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Me and my ex wife we don’t talk and we have 5 years old child she put me thru hill in divorce and she was found in contempt of court the divorce was nasty but was from her side when we exchange my son we don’t see each other this been bother me I like to get alone with her for the sake of my son but she made it clear that she don’t want to talk to me because (the court rule it was in my favorers )

I don’t like her but I admit that she good mother and love my son I thought about send her a happey mother day card so any thought should I send it or leave like that any suggestion ?

she did me very wrong and try to deport me ?

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I'm sorry you had to go through such a rough time with your ex-wife.

To me, Mother's Day and Father's Day are from the kids. Your feelings toward your former partner are irrelevant on these days.

My son is 6; there's no way he could be responsible for a day like that on his own. So for Father's Day, I ask my son what he wants to do for Dad. Then we do it. My ex and I may no longer be married, but he's still a father. He's still involved in being a father, too. The same goes for Dad's birthday and Christmas.

So, yes, I would send her a card from your son.


USCIS : 104 Days

10-30-2009 : I-130 and Documents Sent

11-06-2009 : NOA1

02-18-2010 : NOA2

NVC : 66 Days

02-24-2010 : Case Number Assigned

02-25-2010 : E-Mails Given to NVC Operator

02-26-2010 : DS-3032 Sent by E-Mail

03-02-2010 : Received DS-3032 and AOS Bill

03-02-2010 : DS-3032 Accepted

03-02-2010 : Pay AOS and IV Bill Online

03-04-2010 : AOS Shows PAID

03-08-2010 : IV Bill Shows PAID

03-09-2010 : AOS and Documents Sent

03-09-2010 : Receive IV Bill

03-19-2010 : DS-230 and Documents Sent

03-24-2010 : False RFE for DS-230; Confirmed AOS Reviewed and No Missing Information Found

04-02-2010 : Sign-In Failed. Thank you, Lord!

04-05-2010 : Case Completed at NVC

04-15-2010 : Majorly Unhappy with NVC

04-30-2010 : Interview Date Assigned

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05-06-2010 : Medical Exam

06-08-2010 : Interview Date -- Approved! Experience and Review

06-18-2010 : Visa Received

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Me and my ex wife we don’t talk and we have 5 years old child she put me thru hill in divorce and she was found in contempt of court the divorce was nasty but was from her side when we exchange my son we don’t see each other this been bother me I like to get alone with her for the sake of my son but she made it clear that she don’t want to talk to me because (the court rule it was in my favorers )

I don’t like her but I admit that she good mother and love my son I thought about send her a happey mother day card so any thought should I send it or leave like that any suggestion ?

she did me very wrong and try to deport me ?

Next time you have your son, before mother's day, take him to the store to get a card/ gift for her. He's too young to do this by himself, but she is his mother. It should come from him, not you.


Timeline Summary:

K-1/K-2 NOA1 - POE: 9 February - 9 July 2010

Married: 17 July 2010

AOS mailed - Interview : 22 November 2010 - 10 March 2011

ROC mailed - approved: 14 February - 18 June 2013

Citizenship mailed - ceremony: 9 February - 7 June 2017

 

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Next time you have your son, before mother's day, take him to the store to get a card/ gift for her. He's too young to do this by himself, but she is his mother. It should come from him, not you.

IMO, this should be the limit of your involvement in the occasion and only because it is an opportunity to teach your child to think of others.


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