delayed fiance visa...lost documents etc

[hipilongstokins 0]

ok this is long winded so imma shorten ...

usa fiance im in uk....we applied for coa and got ....we planned wedding for sept5th as coa asked forevidence of plans etc he got a jo( great job!!) to start in sept...

we decided to go for a fiance visa so we cud marry in church near where my mums buried i just lost..and on finding i was pregnant...i didnt wana fly n we ddnt wana be apart after marriage...

ok so fiance papers file by him when he flew home ...aug 13th.......went for biometrics 21st......all sent...wanted a document...26th aug...sent back same day....heard nothing...finalli got sum1 on sept 2nd...( 3 days before wedding)....they hadnt recieved any documents he wasnt on the system.....UMM WHATTTTT!!............thy loacted them in the mailing room where they had laid for a week !!!........apologys and that the case wud be started right away ...he got *process has begun* email finalli.......and was called friday 4th to say approved n wud have by tues latest n to make travel plans.....nothinggg......until he got threw to lady in ny office who now refuses to put him threw to the lady dealing with the case....who tho sed the file was now upstairs waiting to be stamped.....which then turne dinto days later...waiting on a report...and here we are now....5 weeks later?wedding day gone....job lost this week if he doesnt start...and above all that...i since lost our child iw as carrying since he left...which has put immense stress on us both n heartache being apart....its my birthday tomrrow...n i shud be married n pregnant n with the man i love....instead i have none and alone...

shud we wait ...or shud he use the 3 weeks hes got left of his 6 months visa allowance to come home n help me threw this time...then figure owt what next?

[JimVaPhuong 4,865]

ok this is long winded so imma shorten ...

usa fiance im in uk....we applied for coa and got ....we planned wedding for sept5th as coa asked forevidence of plans etc he got a jo( great job!!) to start in sept...

we decided to go for a fiance visa so we cud marry in church near where my mums buried i just lost..and on finding i was pregnant...i didnt wana fly n we ddnt wana be apart after marriage...

ok so fiance papers file by him when he flew home ...aug 13th.......went for biometrics 21st......all sent...wanted a document...26th aug...sent back same day....heard nothing...finalli got sum1 on sept 2nd...( 3 days before wedding)....they hadnt recieved any documents he wasnt on the system.....UMM WHATTTTT!!............thy loacted them in the mailing room where they had laid for a week !!!........apologys and that the case wud be started right away ...he got *process has begun* email finalli.......and was called friday 4th to say approved n wud have by tues latest n to make travel plans.....nothinggg......until he got threw to lady in ny office who now refuses to put him threw to the lady dealing with the case....who tho sed the file was now upstairs waiting to be stamped.....which then turne dinto days later...waiting on a report...and here we are now....5 weeks later?wedding day gone....job lost this week if he doesnt start...and above all that...i since lost our child iw as carrying since he left...which has put immense stress on us both n heartache being apart....its my birthday tomrrow...n i shud be married n pregnant n with the man i love....instead i have none and alone...

shud we wait ...or shud he use the 3 weeks hes got left of his 6 months visa allowance to come home n help me threw this time...then figure owt what next?

I'm sorry, but in your attempt to make a long story short, you've succeeded in making it incomprehensible, as well.

Who is the beneficiary, and who is the petitioner? When was the fiancee visa filed? What the heck is "coa"? What is this "ny office" he called, and what have they got to do with a fiancee visa?

I get the impression you're talking about a US citizen (your fiance) getting a fiance visa to the UK. Is this correct? If so, this is the wrong forum to ask for advice. This forum deals with family immigration to the US.

Please explain everything clearly.

[Gary and Alla 3,696]

ok this is long winded so imma shorten ...

usa fiance im in uk....we applied for coa and got ....we planned wedding for sept5th as coa asked forevidence of plans etc he got a jo( great job!!) to start in sept...

we decided to go for a fiance visa so we cud marry in church near where my mums buried i just lost..and on finding i was pregnant...i didnt wana fly n we ddnt wana be apart after marriage...

