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  1. HELLO HOW YOU DOING VJ MEMBERS,PLEASE I NEED YOUR HELP REGARDING AOS,PLEASE MY WIFE IS DISABLE AND SHE IS RETIRED FROM THE PENNSYLVANIA DEPARTMENT OF CORRECTION,PLEASE I NEED SOME ADVICE ON HOW SHE IS GOING TO GO THROUGH THE PROCESS OF THE AOS,PLEASE YOUR LITTLE ADVICE WILL REALLY HELP,THANK YOU.

    i am disabled and i just used a co sponor 4 the affidavit of support

  2. QUESTIONS:

    1: DO I PAY A VISA PROCESSING FEE FOR IMMIGRANT VISA AT THE US EMBASSY IN GHANA ON THE DAY OF INTERVIEW? HOW MUCH AND IN WHICH CURRENCY?

    2: CAN I GO FOR MY MEDICAL EXAMS AS SOON AS I RECEIVE MY P4 EVEN THOUGH THERE IS NOTHING IN THE P4 I JUST RECEIVED REGARDING THE MEDICAL EXAMS? I NEED AN URGENT ANSWERS PLEASE. IT WOULD BE APPRECIATED. THANK YOU.

    u already paid the visa fee at the nvc so no worries only fiance pay at the time of interview......did u get an appointment letter

  3. Just got off the phone with the NVC...they told me that my husband's interview was scheduled for 1/26/11!!!! I'm bursting with joy!!!! After all the heartache we've been through! I will fly down to be with him that week even if I can't be with him at the actual interview.

    Can anyone suggest any websites that offer discounted flights? I would really appreciate!

    God Bless all of you...your turns will come too!!!

    SO HAPPY FOR I WISH GHANA WUD MOVE LIKE THIS

  4. Hi all you VJ’s I want to take a few moments of your time to bring everyone up to speed on everything that has transpired since my last plead for your help with my daughters situation. I have enrolled my daughter into an English school in Nanning China where she is excelling. I am so proud of her. On September 08-14-2010 my wife received her packet from Guangzhou. On September 1st 2010 at 7:15am my wife had her first interview in Guangzhou where she was ask 4 questions. These are the questions they ask her. Where is your husband? Why has your husband only been to China to see you just one time for only 62 days sense you got married? How did you meet your husband? How do you and your husband communicate with each other? My wife answered all these questions very good and she was always very polite to the VO. She was given a blue slip of paper requesting more information and said our love and marriage was not a bona fide love and marriage, which is totally BS. My wife and I were devastated by these results. My wife cried for a solid week until she was sick. I did my best to comfort her by telling her that we can fix this little problem and that it was just a little bump in our road of love. We gather up all the information they requested and a lot more and she turned it into the Consulate Guangzhou on September 17th 2010. I sent everything they requested from me to my wife by DHL the fastest way possible. Just as soon as the NVC had sent the case files to Guangzhou 05-14-2010. I sent my wife a copy of everything, the kitchen sink all 17lbs. My wife was so surprised of how much information she had setting in front of her. She got some help and started learning and studying all this information I sent to her. My wife probably knows more about all her immigration documents then I do now. On 10- 29-2010 my wife received a letter from the consulate in Guangzhou for a second interview any Monday thru Wednesday between the hours of 1:30pm to 3:00pm. I thought this was strange. This is how my wife’s second interview went. My wife approached the VO and said good morning. She works in public relations so I do know how polite she is always. The VO never acknowledges her so she thought to VO never heard her so she said good morning again in English and was ignored once again. I thought this was very rude of the VO. The VO started reading some documents and NEVER asks her ANY questions at all. The only thing the VO said to my wife was for her to go to window No 30 to get the results. These are my wife’s exact words to the VO. How could you let my lonely husband live in America alone, for no body care. My wife insisted that he tell her why she was denied and received this white slip of paper. Now she was angry and she was screaming I love my American husband and how can you do this to us. Then it got ugly the VO ask security to take my wife away. She did go but not before saying what she wanted to say so everyone could here. I know her actions were not acceptable in the Consulate, but any one of us who love our wife like I do would have done exactly the same thing if this happened to one of us. I am trying to find away for her to send a letter of apology to the Consulate, or is this something that needs to be done? My wife is probably not the first Chinese woman to loose her cool over a white denial slip. My question to everyone of you VJ’s is there any way to overcome this white slip 221(g) not a bona fide relationship which is BS? I have already called DOS the NVC, and USCIS. I was told there is nothing I can do until the case files are sent back to the CIS. Is there anyway the case files can stay at Guangzhou and this problem be solved with out sending the case back to CIS for review and possibly termination of the case? I was told by DOS that it could take up to 120 days for Guangzhou to just send the case to the CIS, which is also BS. No one cares if our wives and husbands have to wait all this time and be separated from the ones we love. My wife and I have no intention of defrauding anyone for any reason. We don’t expect anything for nothing. We try our best to do everything the right way the first time. I am still devastated by Guangzhou actions. Now I am mad and want to do something so my wife and I can be together in the States. If anyone has any suggestion please feel free to give me your help or opinion. To my wife and me it may be possibly another 6 months to a year of separation. I was told by DOS that once the case files are reviewed by CIS that they will notified me by mail of the exact reason for my wife’s denial. The CIS will give me a chance to try and prove that our love and marriage is true love and a bona fide relationship. Is this information correct that DOS told me? Or is this BS too? I have got to the point where the only ones I truly believe in any more are the good people on VJ. So please if anyone knows what I need to do now please feel free to tell me. If anyone needs or wants to discuss my situation with me just ask for my email address and I will gladly give it to you. I love my wife with all my heart and she loves me back with the same enthusiasm are even more if that is possible. Thank you for taking the time to read my plea for your help once again. Gary.

