What with the argument about being married to an American???

[Kardi_Shian 0]

I don't know how to exactly say this but whenever I bumped to a certain thread with some stupid topics about why Filipinas marry Americans or older Americans or why Americans marry Filipinas and what makes us different from other foreign women; it makes me wonder what we are all trying to prove here because obviously, most of those who posted these kind of topics here are actually married to these Americans. So, what message are we exactly trying to convey here??? And who are we trying to convince here? Other people or just ourselves? Because its totaly foolish. If we have these kind of silly question which we, ourselves actually have the answer then why not ask ourselves about instead? What's your point of asking other people? We have our own reason and whatever it is keep it ourselves because we are all different. We can't just judge anyone around here because we saw other people doing this kind of things. If you found yourself in this category of Filipina women marrying Americans for money, then contemplate and do something about it and quit playing games because it only sounds so defensive and this only makes us worse than what the world already thought about us.

[Raeka 0]

Nothing really.. some people here easily gets bored and starts a topic that first pop into their mind and use it as a thread topic.. haha!

But don't worry! though sometimes we get crazy here, i can assure you we wont bite!!..

I don't know how to exactly say this but whenever I bumped to a certain thread with some stupid topics about why Filipinas marry Americans or older Americans or why Americans marry Filipinas and what makes us different from other foreign women; it makes me wonder what we are all trying to prove here because obviously, most of those who posted these kind of topics here are actually married to these Americans. So, what message are we exactly trying to convey here??? And who are we trying to convince here? Other people or just ourselves? Because its totaly foolish. If we have these kind of silly question which we, ourselves actually have the answer then why not ask ourselves about instead? What's your point of asking other people? We have our own reason and whatever it is keep it ourselves because we are all different. We can't just judge anyone around here because we saw other people doing this kind of things. If you found yourself in this category of Filipina women marrying Americans for money, then contemplate and do something about it and quit playing games because it only sounds so defensive and this only makes us worse than what the world already thought about us.

[Kardi_Shian 0]

Nothing really.. some people here easily gets bored and starts a topic that first pop into their mind and use it as a thread topic.. haha!

But don't worry! though sometimes we get crazy here, i can assure you we wont bite!!..

I don't know how to exactly say this but whenever I bumped to a certain thread with some stupid topics about why Filipinas marry Americans or older Americans or why Americans marry Filipinas and what makes us different from other foreign women; it makes me wonder what we are all trying to prove here because obviously, most of those who posted these kind of topics here are actually married to these Americans. So, what message are we exactly trying to convey here??? And who are we trying to convince here? Other people or just ourselves? Because its totaly foolish. If we have these kind of silly question which we, ourselves actually have the answer then why not ask ourselves about instead? What's your point of asking other people? We have our own reason and whatever it is keep it ourselves because we are all different. We can't just judge anyone around here because we saw other people doing this kind of things. If you found yourself in this category of Filipina women marrying Americans for money, then contemplate and do something about it and quit playing games because it only sounds so defensive and this only makes us worse than what the world already thought about us.

Alright but its absurd and it's rediculous especially when you end up fighting against each other. Have fun then.

[=FoxyBLUE= 2]

I don't know how to exactly say this but whenever I bumped to a certain thread with some stupid topics about why Filipinas marry Americans or older Americans or why Americans marry Filipinas and what makes us different from other foreign women; it makes me wonder what we are all trying to prove here because obviously, most of those who posted these kind of topics here are actually married to these Americans. So, what message are we exactly trying to convey here??? And who are we trying to convince here? Other people or just ourselves? Because its totaly foolish. If we have these kind of silly question which we, ourselves actually have the answer then why not ask ourselves about instead? What's your point of asking other people? We have our own reason and whatever it is keep it ourselves because we are all different. We can't just judge anyone around here because we saw other people doing this kind of things. If you found yourself in this category of Filipina women marrying Americans for money, then contemplate and do something about it and quit playing games because it only sounds so defensive and this only makes us worse than what the world already thought about us.

They are just stupid crazy fat MORONS who i think is not contented with their life...and keep mocking on other people.....

