Robert87

called the USCIS and asked myself, if it was possible to get married if our case was in review, they told me as long as it wasnt approved then we could, so on october 28th we were married, now they are saying we only got married to keep him here,

i want to say Yes and NO to this. Yes , the USCIS is right when they told u that u can get marry while your case was in review. but i wished the uscis did specify that in doing so, it will forfeits the fiancee visa.

let us try to sort this things out a little bit..

We applied for the fiance visa route and this was approved on November 4th 2010. We were married on October 28th 2010 and

If I am correct, you got married before you entered in the USA if those dates were accurate. Now, That is a Big NO NO for k1 visa. you should understand that what you did was actually a fradulent act. a k1 visa is a type of visa for fiancee/fiance of US citizen. if your dates are correct. you are no longer qualified for k1 as you have married your wife thereby disqualifying you for k1 visa. I am sorry mate, but my best advice is to reapply via CR1 route. it may take some times. as in like 7 to 10 months or depends on the country and consulte. but thats the only route you can go. thought k3 visa is faster as it was before but its ultimately the same with CR1 in terms of time. cr1 is process now at a speed like k3. so k3 is no longer good. besides. it will be very expensive compared to cr1.

have been in US visitng my wife and baby boy on the visa waiver program. I was going back to UK where i work after Thanksgiving.

i want to ask u mate if this visits were prior to the approval of the fiancee visa? i know the answer is seem to be obvious. I just want to know.

I went over to Canada on November 4th via the Detroit Windsor tunnel to see a friend who lives in Mississauga. Unintentionally and coincidentally my visitor visa expired on the 4th November.

I dont understand why I was refused entry back into US - we've done everything legally, I return back to UK - the only thing we need to do and we havent done due to the costs is changing our application - but we've been approved for the fiance visa.

mate, the only thing u havent done is actually the bIGGEST mistake u did. let me remind u that k1 visa is a non immigrant visa and entitles u to a single entry to the USA. you are not the first to experience this kind of adversity.

Can anyone help us and tell us what we need to do?? I dont have lots of money to pay for big attornies.

the best advice i can give you and your wife is to work on you going back to UK. then from there, you file for CR1/IR1 or K3. read on the forums about the two so u can choose which way is easier in your country.

i hope everything will be okay soon. I am so sorry for what happen to you. goodluck and godbless. please do take care...

Thanks for the input...

Well then, the only way to find out is to show up at St. Luke's...whatever the result is, I wish myself some luck as I have been very unlucky lately...lol...

I't so annoying how come I never had problem with chest x-rays before,I've been working my whole life and I never had problem with x-rays, no not a single one...

I'm walking with contagious disease?fantastic!!! ESTE horrible!!! ;p

chest xray will never confirm tb. but it may help doctors in their diagnosis if it is... hope u goodluck and godbless:)

I had my medical at St. Lukes but they saw a slight scarring on my chest x-ray and they had me went through sputum smear test for 3 consecutive days,(Sep 15,16,17) after 2 working days I went back for the result and it was negative for TB. As we may all know, even if the smear test came out negative, one has to wait for about 2 more months for the sputum culture result. I was given a specific date when to call the clinic to find out my sputum culture result, it's on Nov. 16, but just less than an hour back I received a phone call, a lady from St. Lukes telling me that the result is ready, but she cannot disclose whatever the result is over the phone, may it be positive or negative. She further told me to come personally since it would be the doctor who would tell me the result, and she didn't tell me to bring anything, a passport or what, she just asked me where I am from.

I didn't expect this call, all I knew is that I was told to be the one to call them to ask about the result...I don't feel nervous, but I was confused...SHOULD i FEEL NERVOUS BY THIS??? Is this alarming?, Do I sense some bad news from this?

And as I was browsing about this, I read somewhere in here that when you got a call from the clinic much ahead of the date given to you usually spells a bad news...grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr AM I TB POSITIVE? #######...........