    CONTACT MARC ELLIS A LAWYER

  5. I must admit. Online dating is one thing I could never do .Meaning, I would never wold have allowed myself to let a International connection to happen. I would not have attempted to travel to see a guy I met online.I would have been too scared. You are much braver than me. Did you travel alone on your first trip. That greatitwork for you though. :thumbs:

    LOL yes i traveled alone was i scared no bcs at any point if i were scared i wud have cancel the whole trip no matter wat money i spent.

  6. ok i'll bit...Desmond and i met online sept.2008..we talk every day for months.He said he was in love i didnt really believe.So i decided to take a trip to ghana there was no mention of marraige at all for that trip,but i think a week after i was there i woke up and realized i really loved him and how he treated me just very different from my past relationships.So i knew i needed him in my life forever so we married on 3-24-2009. Do we have disagreements yes and some of its just culturual differences like not thinking of getting his opinion on some matters.but i usually go with my gut instict and i know he loves me no fruad here just love.

  7. COMPLETED IN 29 DECEMBER 2009 FROM THE VISA CENTER STILL WAITING FOR INTERVIEW

    THIS SO MUCH PAIN , STRESS , FRUSTRACTION ,

    GHANA EMBASSY HAVE TO DO SOME THING ABOUT THIS SITUATION

    YOU ALL MISS OUR HUSBAND & WIFE

    LET THEM DO SOME THING ABOUT OUR CASE

    BECAUSE LIFE IS SO SHORT

    WITH ALL NEED OUR SPOUSE

    [/qCOMPLETED DECEMBER 22,2009 ITS TERRIBLE BUT THIS IS OUR LIFE AT THE MOMENT I HATE THIS WAITING TO TRUST ME BUT OUT DAY WILL COME

  8. Hello VJ Friends:

    I've been sick (malaria) for the past couple of weeks which is why I've not been active here lately. I'm sure some of you have seen that we've been scheduled for interview on December 23, 2010, and wondering what happened. Well...my wife contacted a local TV station who came over to interview her about our case and put it on the news about 4 weeks ago. The next thing we know is being scheduled for interview on December 23, 2010! As to how it happened I cannot explain. In our situation, the scheduling was done on November 5 which runs inconsistent with the NVC's general pattern of interview scheduling - second week of every month. We're both prayerful and my wife felt that God was leading her to talk to the news people and the end-product is this wonderful news! That's all we did! When the news people came over, I was on phone with my wife and our 22 months old son....It's just so amazing how God works and we're excited about it! We're putting together everything to ensure a successful interview.

    Now, I would like to have a little help from those that have gone through the interview before, especially those in the CR-1/IR category. Since the NVC collected all the original documents, passport photos, and the Immigrant Visa Application (Application for Immigrant Visa and Alien Registration), I was wondering as to whether we're required to bring a copy of the Immigrant Visa Application and passport photos. The interview letter does state that these documents are already submitted but we just have to make sure we don't miss any needed document. I would be grateful if any of those that have already gone through could spare a few minutes to keep us informed as to this question.

    God bless y'all and we're praying that y'all get a date sooner than projected.

    THANK YOU FOR TELLING US

  9. :thumbs: Thanks! We are not rrelying on the notarized letter solely either but we just want to have whatever documents they request. Nonetheless we will have letters from our family members on both sides and mutual friends as well. My teacher is a Notary - just inquiring about one on his end(if that even exist).. ;)

    i had a lawyer at the court house do mine he did two for i think 10 cedis

  10. Hey guys,

    I just read a few posts referring to a backlog of cases in Ghana. Can anyone shed some light on how bad the situation is? My wife's case was completed in August and I was thinking that I could have her here with me before January - is this wishful thinking? Is pulling consular strings the only way to get a quick interview?

    Thanks in advance!

    sorry to say it is wishful thing i have been waiting for an interview since dec,2009

  11. Hi VJ members.thank you all for your info.i met my wife through a friend online.she later visited me in Ghana and we started making arrangement for our wedding in the states.her family invited me to see them before our wedding but i was refused a visa.we later planed to get married and live in Ghana.we got married in oct.2009.she got pregnant a month after our wedding and she has to go back to the states because of her health implications.Her doctor asked her not to travel alone so i have to travel with her to the states and i was denied a visa again.so we made arrangements for her to go back to the states.

    She filed for me and luckly the NVC approved it in May before she gave birth to a handsome baby boy in June.I have still not had an appointment and we hope and pray i get an appointment soon.

    I want all VJ member who have been there and had some experience to tell me how long should i expect an appointment.what i should do for the medical test how the process goes and the right place to get the medical exams done.what should i expect should i expect on the day of the interview.? i want to know what to do and what not to do.I hope some one will be very kind and give me all the info.thank you all and God bless you all.[/size]

    HI I BEEN ON MY JOURNEY FOR 18 MONTH WITH NO INTERVIEW IN SIGHT ...LOOKS LIKE THE WAIT IS OVER A YEAR FOR A INTERVIEW

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