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If the guy at the border ask.....

do i say i go visit my boyfriend or my fiance ??

i would think bf is the safest and that anyway a fiance is just a very serious bf...

what would u recommand ?


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Personally, I would say fiance. When hubby and I were in the K-1 process, the guard was able to pull up that info. on the computer as he ran hubby's passport, so he knew we were engaged. The concern in saying boyfriend would be if the guard thinks you are being deceitful.

Don't give TOO much info., but answer honestly and show TONS of proof of ties to Canada and that you are planning to return. A return ticket is always a good sign :)


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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Canada
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Wel lif ya say boy friend and then pull out ur K1 fiance visa for evidence, could cause problems. I would say fiance!

Hopefully they will ask "business or pleasure", state pleasure and that ur returning on such a such date


Canadians Visiting the USA while undergoing the visa process, my free advice:

1) Always tell the TRUTH. never lie to the POE officer

2) Be confident in ur replies

3) keep ur response short and to the point, don't tell ur life story!!

4) look the POE officer in the eye when speaking to them. They are looking for people lieing and have been trained to find them!

5) Pack light! No job resumes with you

6) Bring ties to Canada (letter from employer when ur expected back at work, lease, etc etc)

7) Always be polite, being rude isn't going to get ya anywhere, and could make things worse!!

8) Have a plan in case u do get denied (be polite) It wont harm ur visa application if ur denied,that is if ur polite and didn't lie! Refer to #1

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I said Fiance hon...it was fine.

They will probably ask you when you plan to get married, how far in the K1 process you are, etc. etc. etc.

Just be calm and honest and you should be just fine.

I was :star:


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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Canada
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I always say boyfriend b/c I don't yet have an engagement ring and technically haven't been proposed to yet. (I know, late in the game, :lol: ). If you have a shiny diamond on your left hand I'd suggest saying fiance but most importantly, as others have said, tell the truth. Ultimately though, I think it's not terribly important, and you shouldn't stress about it.


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I always say boyfriend b/c I don't yet have an engagement ring and technically haven't been proposed to yet. (I know, late in the game, :lol: ). If you have a shiny diamond on your left hand I'd suggest saying fiance but most importantly, as others have said, tell the truth. Ultimately though, I think it's not terribly important, and you shouldn't stress about it.

I definately had that when I went across! :lol:


Let's Keep the Song Going!!!

CANADA.GIFUS1.GIF

~Laura and Nicholas~

IMG_1315.jpg

Met online November 2005 playing City of Heroes

First met in Canada, Sept 22, 2006 <3

September 2006 to March 2008, 11 visits, 5 in Canada, 6 in NJ

Officially Engaged December 24th, 2007!!!

Moved to the U.S. to be with my baby on July 19th, 2008 on a K1 visa!!!!

***10 year green card in hand as of 2/2/2012, loving and living life***

Hmmm maybe we should move back to Canada! lol smile.png

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Filed: Citizen (pnd) Country: Canada
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lol i had a small shiny diamond that i managed to lost....doh!

Now i more have like a simple family wedding band that i wear just because i miss him !

Thanks for your answers... will go fiance way if they ask


Removal of conditions

01.11.2011 Remove conditions GC I-751 ($590)

01.18.2011 NOA1

02.24.2011 Biometric

03.25.2011 Approved

03.28.2011 Notice sent

03.31.2011 Received new green card (and it's green !)
 

AOS/EAD/AP from K1

07.23.2008 Send AOS/EAD/AP

07.29.2008 Check cashed

08.01.2008 NOA1

08.08.2008 Biometric Notice received

08.21.2008 Biometric Appointment

09.22.2008 Approval notice sent for AP (CRIS email)

09.22.2008 Card production ordered for EAD (CRIS email)

09.25.2008 Card production ordered for EAD (CRIS email) and a couple of touch since (last one 09.30.2008)

09.27.2008 Reception AP

10.02.2008 EAD Received

02.23.2009 Notice for interview (1.5 month late compared to LA statistics)

03.16.2009 AOS Touch

04.01.2009 Interview in LA  // Approved 

04.06.2009 Welcome to the USA Letter

04.13.2009 Reception GC

Naturalization
06/2016 Request
03/2017 Interview

Almost at the end !

 

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