The lady asked me if I could appear on Tuesday next week (Nov. 9) at the clinic since the results are erady, I declined I told her I can't just leave my work anytime, if it could be I would go there on the 3rd week of this month as I am scheduled to call on Nov. 16, she further said I don't have to wait that date given to me, but I insisted I cannot leave my work anytime especially next week. so she then said I just have to call them so they can set appointment for me, that ends our conversations.

I am not nervous but scared lol...grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr...

why does it have to be this hard?

I'm about to give up when I knew I failed in my x-ray, it's too much hassle...

US maybe not for me??? then I'd love to stay in my home country!!! grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

hey..before i start telling u. please calm down.. I am a nurse. I am not saying that I know the process in st.lukes but I am pretty sure I know what you are talking about.. first things first. the culture and sensitivity may took a month or two, that is correct. now, why we ( medical prof) are doing this? its like planting a seed and till the seed grow, we do not exactly know what it is. Now, if at the earliest possible sign, we know its a mango, then we call it a mango, otherwise, we will have to wait few more months until everything is evident. I am not saying you have TB. i am just telling u a fact. second point, the operator has truly no right, to tell u what is the diganosis. that is beyond their scope of duty and according to the Law, only doctors can tell a diagnosis to the patient, unless with certain circumstances and with proper ruling. third point, if it is tb positive, then so be it. and do not worry. TB IS TREATABLE.!!!! IT MAY Take a little while if you are positive before the visa will be issue. but its actually a win win situation. you wouldnt want to scare the hell ouf of all american people as TB in their country has already been eradicated. and if you go there and have TB, you can imagine the public discrimination u will have., and its for your own good. the reason why we have this medical examination is for physician to determine your current state of health. they are not there to deny you of your visa. and I know, doctors dont want that. all they care is Your health. ..

i hope this helps a little..

The license is valid for 120 days and may be used anywhere in the Philippines For my wife and I, after the ten days we had to go back to the civil registrar and both of us had to sign the license, at that time you are legally married.

that last part of your sentence is misleading. a valid licensed issued after ten consecutive days does not automatically confer u married.. u have to a wedding solmenized by a judge.. otherwise, it is a null and void wedding. the licensed is only and plainly as licensed to marry and the ten days waiting period after the application does not mean that you are already married. please do search on google, family code of the philippines. and try to find out the requisite of marriage. those are the things to fulfill in order for a marriage to be valid.

my concern is when i submit the 1st application for the visa the I-130, g-325A's once they look at my passport to verify my citizenship of the usa they will see the depature stamp showing the date is before the license.

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that is a big problem. you could have asked someone here before u got marry. i knew of someone who did this strategy: before her husband came over in the philippines, they downloaded the forms on the website of the city where they intents to apply for a marriage licensed. the USC filled up his part of the form and went to the Philippine embassy or consulate there in the USA and notarized it. sent it to his wife with the documents he needs to accompany like the USC passport, divorce decree etc. when wife recieved it. she applied for the marriage licensed. told the local civil registrar that the certificate in lieu of legal capacity to marry will follow as soon as the USC arrived here in phil since u can only get that docs at US embassy or consulate. so whle the USC was still in the USA, the marriage was already applied and so the 10 days waiting period. when the USC arrived, he went to EMbassy and get the Cert. of legal capacty to marry. and on they went together to the city hall and gave it to the Local civil registrar. the civil registrat of that city agreed to process the marriage licensed even without the USC physically but will never give them the licensed not until the USC arrived and gave the documents. .. and they got marry two days after the USC arrived.

the 10 days waiting period maybe viewed in a very contextual matter. and if you dwell into that. like, if you are a philippine lawyer. the reason behind the 10 day waiting period is actually not for the USC but on the filipino citizen. that His/her name together with the alien spouse be posted on the lcr bulletin so if someone knew this person and knew something that he/she was married before and did not get an anullment, then the licensed cannot be issue. in logical term. it is totally not applicable ( 10 days waiting period) on behalf of the USC because, he in the first place is not native to that place, specially if it was the first time he come over.

we did apply for the license 4 days before the wedding, the wedding plans were made for the 22nd. everyone kept telling me it's ok & not to worry about it. the maggiage license is goin to be dated after i've come back all the official paperwork if filed & going to be signed off by the correct people my concern is will the date on the license will show a date after i've come back. the wedding was mostly being held for the family members. will it be a problem to have the license dated after the date that i've come home?

