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  1. My husband want to petition for his father but my hubby has a ghanian passport and his father has a Nigerian passport his mom was ghanian so he chose the easier passport so we are wondering if there will be a issue because they hold to different passports does anyone have any experience with this any advise would help .Will they deny bcs of two different passports from two different countries, By the way when we send petition he will be a us citizen by than

  2. well my husband arrived march 7,2011 all is been going well found out i was pregnant in july got a permanent job at a hospital in august got his drivers license on sept 26,2011 found out have a boy due march lol that will be his one yr of being in usa gift from me everything seems to be moving smoothing so far its a happy ending HE IS MY EVERYTHING WILL KEEP U UPDATED...

  3. Does anyone know how long it will take for my husband to get his medical results? Will he obtain them the same day he takes the exams, or does he have to come back and pick them a few days later? He doesn't live in Accra, so we are trying to figure everything out. Thanks in advance!

    The best thing is to have him go to accra to holy trinity and plan to stay 2days in a row and than they tell him wen to com and get it

  4. have any of my ghana interviewers brought their spouse in with them during interview? I will be there during my fiancee's, and we arnt sure how to approach them at the embassy about this issue. If anyone would please share how they went about it that would help a bunch. Thank you

    This is what u do u take ur passport let her go join the line and u go straight to the door with passport in hand and thats it that is how i did they never questioned my why i was going there,DO NOT JOIN THAT LINE WITH HER BCS THAN THEY MIGHT SAY U CAN ENTER U JUST GO STRAIGHT TO THE DOOR WITH UR PASSPORT.AND IF U JUST WAIT IN THE COURTYARD AFTER U GET THRU SERCURITY ABOUT 20 MINUTES AND LET SOME PPLE CLEAR U CAN ALWAYS SAY U NEED THE BATHROOM LOL AND THAN JUST SIT DOWN NEXT TO HER REMEMBER IT IS UR EMBASSY U ARE AN AMERICAN!!!!!!

  5. hi have hope my hubby went only one interview and was granted the visa a roundtrip is better only because it is cheaper cash is the better way to go we flew delta airlines and bought the ticket at the delta office in accra and paid in us dollars i paid 1625 ..i bought the ticket same day he was approved although it is not advisable by most people but we got the visa the day they said we would anything is posssible good luck stay confident

  6. One more thing - interviews at the embassy in Ghana often required the interviewee to come back for a second or third interview to provide more evidence or something. There are those who have made it through the first time, but, there seems to be more who are called back. So if your hope is to be there on the day of the interview and bring your fiancee back to the US with you, the odds may work against you in Ghana. Love you Ghana! :innocent:

    i attend my husband interiew i got it on the first try

  7. We received our approval letter on June13th,2011 and are still waiting for our interview letter. Where will the letter be sent? Will it go to USA or Ghana? My fiance lives in Ghana and so far all of the mail has been sent to the USA. We are both in Ghana and the mail has be forwarded to us. thanks for any replies.

    Update nvc with ur email address and all will be sent to the email and u can just print from internet cafe

  8. Hello VJ Family,

    I thought maybe I would share some of the red flags, looking back from the time we met and during the immigration process. I truly did not have a whole lot but there were a few that are noteworthy. I also have a couple of friends who went thru the process who shared some red flags they encountered. Again, we are still together and if it's God's will, he will make the necessary changes to have a happy, successful, trustworthy marriage. If he doesn't "OH WELL, SEE YA". Just let me add also, I do not hide anything from my husband. I told him straight up I am trying to forewarn my VJ Sisters who want to listen or who are concerned that they may be being used. I told him he is free to leave at anytime he sees fit and I won't hold it against him. If it means having a peace of mind, rather than being in this unusual, loveless, deceitful marriage, I'd rather be alone & at peace. He really won't leave.... it's very strange but I honestly think it's out of shame to his family. They are very close knit with a stong religious background. My issue is LIARS, I hate liars. The man is a big liar! my mother said if you lie, you will cheat and I believe that. No woman has come forward yet, but i would not be shocked if one did. He's sitting on the couch while I'm typing this. I don't care. I just turned 40 and it's time to "DO ME". Well some of the red flags were

    Red flags

    1) Saying I love you a couple of days after connecting on the internet. ** Impossible to love someone you know nothing about at that point***

    2) Younger man, older woman who's overweight, often with kids . ***This is not the typical family arrangement in the african culture****.

    3) Doubts about some of things he tells you. *** Do your homework and verify the things you discuss******

    Those my 3 red flags, other than that he had me sold. I have some friends who are going through much worse and some of the men have left. There red flags were

    3) On the internet late at night at the internet cafe when their not talking to you. ** Usually means they are chatting with other women***.

    4) My good friend said when she got to Ghana (her husband was Ghanian), he did not want to be seen with her in public. He was not romantic and there was a huge disconnection, but he still wanted to marry her. *** What man do you know would marry a woman he is not in love with unless theirs an ulterior motive?****

    5) Someone who is inconsiderate of your financial obligations by always requesting money to be wired.

    6) Not genuinely interested in your life, your background and your feelings.

    7) Has a few shady friends (one of my red flags). ****The kind that you know are up to no good****

    I'll let you know if i think of anymore. This is only for those who are interested.

  9. He's been here 2 years, and we've put in so many applications at so many different kinds of jobs. We've lost count. NOT one FR***** interview. He's educated, presentable, well-spoken but if no one will interview him how will they choose him. We've begun to consider it is his name, predjudice, else why won't even McDonald's call him in for an interview.(Mohamed T. Mohamed) We are at the end of our ropes and it's taking a toll, a big one on our marriage.

    We have had nothing but problems since we met,took me three years to get him here, now I think we both regret it. Of course, we love each other, but how can we go on like this? I know no one can really help. Unless you have a job for him. But I really wish someone could. He's in school, but it's not enough to keep him happy and occuppied, we are bored sick with having no money, and no fun. Can't even afford to go out for a stupid hamburger. We are depressed and miserable and can't even enjoy each other's company anymore, or can't muster the energy and interest to find "free things" to do. We just want to begin our lives. He needs a job to do that.

    A CNA TAINING CLASS TAKES THREE WEEKS AND SOMETIMES THEY HAVE PAID TRAINING..JUST A THOUGHT IF HE DOES CITIZEN SHIP U CAN OPT TO CHANGE IS NAME SO U WILL GET THRU THIS I PROMISE

  10. There is not a strong representation for Ghana on VJ which is quite unfortunate since we really need to know how things are going with the interviews. Several people have been trying to find a way to get more folks going through the process in Ghana to join VJ. Even some of the ones who have joined just won't update their time-lines and that pisses me off because they are benefiting from the experiences of others but won't do their part by just filling out their time-line. It is not as if you are giving away any personal information that could be used to steal your identity or anything along that line. You don't even need to post any comments - although you may be contact by folks that want to learn from your experience. But at minimum, the most valuable thing that everyone can do on this site is to keep their time-line up to date.

    Where are my Ghana peeps???!!! :(

    WELL PUT I SWEAR IT ONLY TAKES LESS THAN FIVE MINUTES TO UPDATE

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