[rheanick 42]

I don't know how to exactly say this but whenever I bumped to a certain thread with some stupid topics about why Filipinas marry Americans or older Americans or why Americans marry Filipinas and what makes us different from other foreign women; it makes me wonder what we are all trying to prove here because obviously, most of those who posted these kind of topics here are actually married to these Americans. So, what message are we exactly trying to convey here??? And who are we trying to convince here? Other people or just ourselves? Because its totaly foolish. If we have these kind of silly question which we, ourselves actually have the answer then why not ask ourselves about instead? What's your point of asking other people? We have our own reason and whatever it is keep it ourselves because we are all different. We can't just judge anyone around here because we saw other people doing this kind of things. If you found yourself in this category of Filipina women marrying Americans for money, then contemplate and do something about it and quit playing games because it only sounds so defensive and this only makes us worse than what the world already thought about us.

The best person to answer you is the person who posted those kind of thread.

But if you try to talk with a psychologist, they have a definite explanation on the psyche of those people. Do have some feedback, but i would refrain in posting it here.

[Raeka 0]

Agreed... Just ignore the posts that you don't like. That's what i do and it keeps me out of trouble.. hehehehehehe

This forum has been really helpful to me but I think we can't avoid people starting a thread which are not related to the Visa processing but you can really tell from the title so If you think it'll not help you, just ignore it. If you wanna just read the posts, its safe, but if you read something that you don't like, don't leave a negative comment, just tell your spouse about it.. DON'T post it 'cuz somebody might jump on you then your ego will get hurt and for sure you'll answer back and eventually will start another 'fight'.

-just a suggestion..

Nothing really.. some people here easily gets bored and starts a topic that first pop into their mind and use it as a thread topic.. haha!

But don't worry! though sometimes we get crazy here, i can assure you we wont bite!!..

I don't know how to exactly say this but whenever I bumped to a certain thread with some stupid topics about why Filipinas marry Americans or older Americans or why Americans marry Filipinas and what makes us different from other foreign women; it makes me wonder what we are all trying to prove here because obviously, most of those who posted these kind of topics here are actually married to these Americans. So, what message are we exactly trying to convey here??? And who are we trying to convince here? Other people or just ourselves? Because its totaly foolish. If we have these kind of silly question which we, ourselves actually have the answer then why not ask ourselves about instead? What's your point of asking other people? We have our own reason and whatever it is keep it ourselves because we are all different. We can't just judge anyone around here because we saw other people doing this kind of things. If you found yourself in this category of Filipina women marrying Americans for money, then contemplate and do something about it and quit playing games because it only sounds so defensive and this only makes us worse than what the world already thought about us.

Alright but its absurd and it's rediculous especially when you end up fighting against each other. Have fun then.

[Ban Hammer 14,481]

hopefully this thread can progress without the personal attacks that got other similar threads locked.

[Kardi_Shian 0]

OPINION expressed in my OP.

"Agreed... Just ignore the posts that you don't like. That's what i do and it keeps me out of trouble.. hehehehehehe"

Its a actually a choice. For example, one can start an interesting thread or lets say a thread that really makes sense then another person would just jump on to that same thread and start posting something that causes that person some troubles because that person might just be too unfortunate to be always argumentative but just wont make sense at all. If you know what I mean. There are some people that are like this, its a sad fact. There are also some who can just catch up of what you are trying to say and would make a good comment or argument.

"This forum has been really helpful to me but I think we can't avoid people starting a thread which are not related to the Visa processing but you can really tell from the title so If you think it'll not help you, just ignore it. If you wanna just read the posts, its safe, but if you read something that you don't like, don't leave a negative comment, just tell your spouse about it.. DON'T post it 'cuz somebody might jump on you then your ego will get hurt and for sure you'll answer back and eventually will start another 'fight'. "

True to that. That's why I have my post here and yours too because no one can stop me nor you from posting anything here. I don't usually leave a negative comment, and if others would construde it as something negative for sure, I always try leave a comment that at least has "something" on it. At least that is my goal. Also, I don't mind if people jump on me, a certainly could understand why.

Thanks for the suggestion though.

Agreed... Just ignore the posts that you don't like. That's what i do and it keeps me out of trouble.. hehehehehehe

This forum has been really helpful to me but I think we can't avoid people starting a thread which are not related to the Visa processing but you can really tell from the title so If you think it'll not help you, just ignore it. If you wanna just read the posts, its safe, but if you read something that you don't like, don't leave a negative comment, just tell your spouse about it.. DON'T post it 'cuz somebody might jump on you then your ego will get hurt and for sure you'll answer back and eventually will start another 'fight'.