ok so fiance papers file by him when he flew home ...aug 13th.......went for biometrics 21st......all sent...wanted a document...26th aug...sent back same day....heard nothing...finalli got sum1 on sept 2nd...( 3 days before wedding)....they hadnt recieved any documents he wasnt on the system.....UMM WHATTTTT!!............thy loacted them in the mailing room where they had laid for a week !!!........apologys and that the case wud be started right away ...he got *process has begun* email finalli.......and was called friday 4th to say approved n wud have by tues latest n to make travel plans.....nothinggg......until he got threw to lady in ny office who now refuses to put him threw to the lady dealing with the case....who tho sed the file was now upstairs waiting to be stamped.....which then turne dinto days later...waiting on a report...and here we are now....5 weeks later?wedding day gone....job lost this week if he doesnt start...and above all that...i since lost our child iw as carrying since he left...which has put immense stress on us both n heartache being apart....its my birthday tomrrow...n i shud be married n pregnant n with the man i love....instead i have none and alone...

shud we wait ...or shud he use the 3 weeks hes got left of his 6 months visa allowance to come home n help me threw this time...then figure owt what next?

I'm sorry, but in your attempt to make a long story short, you've succeeded in making it incomprehensible, as well.

Who is the beneficiary, and who is the petitioner? When was the fiancee visa filed? What the heck is "coa"? What is this "ny office" he called, and what have they got to do with a fiancee visa?

I get the impression you're talking about a US citizen (your fiance) getting a fiance visa to the UK. Is this correct? If so, this is the wrong forum to ask for advice. This forum deals with family immigration to the US.

Please explain everything clearly.

Please just give us the long version. Those of us here old to to help do not understand text-latin. I have been to the UK, that language you speak there is closer to English than text latin. Lay it on us.

[hipilongstokins 0]

sorry ...

yes im in uk...hes in usa..we met online he came here we got engaged we applied for and got the coa ( certificate of approval) to marry at local registry office...but then decided upon getting the fiance visa so we cud marry in the church and he cud start the job he had gotten while he was here.

he went home sent off the fiance visa to Ny consulate.with all the documents biometrics set copy of the coa even ...we had a wedding date set bcos that was the requirements of the coa....that a wedding was planned n real and he got a job bcos that was also allowed and good for the coa.

in hindsight we shud of marrid on the coa gone back to usa together and got his spouse visa n came back ...the end..

but now we are 5 weeks on since he sent off the application online..they have two times at the Ny consulate askd for more documents...n after once losing them completely for a week ...found them in the mail room...they deeply apologised sed they would be on the case right away ...

This was 3/4 weeks in from sending and we finally recieved the * we are processing yor visa* email...yay

2 days after that email and finding our lost documents ...my fiance in usa was told it had been granted n he cud make travel plans.....n it wud be with him tuesday latest...that sh ejust had to send it upstairs to be stamped...

That was now 10 days ago and last we heard they are waiting on a *report*........

im sorry if my previous was illegable....and for posting in wrong area.....the pressures showning..

[NutMagnet 2]

ok this is long winded so imma shorten ...

usa fiance im in uk....we applied for coa and got ....we planned wedding for sept5th as coa asked forevidence of plans etc he got a jo( great job!!) to start in sept...

we decided to go for a fiance visa so we cud marry in church near where my mums buried i just lost..and on finding i was pregnant...i didnt wana fly n we ddnt wana be apart after marriage...

ok so fiance papers file by him when he flew home ...aug 13th.......went for biometrics 21st......all sent...wanted a document...26th aug...sent back same day....heard nothing...finalli got sum1 on sept 2nd...( 3 days before wedding)....they hadnt recieved any documents he wasnt on the system.....UMM WHATTTTT!!............thy loacted them in the mailing room where they had laid for a week !!!........apologys and that the case wud be started right away ...he got *process has begun* email finalli.......and was called friday 4th to say approved n wud have by tues latest n to make travel plans.....nothinggg......until he got threw to lady in ny office who now refuses to put him threw to the lady dealing with the case....who tho sed the file was now upstairs waiting to be stamped.....which then turne dinto days later...waiting on a report...and here we are now....5 weeks later?wedding day gone....job lost this week if he doesnt start...and above all that...i since lost our child iw as carrying since he left...which has put immense stress on us both n heartache being apart....its my birthday tomrrow...n i shud be married n pregnant n with the man i love....instead i have none and alone...

shud we wait ...or shud he use the 3 weeks hes got left of his 6 months visa allowance to come home n help me threw this time...then figure owt what next?

This must be a new aberration of the Queen's English or an intentional embarrassment thereof. This is not a cell phone hunney. If you want adult answers please address your situation accordingly, the better for this forum in trying to help you.

In any situation, happy birthday and sorry for your miscarriage.

