concentration. Just remember though that this is YOUR petition, and YOUR choice on what to or not to do. You can submit and it help, or hurt, no one really knows for sure, we can only make assumptions based on previous experiences or knowledge, and every time is different. Good luck Jerome