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oh thanks for clearing that up.. i dont see any problems with .. the wedding is still valid according to philippine law.. you have followed the requisite of marriage. only that the date on the papers are not the exact date of the celebration. u might have to talk about this more with your wife so during the interview you can totally strategize. but i doubt if they will ask about it. as long as you present to them the NSO copy of your marriage licensed with the security paper.. NSO papers are security labeled. and as well as the marriage licensed from the civil registrar. i believe you are good to go. i was worried that you applied for the wedding licensed after your marriage.. that should be a no no.. because local civil registrar application is now computerized. so the date you apply will be available everywhere in the philippines. just in case the Embassy will want to verify. they can ask the local civil registrar to verify the validity of the marriage license. so if u did apply after the wedding.. u might have a problem.. but knowing your case. i believe and gurantee u that there will be no problem to that...

congratulations..!!!!!

your question wasnt so clear to me at all. but ill tell you something concrete about philippine law.

you should have to apply for your marriage license before the wedding. legally, there is a 10 day waiting period prior to issuance of a license. this license is valid for 120 days once approved. and u can get marry anywhere in the philippines. if I am getting your question correctly, this is my question to yah, how come, u marry without even applying for a license?

to all who helped with my last question thank you.

now on to my next question.

i'm filing for a IR-1 / CR-1 visa to bring my wife back from the philippines. we did the blessing from the church october 22nd. the issue that i'm not sure if it is an issue or not. we filed for the marriage license they told us there is a 10 day waiting period being we didn't have the 10 days to wait before i have to come back home we had the wedding & then showed the wedding date after the 10 days. which was after i had came back home. is this going to be a problem that the license is dated after i came back home. all the people that need to sign it are going to sign it so it should be legal still. is this a problem with processing the visa?

This post has been edited by dale millard: Today, 06:21 PM

kindly rephrase your question or right it properly. I am having a rought time understanding what u meant.lol..

She had an inactive TB infection. She successfully completed her 8 month drug routine for TB, but her final chest x-ray showed a pulmonary abscess. It took another 2 months of testing to confirm her abscess was not caused by TB.

If you're applying for a visa in the Philippines, I recommend you get tested for TB long before you get to St. Luke's. Getting tested and treated in your hometown is much better than having to move to Manila and go to St. Luke's every day to take your meds.

thank you for telling me. btw, i am a nurse . i was just curious.. thanks alot..

you are good to go.. no worries......i understand the feeling but given the fact that you have all proof that its not a sham marriage. theres no way for them to lift the conditional greencard

My wife and I were married Oct. 9, 2008. We filed for her IR1/CR1 visa in March of 2009 and received an interview date of Dec 8, 2009. She had some medical problems that took nearly a year to resolve. We got her medical clearance and our new interview date is Nov. 2, 2010.

All the paper work we have from NVC and USCIS mentions a CR-1 visa since that was appropriate at the time the paperwork was created. However, due to the delay in her medical clearance, we'll be married for over 2 years before we actually go to the interview.

I'm hoping the 2 year requirement is judged when the visa is issued, not when it was applied for, but I don't know how that works. I'm hoping we'll get an IR-1 so we won't have to file any further paperwork.

Assuming we pass the interview, does anyone know which visa type we'll be issued?

the requirements for IR1 is more than 2 years of marriage. it does not says, 2 years upon application. tell your wife to present the documents such as your marriage license on the POE so the Immigration will stamped her passport as IR1 instead of CR1. judging from your statement. you are eligible for IR1. if you may, i am just curious. if its okay with you to devulge to me privately , what was your wife's medical condition? if its okay to ask.. if not..its fine..