God executes his wisdom in mysterious ways for the betterment of all. Its all about faith.

Your USA fiancee needs to work and to start his new job, it is very unlikely that anything can be accomplished by him being there in person, emotional support notwithstanding.

When dealing with any government agency, expect delays and incompetence. It seems that you are approved and your visa will be issued in due course.

Stress is part of the game when going through the visa process, anyone who has been through this process can testify to the headaches involved.

Keep strong and take care of yourself. You say that your visa has been approved, so its only a matter of time and waiting. Tough and painful waiting, however all this heartache will be forgotten when you fly across the pond and become reunited with your fiancee and start your new life.

Good luck always,

NM

[Gary and Alla 3,696]

sorry ...

yes im in uk...hes in usa..we met online he came here we got engaged we applied for and got the coa ( certificate of approval) to marry at local registry office...but then decided upon getting the fiance visa so we cud marry in the church and he cud start the job he had gotten while he was here.

he went home sent off the fiance visa to Ny consulate.with all the documents biometrics set copy of the coa even ...we had a wedding date set bcos that was the requirements of the coa....that a wedding was planned n real and he got a job bcos that was also allowed and good for the coa.

in hindsight we shud of marrid on the coa gone back to usa together and got his spouse visa n came back ...the end..

but now we are 5 weeks on since he sent off the application online..they have two times at the Ny consulate askd for more documents...n after once losing them completely for a week ...found them in the mail room...they deeply apologised sed they would be on the case right away ...

This was 3/4 weeks in from sending and we finally recieved the * we are processing yor visa* email...yay

2 days after that email and finding our lost documents ...my fiance in usa was told it had been granted n he cud make travel plans.....n it wud be with him tuesday latest...that sh ejust had to send it upstairs to be stamped...

That was now 10 days ago and last we heard they are waiting on a *report*........

im sorry if my previous was illegable....and for posting in wrong area.....the pressures showning..

This is why there needs to be an international ban on text messages. The future generations have no chance of ever being able to communicate with the written language. I can only imagine the future of literature.

You did OK for two sentences, missing a few articles, punctuation marks, etc., but in general no worse than an immigrant with a couple months experience with the English language and enough for me to know you are asking about UK law regarding fiancee visas. This site is dedicated to US family based visas, but there may be someone here with experience in the British system AND able to read your...whatever that is you type. Are you Cockney by chance?

Edited September 20, 2009 by Gary and Alla

[JimVaPhuong 4,865]

sorry ...

yes im in uk...hes in usa..we met online he came here we got engaged we applied for and got the coa ( certificate of approval) to marry at local registry office...but then decided upon getting the fiance visa so we cud marry in the church and he cud start the job he had gotten while he was here.

he went home sent off the fiance visa to Ny consulate.with all the documents biometrics set copy of the coa even ...we had a wedding date set bcos that was the requirements of the coa....that a wedding was planned n real and he got a job bcos that was also allowed and good for the coa.

in hindsight we shud of marrid on the coa gone back to usa together and got his spouse visa n came back ...the end..

but now we are 5 weeks on since he sent off the application online..they have two times at the Ny consulate askd for more documents...n after once losing them completely for a week ...found them in the mail room...they deeply apologised sed they would be on the case right away ...

This was 3/4 weeks in from sending and we finally recieved the * we are processing yor visa* email...yay

2 days after that email and finding our lost documents ...my fiance in usa was told it had been granted n he cud make travel plans.....n it wud be with him tuesday latest...that sh ejust had to send it upstairs to be stamped...

That was now 10 days ago and last we heard they are waiting on a *report*........

im sorry if my previous was illegable....and for posting in wrong area.....the pressures showning..

Ok, as I suspected - fiance visa to the UK.

You didn't post in the wrong area. You posted on the wrong site. This site is for people who are dealing with family immigration to the United States. There aren't many people here who know anything about family immigration to the UK.

Good luck!

[msu17 0]

Try to go over to the UK forum and some individuals on there have experience with UK immigration. Please write your question in ACTUAL english, no cud for could etc. Thanks

[Allie and Nigel 2]

I agree....i dont think England has fiance visa's they just do the spouse ones....and i agree, that WAS hard to comprehend! The British can type and spell and make proper sentences, but maybe this lady was in-experienced in the message board etiquette on how to get a word across...we ARE so used to text-talk we seem to think its ok everywhere huh! Oh well, hope she finds her answer somewhere!! Poor thing!

