mrs.sr

I am appalled with some answers here, anyway THERE IS NO EXCUSE FOR DOMESTIC VIOLENCE!!!!!! he abused her physically once and keep abusing her mentally, what else does she have to endure for your guys to realize that she is living with an abuser?. If they are not communicating properly he has no right to abuse her, if he has no money he has no right to abuser her, if she has no job to earn money he has no right to abuse her!!!!! if his has a short temper he has no right to abuse her. Please let's not tolerate or excuse domestic violence!!!!!!In the US one woman is abused every three minutes, in 2011 almost 220.000 women/children were victims of domestic violence and in the U.S.A 3000 women are killed each year by their husbands/partners.
First of all you need to realize that your husband is an abuser, you should seek some counseling to help you to understand that and take action as well such as to report abuse suffered, find a support system,find out about your rights,create a safety plan and seek help. You need to take some serious decisions in your life to protect yourself and not to expose your daughter to witness domestic violence.There is no love in abuse.

OMG I can't believe you want her to be a better wife, he should be a better husband. You don't go tellilng your family lies about your wife, you don't go getting your sister involved to help you attack your wife (verbaly).
She has been a stay at home mom for 5 yrs taking care of their child, something he wanted her to do, durring that time he is spreading lies about her, being verbally abusive and has started physically abusing her. No way on earth is she at fault, with an abusive man nothing will make him happy, she could be making 100k a year and he would still not be happy.The way he is getting his familly involved while he belittles/makes up ####### is abuse. This has been building up for 5 years, he has her feeling lost and confused, he has her daughter telling her he is mad at her how he doesn't love her. No parent should ever put their child in that position, that is child abuse.
Abuse is a deal breaker seek help for your daughter and yourself.

"fidelity issue"???? "love for the sofa"????
Did we read the same post? Your response just confused the heck out of me. I hope the OP understands it better than I did!