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Hey guys, another thing. Does any body have an idea how long it would take the Lagos Consulate to return a denied k-1 visa application to the DHS? When they decide they'll return your application to DHS for a possible revocation, do they do that immediately or wait for how long before they drop it in the mail for a return?

Hey guys, another thing. Does any body have an idea how long it would take the Lagos Consulate to return a denied k-1 visa application to the DHS? When they decide they'll return your application to DHS for a possible revocation, do they do that immediately or wait for how long before they drop it in the mail for a return?

Thanks for your concerns and inputs everyone. That Asian lady is always having a bad day, it's her default. The only news with her is when she has a good day ... good luck catching that! I tried calling in vain as I could net even get through. I had taken the time to send them an elaborate email appealing and explaining that there are over a hundred different cultures in Nigeria, and that what constitutes marriage varies widely amongst cultures and even amongst families within thesame culture. I tried to clarify the 3 stages i.e. The Introduction, The Engagement, and The Marriage, and how it is still different amongst cultures and families. I hope it makes sense to them. I know the COs are trained to understand the Nigerian laws, but Nigerian cultures are so diverse that even born Nigerians dont still know how all the different cultures practise their ceremonies. I have contacted my representative and explained to them, I hope something positive comes out of it. One would think that sending them pictures of an engagement ceremony would be a good proof of a legitimate relationship, too bad it turns out hurting. I'll keep you guys updated.

My fiancee had her interview 4 days ago. She paid $350 at the interview. You can choose to pay before the interview day or pay on the day of the interview just before you are attended to. Either way is acceptable, but check their site for an updated info as things change all the time, or send them an email with all inquiries at LagosIV@state.gov, they usually reply within 2 business days.

No matter how prepared you are, no matter the amount of evidence, proof or whatever you have, just pray and hope for luck. It only takes one question, a misunderstanding of your answer, or a co that just does not like something about u, to deny you a visa. You can eliminate most of the uncertainties by being well prepared, confident, and backed up with prayer and fasting The Asian lady denied my fiancee a K-1 visa simply because she had the feeling that we were already married when she misinterpreted my engagement gift as a dowry. Good luck!

Thanks guys. Of course it was the known witch! ...the Asian lady. I have filled out a form for my senator about the issue and would mail it tomorrow, since I am away from home at the moment (also plan to call his office). I also plan to call the consulate in Lagos to talk to somebody (I hope I am able to get through ...hope they'll listen). Thanks for your inputs guys.

Good day everyone. My fiancée was denied visa after one bogus question. She had all the evidence and paperworks to prove our relationship. The interview was going well until the consulate officer asked my fiancée if during our traditional engagement ceremony, I gave any monetary gift to her parents. My fiancée answered yes. Then the CO declared that that signifies a dowry and according to the Nigerian law, we are married. My fiancée tried to explain to her that it was just a gift for her parents and not a dowry, but the CO insisted that as long as money was paid, it was marriage and I should go back and refile for her as a wife and not a fiancée. We only did an engagement ceremony and not marriage. If I had filed for her as a wife, how would I have provided a proof of marriage when we are not yet married?. Please, I need an advice on what to do because it's been 9 months already and I do not want to have to travel to get married and start this whole process all over again ...gush!