-just a suggestion..

Nothing really.. some people here easily gets bored and starts a topic that first pop into their mind and use it as a thread topic.. haha!

But don't worry! though sometimes we get crazy here, i can assure you we wont bite!!..

I don't know how to exactly say this but whenever I bumped to a certain thread with some stupid topics about why Filipinas marry Americans or older Americans or why Americans marry Filipinas and what makes us different from other foreign women; it makes me wonder what we are all trying to prove here because obviously, most of those who posted these kind of topics here are actually married to these Americans. So, what message are we exactly trying to convey here??? And who are we trying to convince here? Other people or just ourselves? Because its totaly foolish. If we have these kind of silly question which we, ourselves actually have the answer then why not ask ourselves about instead? What's your point of asking other people? We have our own reason and whatever it is keep it ourselves because we are all different. We can't just judge anyone around here because we saw other people doing this kind of things. If you found yourself in this category of Filipina women marrying Americans for money, then contemplate and do something about it and quit playing games because it only sounds so defensive and this only makes us worse than what the world already thought about us.

Alright but its absurd and it's rediculous especially when you end up fighting against each other. Have fun then.

[Rocky_nBullwinkle 6]

I don't know how to exactly say this but whenever I bumped to a certain thread with some stupid topics about why Filipinas marry Americans or older Americans or why Americans marry Filipinas and what makes us different from other foreign women; it makes me wonder what we are all trying to prove here because obviously, most of those who posted these kind of topics here are actually married to these Americans. So, what message are we exactly trying to convey here??? And who are we trying to convince here? Other people or just ourselves? Because its totaly foolish. If we have these kind of silly question which we, ourselves actually have the answer then why not ask ourselves about instead? What's your point of asking other people? We have our own reason and whatever it is keep it ourselves because we are all different. We can't just judge anyone around here because we saw other people doing this kind of things. If you found yourself in this category of Filipina women marrying Americans for money, then contemplate and do something about it and quit playing games because it only sounds so defensive and this only makes us worse than what the world already thought about us.

Right. We all have our own reasons why we are married to our American husbands. Whatever those reasons might be, better keep them to ourselves and not post them here. Just to be on the safe side.

[Kardi_Shian 0]

hopefully this thread can progress without the personal attacks that got other similar threads locked.

Hope so to Charles. It shouldn't.

[shang 0]

I don't know how to exactly say this but whenever I bumped to a certain thread with some stupid topics about why Filipinas marry Americans or older Americans or why Americans marry Filipinas and what makes us different from other foreign women; it makes me wonder what we are all trying to prove here because obviously, most of those who posted these kind of topics here are actually married to these Americans. So, what message are we exactly trying to convey here??? And who are we trying to convince here? Other people or just ourselves? Because its totaly foolish. If we have these kind of silly question which we, ourselves actually have the answer then why not ask ourselves about instead? What's your point of asking other people? We have our own reason and whatever it is keep it ourselves because we are all different. We can't just judge anyone around here because we saw other people doing this kind of things. If you found yourself in this category of Filipina women marrying Americans for money, then contemplate and do something about it and quit playing games because it only sounds so defensive and this only makes us worse than what the world already thought about us.

Right. We all have our own reasons why we are married to our American husbands. Whatever those reasons might be, better keep them to ourselves and not post them here. Just to be on the safe side.

Exactly we have our own reason why our partners are american....it might be our destiny to be with them...and for the people who posted negative comment about it, its there opinion but worst maybe they are just jealous or bitter hehehe

[Mrs.Cage 0]

I don't know how to exactly say this but whenever I bumped to a certain thread with some stupid topics about why Filipinas marry Americans or older Americans or why Americans marry Filipinas and what makes us different from other foreign women; it makes me wonder what we are all trying to prove here because obviously, most of those who posted these kind of topics here are actually married to these Americans. So, what message are we exactly trying to convey here??? And who are we trying to convince here? Other people or just ourselves? Because its totaly foolish. If we have these kind of silly question which we, ourselves actually have the answer then why not ask ourselves about instead? What's your point of asking other people? We have our own reason and whatever it is keep it ourselves because we are all different. We can't just judge anyone around here because we saw other people doing this kind of things. If you found yourself in this category of Filipina women marrying Americans for money, then contemplate and do something about it and quit playing games because it only sounds so defensive and this only makes us worse than what the world already thought about us.

