What to do about da schmuck?

[FortLaudy 10]

Reading a thread this morning, got me thinking about this guy I know, I'll just copy and paste:

I have this little schmuck acquintance, he sits online all day talking to chicks from Colombia, gets to know them online and sets up meetings for when he goes over to Colombia - with each and every one of them he plays the same game. "I'm gonna help you apply for K1, we're getting married and you're gonna come live with me in America..." he goes as far as taking pics with her and the family and sitting down to dinner with them etc. really disgusting cause he full well knows he's gonna come back having taken them for a ride and it's all been BS to get to sleep with them over there. Over the weekends, when we meet on the beach with some friends of ours this schmuck will come walking over with his ipod and boast with the sex videos he made with these poor girls while he was over there.... word is lately he's been a little low on cash and he's known in Bogota for his stunts over the last 2 years so scared to go back, so he's now working on bringing a girl over on a K1, with no intention whatsoever to marry her, let alone go through with the AOS...

What should I do next time we see him? What would you do if you knew this guy? I always feel the urge to b1tch slap him, but some friends of my husband enjoys the free porn so I generally just avoid him all together and just eavesdrop on the conversation...

[Niels Bohr 72]

Ignore the schmuck, not worth your time dealing with him. You have better things to do.

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

Rape him.

(im not totally serious.. before anyone jumps on me!)

Edited January 18, 2010 by w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r

[FortLaudy 10]

Rape him.

(im not totally serious.. before anyone jumps on me!)

I'm married, but besides that he's not my type. He is ginger and short. I like tall dark and handsome like everyone else, just kidding, lol

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

... he's not my type. He is ginger and short.

You seem to misunderstand the concept of rape as punishment.

[Wyld Blu 35]

I'm married, but besides that he's not my type. He is ginger and short. I like tall dark and handsome like everyone else, just kidding, lol

Personally, I would tell him what a fvcking sleezball he is and the people watching the "free porn." This is just so freaking wrong in SO many ways, not the least of which is letting other people see the innocent women involved in a sexual scenerio against their knowledge.

-Blu-(Don't even know the guy and it has me fuming!)

[FortLaudy 10]

You seem to misunderstand the concept of rape as punishment.

yes, I'm sorry i probably misunderstood you... raping a man to me is when I blindfold the hubby and tie him to the bed... I'll stop there.

[Ali G. 37]

You seem to misunderstand the concept of rape as punishment.

We could pull and A.J and take it out of context. Furthermore, repetitively bring it up for months (even years) to come.

EG: I cannot believe you encourage and endorse rape.

Edited January 18, 2010 by Booyah

[FortLaudy 10]

Personally, I would tell him what a fvcking sleezball he is and the people watching the "free porn." This is just so freaking wrong in SO many ways, not the least of which is letting other people see the innocent women involved in a sexual scenerio against their knowledge.

-Blu-(Don't even know the guy and it has me fuming!)

I would give you his facebook details to find him, but he deleted his facebook recently, I was contemplating on sending an anonymous email or something too... he is so sick!

[Niels Bohr 72]

What's wrong about free porn?

[Wyld Blu 35]

What's wrong about free porn?

Nothing is wrong with free porn unless the parties involved are not clued into the fact that they are on camera, or that the video being taken is going to be widely distributed among the sleezeball's friends. Then it is just exploiting someone to make yourself feel, what? Important? Like a stud? I don't know, but to me...THAT is wrong.

-Blu-

[FortLaudy 10]

What's wrong about free porn?

yeah I don't really judge the friends for watching, the girls are willing participants and knows there's a recording being made - But of course they're thinking they're doing it with their future USC husband so putting on the performance of their lives needlessly and that is wrong... but yeah I can't say anything to my hubby's friends about watching it, what the schmuck is doing over and over is really what's wrong...

[Wyld Blu 35]

I would give you his facebook details to find him, but he deleted his facebook recently, I was contemplating on sending an anonymous email or something too... he is so sick!

Perhaps your husband should confront the a*shole.

-Blu-

[FortLaudy 10]

Perhaps your husband should confront the a*shole.

-Blu-

He does say, "gee man you're such an Azzhole" but the schmuck is so full of himself he doesn't care and laughs it off, almost as a compliment, only when there are a lot of girls around he gets it from them bad, but he doesn't seem to care really, he's quite proud of his achievements.

[Wyld Blu 35]

yeah I don't really judge the friends for watching, the girls are willing participants and knows there's a recording being made - But of course they're thinking they're doing it with their future USC husband so putting on the performance of their lives needlessly and that is wrong... but yeah I can't say anything to my hubby's friends about watching it, what the schmuck is doing over and over is really what's wrong...

I totally disagree. They are willing participants to have a video for the FUTURE HUSBAND, not some ahole who is showing it to everyone who wants to see it. Screw that, there is PLENTY of free porn on the internet without being a participant to someone unknowingly becoming the next porno star on his video. To me, this is abusive. I mean, how would you feel, if you had some steamy sex vids done for your husbands use, and find out at some point, all his friends have seen you in that situation. To me, that is SUCH an invasion of someone's privacy.

-Blu-