She will not be able to get any records from the post office. Do not worry about the cards. They are more interested in phone bills, chat logs, emails, pictures and proof of having met within 2 years.

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thanks for sharing. but can she still sned the cards as evidences? those cards were dated.. when i wrote it, i wrote the date on the card..

dear friends,

i and my fiancee known each other for 1 year and 3 months now. last november 2009, i sent her a snail mail card for thanks giving day. and sent her another card for the christmas and new year. and for her birthday too. she has all the cards. she kept it. but threw the enveloped, we have no idea that sooner, if we go to immigration process and apply for my CR1 since we will marry this february, that we need those eneveloped. my question is. is there a way for her to call the postal office and obtain a record that I sent her cards? the enveloped she threw contains stamed from the postal services. can she asked the postal office there in the US to give her copies or records of the mails i sent? is that possible? i know it sounds ridiculous, but really, we have no idea untill i found this website. goodthing is, up to this point in time. we are saving everything we will need in the future.. hope someone help us out..thanks guys..

Another thing you can do as evidence is make a living will naming your spouse as beneficiary (she can do the same for you). Also having them as beneficiary on any insurance policies/bank accounts/retirement accounts is additional evidence that doesn't require a ssn.

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thanks for your reply..

his fiancee can put him on her credit card accounts as an authorized user w/o ssn involved. Showing that there is a "REAL" relationship requires proof of her maybe helping the OP out with moneygram or western union xfers. also OP send your wife cards, hand written letters, tons of pictures of the two of you together. chat logs, video logs, phone records.. pretty much everything that it requires to maintain a relationship.

Goodluck ingat ka

thank you.. you have been so helpful.. all of you..thanks.. i hope next time around that I post a question. you guys will still be there and help me out.. thank you again.. you have been so kind and generous to all your ideas.... godbless you all..

first of all, i do apologized for the capslock. now i know.. and i am not gonna do it again.

As for Yahoo, I suggest you set your YM to save your chats from now on. Click on Messenger, then Preferences, then click on Archive. Select Yes, save all of my messages, then click on OK. So that every time you chat with your wife, it is saved. If you want to view and print the Archive, click on View Archive. Best that you print out chats that are spaced apart to show different days and times.

One other proof I showed were a bunch of PLDT Budget Cards I bought to call my husband while we were apart. we also invested in magicJack, which allowed me to call my husband using my PC with broadband connection. I was assigned a local US number and calling him in the US was basically free, because it was recognized as a local call. Unlike Skype, you can't download a call record, but you CAN copy and paste a screen capture of MagicJack onto a blank document and print that as a call log...a little time consuming, yes, but magicJack did wonders to help keep our sanity during the time we spent apart.

Hope this helps.

thank you so much for your response... its like a blessing in disguise.. thank u so very much maam/sir.. ill try to ask if we have magic jack here in davao city.

Robert,

As Markieboy noted, it is kinda shouting in the internet forums. First time it is fine, everybody knows that it is excitement.

Also, "initcap" is much better!

Loto

sorry sir..

Yes, people on here are not too fond of reading posts (especially the long ones) in Caps. It makes it very hard to read.

Also, you will need a ton of evidence to show that you and your fiancee have a bonafide relationship.

Chat logs, cell phone bills, emails exchanged, gifts exchanged, receipts for expensive gifts are just to name a few of the things you need.

Please read the guides here on VJ as they are an excellent source of information

Good Luck!

KnR aka slider100

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sorry for the capslock. i do apologized

Robert87, on 25 October 2010 - 11:47 AM, said:

NOW, I WANT TO ASK YOU .WHOEVER YOU ARE, IS THIS A BAD THING? THAT WE LACK EVIDENCES? ARE WE STILL ALLOWED TO MARRY EACH OTHER EVEN IF WE HAVE NO ENOUGH PROOF OF OUR RELATIONSHIP ON PAPERS. BUT TO BE HONEST. WE LOVE EACH OTHER. MY FAMILY MET HER ALREADY ONLINE. MY MOM , DAD, MY SIBLINGS AND MY AUNT.. MY MOM AND HER ARE EVEN CHATTING ON FACEBOOK.