[hipilongstokins 0]

To those who did help ...thankyou very much.

To those who are supposed to be here to help or guide..( we all make mistakes and im sorry ...agen!)....i didnt come here to be slated or put down for how i type...you could of easily not replied instead doing so ....just what i need after losing a child....thankyou for not helping and upsetting me more.

[Gary and Alla 3,696]

To those who did help ...thankyou very much.

To those who are supposed to be here to help or guide..( we all make mistakes and im sorry ...agen!)....i didnt come here to be slated or put down for how i type...you could of easily not replied instead doing so ....just what i need after losing a child....thankyou for not helping and upsetting me more.

Hey, I slammed you AND helped. I guess I get two points. Besides, pointng out that unintelligible text-speak is not a good way to communicat in the real world is doing you a favor. Someone needs to tell you to get your head out of your...text...and into the real world when speaking to real people. This is the first post you wrote I can make sense of.

[JimVaPhuong 4,865]

To those who did help ...thankyou very much.

To those who are supposed to be here to help or guide..( we all make mistakes and im sorry ...agen!)....i didnt come here to be slated or put down for how i type...you could of easily not replied instead doing so ....just what i need after losing a child....thankyou for not helping and upsetting me more.

Nobody wanted to put you down or make you upset. We were trying to advise you on some things that are considered good manners (and common sense) when posting on internet forums. A few sentences of "SMS speak" on your telephone screen is easy enough to understand. An entire paragraph full of text like this is extremely difficult to read and understand, especially when your sentences are abbreviated as well. I read through your initial post three times - slowly - and I still couldn't understand what your situation was. I sincerely wanted to try to help you, but I was frustrated because I couldn't understand you.

Just so you don't run into similar problems in the future, here's a short list of some things that are considered good manners on an internet forum.

• Don't use "text messaging" abbreviations. (You already know this now). Besides being difficult to read, it gives the reader the impression that you are either very young, or not very intelligent.
• Use proper punctuation and capitalization. Again, it just makes it easier on the reader. unlessyouthingthatsomethinglikethisiseasiertoread
• DON'T USE ALL CAPS. It's considered to be the equivalent of "yelling" at the reader.
• If you have a tendency to misspell a lot of words, then use a spell checker. Many web browsers (Firefox, for example) have one built-in.
• Bear in mind that readers can't see your face when they read what you've written. If you write something that might be misinterpreted as being offensive then use an emoticon to make your intentions clear. Ok, godammit?

[Gary and Alla 3,696]

To those who did help ...thankyou very much.

To those who are supposed to be here to help or guide..( we all make mistakes and im sorry ...agen!)....i didnt come here to be slated or put down for how i type...you could of easily not replied instead doing so ....just what i need after losing a child....thankyou for not helping and upsetting me more.

Nobody wanted to put you down or make you upset. We were trying to advise you on some things that are considered good manners (and common sense) when posting on internet forums. A few sentences of "SMS speak" on your telephone screen is easy enough to understand. An entire paragraph full of text like this is extremely difficult to read and understand, especially when your sentences are abbreviated as well. I read through your initial post three times - slowly - and I still couldn't understand what your situation was. I sincerely wanted to try to help you, but I was frustrated because I couldn't understand you.

Just so you don't run into similar problems in the future, here's a short list of some things that are considered good manners on an internet forum.

• Don't use "text messaging" abbreviations. (You already know this now). Besides being difficult to read, it gives the reader the impression that you are either very young, or not very intelligent.
• Use proper punctuation and capitalization. Again, it just makes it easier on the reader. unlessyouthingthatsomethinglikethisiseasiertoread
• DON'T USE ALL CAPS. It's considered to be the equivalent of "yelling" at the reader.
• If you have a tendency to misspell a lot of words, then use a spell checker. Many web browsers (Firefox, for example) have one built-in.
• Bear in mind that readers can't see your face when they read what you've written. If you write something that might be misinterpreted as being offensive then use an emoticon to make your intentions clear. Ok, godammit?

I never write anything that can be MISinterpreted as offensive!

[NutMagnet 2]

Hipilongstokins:

Have a look at the Discussion Forum message boards at http://britishexpats.com http://britishexpats.com/forum

I trust that you will find your answers as they relate to UK Immigration there.

Good luck always,

NM

Edited September 20, 2009 by NutMagnet

[D&R 0]

Out of interest... how old are you?