Right. We all have our own reasons why we are married to our American husbands. Whatever those reasons might be, better keep them to ourselves and not post them here. Just to be on the safe side.

Exactly we have our own reason why our partners are american....it might be our destiny to be with them...and for the people who posted negative comment about it, its there opinion but worst maybe they are just jealous or bitter hehehe

True, as I've said LIVE and LET LIVE, no need to attack and demean people on this thread for their choices in life, because they're not and will never be accountable to us.

[shang 0]

I don't know how to exactly say this but whenever I bumped to a certain thread with some stupid topics about why Filipinas marry Americans or older Americans or why Americans marry Filipinas and what makes us different from other foreign women; it makes me wonder what we are all trying to prove here because obviously, most of those who posted these kind of topics here are actually married to these Americans. So, what message are we exactly trying to convey here??? And who are we trying to convince here? Other people or just ourselves? Because its totaly foolish. If we have these kind of silly question which we, ourselves actually have the answer then why not ask ourselves about instead? What's your point of asking other people? We have our own reason and whatever it is keep it ourselves because we are all different. We can't just judge anyone around here because we saw other people doing this kind of things. If you found yourself in this category of Filipina women marrying Americans for money, then contemplate and do something about it and quit playing games because it only sounds so defensive and this only makes us worse than what the world already thought about us.

Right. We all have our own reasons why we are married to our American husbands. Whatever those reasons might be, better keep them to ourselves and not post them here. Just to be on the safe side.

Exactly we have our own reason why our partners are american....it might be our destiny to be with them...and for the people who posted negative comment about it, its there opinion but worst maybe they are just jealous or bitter hehehe

True, as I've said LIVE and LET LIVE, no need to attack and demean people on this thread for their choices in life, because they're not and will never be accountable to us.

enjoy life and live to the fullest.....di baling short live basta well lived naman....and make sure walang nasasaktan na feelings ng iba or naapakan mo ang pagka tao nila

[Kardi_Shian 0]

I don't know how to exactly say this but whenever I bumped to a certain thread with some stupid topics about why Filipinas marry Americans or older Americans or why Americans marry Filipinas and what makes us different from other foreign women; it makes me wonder what we are all trying to prove here because obviously, most of those who posted these kind of topics here are actually married to these Americans. So, what message are we exactly trying to convey here??? And who are we trying to convince here? Other people or just ourselves? Because its totaly foolish. If we have these kind of silly question which we, ourselves actually have the answer then why not ask ourselves about instead? What's your point of asking other people? We have our own reason and whatever it is keep it ourselves because we are all different. We can't just judge anyone around here because we saw other people doing this kind of things. If you found yourself in this category of Filipina women marrying Americans for money, then contemplate and do something about it and quit playing games because it only sounds so defensive and this only makes us worse than what the world already thought about us.

Right. We all have our own reasons why we are married to our American husbands. Whatever those reasons might be, better keep them to ourselves and not post them here. Just to be on the safe side.

Exactly we have our own reason why our partners are american....it might be our destiny to be with them...and for the people who posted negative comment about it, its there opinion but worst maybe they are just jealous or bitter hehehe

True, as I've said LIVE and LET LIVE, no need to attack and demean people on this thread for their choices in life, because they're not and will never be accountable to us.

enjoy life and live to the fullest.....di baling short live basta well lived naman....and make sure walang nasasaktan na feelings ng iba or naapakan mo ang pagka tao nila

There ya go!

[sj5 4]

I don't know how to exactly say this but whenever I bumped to a certain thread with some stupid topics about why Filipinas marry Americans or older Americans or why Americans marry Filipinas and what makes us different from other foreign women; it makes me wonder what we are all trying to prove here because obviously, most of those who posted these kind of topics here are actually married to these Americans. So, what message are we exactly trying to convey here??? And who are we trying to convince here? Other people or just ourselves? Because its totaly foolish. If we have these kind of silly question which we, ourselves actually have the answer then why not ask ourselves about instead? What's your point of asking other people? We have our own reason and whatever it is keep it ourselves because we are all different. We can't just judge anyone around here because we saw other people doing this kind of things. If you found yourself in this category of Filipina women marrying Americans for money, then contemplate and do something about it and quit playing games because it only sounds so defensive and this only makes us worse than what the world already thought about us.

Immaturity comes natural or jealousy.