First of all, welcome to VisaJourney! Okay, chat record and emails are good evidence, but they are not the strongest evidence. You are free to marry whoever you like. However, the U.S. Embassy may not approve your immigrant visa IF they feel your relationship evidence is insufficient.

Robert87, on 25 October 2010 - 11:47 AM, said:

I AM JUST CONFUSED. WHY SHOULD I NEED THOSE EVIDENCES FOR ME TO MARRY MY FIANCEE. I MEAN. HAD I KNOWN THAT I NEED EVIDENCES FOR ME TO MARRY HER, I WOULD HAVE SAVED EVERY CONVERSATIONS WE HAVE. .. WE ARE PLANNING TO GET MARRY THIS FEBRUARY SINCE ITS LOVE MONTH. WE HAVE DISCUSSED THE FINANCES AS WELL. I AND MY FAMILY WILL TAKE CARE OF THE WEDDING FINANCES..AND SHE WILL SHOULDER HER TICKETS. SHE IS COMING WITH HER BROTHER OR WITH ANOTHER FRIEND WHO IS ALSO MY FRIEND ONLINE.

Again, you do not need evidence to marry your fiancee. I, too, married in the Philippines. As a USC, I needed to show an Affidavit in Lieu of Certificate of Legal Capacity to Contract Marriage. No proof of relationship was required at this point.

Robert87, on 25 October 2010 - 11:47 AM, said:

I WAS TERRIBLE WORRIED WHEN MY FRIEND TOLD ME THAT FOR ME TO BE ABLE TO MARRY HER, I SHOULD HAVE PROOF THAT WE HAVE A GENUINE RELATIONSHIP. WE ARE GOING TO MARRY HERE IN THE PHILIPPINES AND NOT IN THE USA BECAUSE SHE WANTED A BEACH WEDDING AND I ALSO LOVE IT TOO. AND I WANT MY FAMILY TO BE THERE TO WITNESS US..

This is the time to start collecting evidence of a genuine relationship. Emails are nice, but actual letters (I believe) are better. Copies of airline tickets (hers) to the Philippines. Any hotel receipts, or trips you two took together. Pictures, pictures, pictures together. These really strengthen your case. When you do have your wedding, get photos...many photos...before, during and after. All these help. And if you feel that this is not enough, get notarized affidavits from family and friends who attended your wedding.

Robert87, on 25 October 2010 - 11:47 AM, said:

I HAVE ANOTHER QUESTION: IS THERE A PHONE NUMBER FOR YAHOO COMPANY AND ASKED THEM IF THEY CAN RETRIEVED OUR CONVERSATION FROM JULY2009 UP TO PRESENT? I BADLY NEED YOUR ADVICE GUYS.. I WAS TERRIFIED, ME AND MY FIANCEE WHEN WE LEARNED THAT WE CANNOT MARRY EACH OTHER IN THE PHILIPPINES BECAUSE WE LACK PROOF OF OUR RELATIONSHIP..

Sorry, I cannot help you with Yahoo contacts. Be very careful of information (hearsay) from other people. Sometimes, it is best to contact a more reliable source of information. The U.S. Embassy in Manila provides some very useful information regarding U.S. citizens and marriage in the Philippines.

Robert87, on 25 October 2010 - 11:47 AM, said:

PLEASE DO HELP ME WITH THIS. I AM VERY NEW IN THIS FORUM. AND I HAVENT READ INFO IN THIS FORUM.. ANYBODY, PLEASE FEEL FREE TO GIVE ADVICE AND COMMENTS. THANKS..

GODBLESS YOU ALL..

ROBERT

I hope this helps you some. If ever you need more help, just ask. We'll do our best.

BTW, take your caps off. It is viewed as shouting.

your information is so clear. thank you so much.. now my mind is at peace.

i was reading some informations here on VJ. and i want to ask these questions.. please feel free to answer and give suggestions..

