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    Approvals / lies

    in Africa: Sub-Saharan

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    It puzzles me why people that don't get approved come back after their interview and say that they were approved and later we find them on the site asking about "Appeals". I guess maybe they are either in denial or they dont want people to look at them as if they were failures. We all know either by experience or by reading how hard it is, so we don't have to lie, sometime the first interview always goes bad at the Nigerian Consulate. We are here to comfort each other after denials cos we eventually get passed it (like I did) You are down but not out. After my denial we had a whole year set back but here we are a year later and happier than ever. And i soo much appreciate the shoulders here on VJ that had my back and gave me advice or i could not have made it. I recommend this site to anybody that has been denied. It helps so much.

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    Feeling Dumb

    in Africa: Sub-Saharan

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    Feeling dumb as hell right now. Called my fiance last night to tell him about a horrible day at work, he said kinda short I'm in the shower I will call you back, so I never got to tell him why I was calling..... he didn't call me back. I understood he was getting ready for church , so I let it go. So this morning I text my fiance told him I had a horrible day at work yesterday, it was so bad i didn't get to study, but I promised I would go to church early today, asked what should I do. he wrote back, it's too early to have had such a bad day, all will end in praise. I thought, wow that didn't make sense. So I felt snubbed, not once from last night, but twice now. So I called my ex to discuss the work issue( he is a nurse like me.), who promptly began to tell me how dumb I was for beli

    eving the intentions of my fiance, that it is almost assured that once he able to leave, he will do so. I have always disregarded what my ex would say because I felt an honest connection to my fiance and was/am head over heels in love with him and his kindness. To add insult to injury, the other day my fiances sister made fun of my weight in front of me to him and it hurt very much. I discussed it with him but it just made me feel a little doubt, even though he apologized for his sister's actions. So back to this morning, after speaking to my ex, I text my fiance and asked him to swear before God that his intentions are true, he has not responded, it's been over and hour. Am I being too sensitive? Am I watching the clock a little too closely? I'm feeling super stupid right now....

    Too sensitive why second guess yourself and if it is this easy for you to think his intentions are not good then why be in the relationship......

    Long Time!

    in Off Topic

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    I just want to say congrats to all the couples who were recently approved looks like it has been good times in Lagos! Goodluck to those with upcoming interviews! My hubby and I are doing great! I am back to read up on ROC docs because it is almost time come December...Time sure does fly when your happy! :)

    I-751 Form Question

    in Removing Conditions on Residency General Discussion

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    Debby' how is the little one doing?

    Do not list U.S. Citizen children, they don't have to remove conditions. The form itself is not clear on this although it is mentioned in the instructions to only list children that are removing their conditions at the same time as the applicant

    Just for clarity Debby's son that they have together is not removing conditions......

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