hmmmmm looks like vj is being slagged off..any comments??

[aussiewench 9]

I must of missed what you are referring to

But whatever.......You are cool by me

[rebeccajo 14]

I must of missed what you are referring to

Most people missed it. It was in the UK regional forum. Had it been in OT the flames would have been 10 feet high.

[Tim and Bethanie 1]

Ok, sorry guys! I know I started this thread and I appologize that I haven't been able to respond as I have been away all week working. Where do I even begin?! When I started this, I did it in anger, frustration, depression...you name it! The past two weeks have been very hard for me with missing my children and wanting to be with them. As most of you know, Terri has left after feeling like we has a whole have judged her, and have given her a bad time. I read on her last thread that she has gone onto a new site and has never mentioned her 4 year old son. Reading that, really brought tears to my eyes. I don't understand how a mother can just cut one child out as if he/she didn't exist. This whole "sophies choice" ###### really got to me. Looking outside the box then looking back in at my actions, I can say that I let her get the better part of me. It was wrong and I do appologise. But to clear things up, it wasn't BE that the comment was made. If anyone really wants to know then please pm me, as I will not post the name in public.

I really do feel for that 4 year old little boy that seems to have been forgotten. I feel like someone needs to speak up for him. This past week, I have had to really clear my head on certain issues that are going on in my own life, so I can assure you, I am back to normal (or as normal as one can be lol). Please forgive me and realise that I too am human and make mistakes. I think for the most part, when I ask for advice or someone tells me that I am wrong, I don't take it the wrong way. I appreciate honesty and always will even if it means hearing the truth about myself and my actions.

Again, I do appologise. The comment that I pasted originally was said, but I handled it all wrong. Sorry!!

Laura Mitchell

Laura you don't need to apologise for the way you feel about a certain situation. You were not alone in thinking how a child, or children could simply be tossed to the side and forgotten. I have seen some of the post on a particular board, but have refrained from making any comments. It is obvious by deleting a child from the picture, the person can hear what they want, which is not what they got here and the main reason it left (or went into hiding), the truth hurts. I am trying to remember the old saying, "pay backs are a b!tch",. and someday this person will get their come-uppance. I don't think VJ was purposely slagged off, as much as the whole story was not being told, likely the lack of knowledge of the situation caused the reaction you posted of. Blame it on ignorance if you will.

Bethanie