Note: Evidence of a Bonifide Marriage

The USCIS now requires that when filing an I-130 for a spouse that you include evidence of a bonifide marriage. They list examples of acceptable evidence as:

1. Documentation showing joint ownership or property; or

2. A lease showing joint tenancy of a common residence; or

3. Documentation showing co-mingling of financialresources; or

4. Birth certificate(s) of child(ren) born to you, thepetitioner, and your spouse together; or

5. Affidavits sworn to or affirmed by third parties havingpersonal knowledge of the bona fides of the maritalrelationship (Each affidavit must contain the full nameand address, date and place of birth of the person makingthe affidavit, his or her relationship to the petitioner ofbeneficiary, if any, and complete information and detailsexplaining how the person acquired his or herknowledge of your marriage); or

6. Any other relevant documentation to establish that thereis an ongoing marital union.

my questions are:

1. is it possible for her to put me on her bills? shes renting an apartment, currently the water bills is free so she got no bills for water. she has electric bills under her name. now, is that possible for her to add my name into that after our marriage? even if i have no SSN and i am not yet there?.

2. can she open a bank there in the US under both our name after our marriage even if i am not yet there and i have no SSN? is that possible?

3. for those filipinos who are here, is it possible for me to open a joint bank account under both our name? knowing that shes a USC?

4. what are other possible evidences of joint tenancy?

5. should the affidavit be written by the person attesting or typewritten? should it be notarized by a lawyer?

6. can you please give me more possible documents to establish that there is an ongoing marital union? other than mentioned above.. thank you so much..

to all who replied to my message. i just want to say thank you so much for the help.... really really thank you

Dear Robert,

Congratulations on getting married It is a new world to explore many things!

Here is an overview of this entire process - http://www.visajourn...p/EZGuideSpouse

Also, please don't fret on those evidences much. You can start accumulating now onwards. I don't think yahoo chat missing is a barrier to your marriage. If so, how people got married before yahoo was not introduced in the world?

Another request - please turn off the caps lock!

Loto

thank you.. im sorry for the capslock. is that bad?

TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN:

I AM ROBERT, AND I LIVE HERE IN THE PHILIPPINES. I AND MY FIANCEE PLANS TO GET MARRY THIS FEBRUARY 2011. WE HAVE KNOWN EACH OTHER FOR QUIET SOMETIMES. ITS ALMOST A YEAR AND 3 MONTHS. I HAVE INFORMALLY PROPOSED TO HER LAST SEPTEMBER 2010. AND SHE ACCEPTED MY PROPOSAL. BY THE WAY. I AM THE FILIPINO CITIZEN AND SHE IS THE AMERICAN CITIZEN. SHES COMING HERE FOR THE WEDDING. LATER THIS AFTERNOON I TALK TO A FRIEND OF MINE WHO DID MARRY AN AMERICAN CITIZEN ABOUT ALL THE PROCESS.. AND BOOM, HE TOLD ME THAT DURING THE IMMIGRATION PROCESS, I WILL NEED TO SHOW EVIDENCES OF OUR ONGOING RELATIONSHIP, LIKE CHAT LOGS, YM, PHONE CALLS ETC. NOW, HERES THE REAL DEAL. WE HAVE FEW PHONE CALLS AS WE CHAT EVERYDAY ON YAHOO MESSENGER. MY PHONE AND HER PHONE ARE ABLE TO USE YAHOO MESSNGER WHERE EVER WE GO. AND WE CHAT ALSO ON FACEBOOK. AND GO ON YAHOO TO CHAT WITH VIDEOS. BUT THE PROBLEM IS. I HAVE NEVER SAVED ANY OF THEM. I SWEAR, AND I DONT KNOW HOW TO DO THAT. I ASKED HER ABOUT IT. SHE ALSO HAD NO IDEA HOW TO DO THAT. WE HAVE FEW CHATS ON GMAIL.COM. SHE TOLD ME., HER FRIEND TOLD HER THAT GMAIL AUTOMATICALLY SAVE CONVERSATIONS. AND I DID MANAGED TO SEE THOSE CONVERSATIONS WE HAD. IT WAS JUST LAST MONTH THAT WE STARTED USING GMAIL IF WE ARE ON THE COMPUTER. BUT IF WE ARE NOT ABLE TO USE THE COMPUTER, WE ARE BACK ON YAHOO MESSENGER AND UP TO THIS POINT IN TIME. I HAVE NO IDEA HOW TO SAVE THOSE CHATLOGS AND ALL THAT. I HAVE SENT HER ABOUT 5 SNAILMAIL CARDS, 1 TSHIRT, A NECKLACE, AND SOON TO COME, THE ENGAGEMENT RING. BUT SHE STILL HAS NO IDEA IM SENDING ONE. I WANT TO SURPRISE HER. SHE DID SENT ME 2 SNAIL MAIL CARDS TOO. AND I SENT HER ALMOST EVERYDAY FROM THE DAY I PROPOSED TO HER AN E-CARD WHICH I HAVE ACCIDENTALLY DISCOVER WHILE I USED A COMPUTER ON AN INTERNET CAFE AND I SIGNED UP FOR THE WESBITE SO I CAN SEND HER SOME CARDS. I THINK I HAVE SENT ABOUT 30 ECARDS.

