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All of this is my opinion: You posted this on a public forum so you obviously wanted others to respond.
Sometimes it seems like people really do not realize that it takes teamwork to make a relationship (any kind! business, platonic, romantic) work. For two people to occupy a same space, there is going to have to be some sacrifices and some compromises and TONS of communication. And its hard, especially if you are very independent. Quite a few of my friends and siblings (from here and married men here - so its not just a foreign spouse thing) are having the same issue as you. They are finding that they married guys who do not want to change themselves and see nothing wrong with themselves but she must change for him because she is the one with issues. Almost all of my friends have been divorced at least once. And I am not knocking guys because I know it can be the other way around.
I am just saying that some people are not ready for that commitment. I do not know if its how they were raised or if they are just not at the maturity level or they really are afraid of change. Its a new life, a new lifestyle. It was very unfair of him. Every couple have disagreements, fights and arguments. And its even more difficult when you throw in the culture (and/or language) barrier. He pushed you to your limit. After blowing off the steam, he should have asked you to explain what was going through your mind instead of making you out to be a crazy woman. It sounded like he was looking for a way out. If he loved you, he would have done everything in his power to make it work.
I hope you find peace in your life right now. Since you are home, wherever that is, rekindle friendships with old friends and family and make new friends. Blaming yourself is not going to help you heal, its only going to make it harder for you to deal with things. When and if he is ready to talk to you, he will. I know from personal experience in the past that we always want that closure after the end of a bad breakup. You may never get that closure (for you maybe the forgiveness from him?) so YOU have to forgive yourself one day. Its hard but you will know when you are ready.
Hang in there.
Were you here on K1? Did you ever get your green card? It must be lame to go through all of that and its not cheap either!

You have been detained for shoplifting, charged with petty theft and paid the fine. You did not do that because you were accused mistakenly, but because you were guilty as charged. You are a thief.
Yet you did not disclose this, wrongfully assuming the Feds are too stupid to find out within a comprehensive FBI background test.
Tell you what: if I had been the I.O. I would have seen this as a deliberate misrepresentation and declared you a persona non grata for the rest of your natural life. If I were you, I would thank my god for sparing me deportation and keep my mouth shut for another 3 years. If I was the judge getting your complaint on my table, I would order you deported before going to the bathroom.
You apparently have no idea how lucky you got.

I understand that when you're looking at a hot sports car or a hot young girl, you can sometimes make a quick decision out of the spur of the moment, like buying that Lamborghini on credit or marrying the smoking hot chick from the Copacabana.
If the car or the chick doesn't perform as desired, it helps to have purchased a "money back guarantee." On the same token is "having a child by accident" to be seen. Having a child is not an accident. It happens if you don't use birth control or fail to pull out in time. That's not an accident, that's extremely irresponsible, as the outcomes does not only effect you, but two more people. So it appears to me that you show a pattern of making irrational decisions in the spur of the moment without using much or the capacity the Almighty himself has given you so generously.
my thoughts to you therefore: think, think first, and think carefully, before you make any further decisions that can have a life-changing effect.

If you have been approved yes? And yes the 134 has to be filled in regardless it is the procedure for the K1 visa and the 134 is from you the petitioner not her.

thanks for the smile!

1. it should be fine without it. I do not think they would reject you. Just remember to put N/A or NONE in the future.
2. It should also be fine also. For your packet 3 (in the future), you should include an updated intent to marry and you will be putting the embassy's address. Something to remember for the future I do not think it will aid in a rejection, just something that may be frown upon since we are talking about basic formal letter writing, you know?
Good luck to you! I do not think there is nothing to worry about. But others are free to chime in.