NOW, I WANT TO ASK YOU .WHOEVER YOU ARE, IS THIS A BAD THING? THAT WE LACK EVIDENCES? ARE WE STILL ALLOWED TO MARRY EACH OTHER EVEN IF WE HAVE NO ENOUGH PROOF OF OUR RELATIONSHIP ON PAPERS. BUT TO BE HONEST. WE LOVE EACH OTHER. MY FAMILY MET HER ALREADY ONLINE. MY MOM , DAD, MY SIBLINGS AND MY AUNT.. MY MOM AND HER ARE EVEN CHATTING ON FACEBOOK.

I AM JUST CONFUSED. WHY SHOULD I NEED THOSE EVIDENCES FOR ME TO MARRY MY FIANCEE. I MEAN. HAD I KNOWN THAT I NEED EVIDENCES FOR ME TO MARRY HER, I WOULD HAVE SAVED EVERY CONVERSATIONS WE HAVE. .. WE ARE PLANNING TO GET MARRY THIS FEBRUARY SINCE ITS LOVE MONTH. WE HAVE DISCUSSED THE FINANCES AS WELL. I AND MY FAMILY WILL TAKE CARE OF THE WEDDING FINANCES..AND SHE WILL SHOULDER HER TICKETS. SHE IS COMING WITH HER BROTHER OR WITH ANOTHER FRIEND WHO IS ALSO MY FRIEND ONLINE.

I WAS TERRIBLE WORRIED WHEN MY FRIEND TOLD ME THAT FOR ME TO BE ABLE TO MARRY HER, I SHOULD HAVE PROOF THAT WE HAVE A GENUINE RELATIONSHIP. WE ARE GOING TO MARRY HERE IN THE PHILIPPINES AND NOT IN THE USA BECAUSE SHE WANTED A BEACH WEDDING AND I ALSO LOVE IT TOO. AND I WANT MY FAMILY TO BE THERE TO WITNESS US..

I HAVE ANOTHER QUESTION: IS THERE A PHONE NUMBER FOR YAHOO COMPANY AND ASKED THEM IF THEY CAN RETRIEVED OUR CONVERSATION FROM JULY2009 UP TO PRESENT? I BADLY NEED YOUR ADVICE GUYS.. I WAS TERRIFIED, ME AND MY FIANCEE WHEN WE LEARNED THAT WE CANNOT MARRY EACH OTHER IN THE PHILIPPINES BECAUSE WE LACK PROOF OF OUR RELATIONSHIP..

PLEASE DO HELP ME WITH THIS. I AM VERY NEW IN THIS FORUM. AND I HAVENT READ INFO IN THIS FORUM.. ANYBODY, PLEASE FEEL FREE TO GIVE ADVICE AND COMMENTS. THANKS..

GODBLESS YOU ALL..

ROBERT