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  1. Anyone else struggle with the decision to make another trip this year, or to save up days off for when the visa is approved?

    For me, iI don't want to choose a 6 or 7 month gap without seeing my fiancee, but on the other hand I want plenty of time to make the move with her and to help her settle in, show her around the USA, etc. I am thinking about asking for a few weeks of unpaid leave next year, but I am sure that will go over like a lead balloon (ton of bricks, or insert your favorite cliche hear)!

    I know what you are feeling about making another visit. I was going to go back to Turkey in Sept. because we haven't seen each other since March 2 but we have decided it would be best for him to continue to work and for me to save my vacation time. BUT it is very, very hard to be away from him for so long. We aren't expecting to be together until, at least, Thanksgiving. Looking back, the time has past very fast but looking ahead......OMG!!

    Yes I have strangled with this myself.My future wife is the one that keeps me calm and tells me to save the money.I have not seen my love in 6 months now.We only see each other online with web cam,She stays up late every night to spend time with me.I dont know how she handles her work with such little sleep.

    Its been very hard but I can not afford to go because my business is not doing that great.So We have made up our minds to stick it out for the interview.My baby has told me she wants me to come a few days before interview so we spend some time together catching up :)

    And then she does not want to go back to the USA for ten days after interview.She wants us just to be by our self for ten days.She knows if I was to get back to the states I would want to go back to work soon,because I would be worried about my business.So she has told me she wants me all to herself she would keep me in the Ukraine so the poeple that work for me could not call me LOL, Smart girl because I know if i got back home I would be wanting to check in and see what was going on,And then I would be there working the rest of the day because I like to help out.Lets face it I love to work!!

    Its been real hard this past 6 months but we are close to the end.We should get word very soon on our visa,And about another 2 or 3 weeks,And then I will buy plane tickets and be off to see her very soon after words.

    She is worth the wait.

  2. Haha, no worries. I'm currently twiddling my thumbs because my server on WoW is down and I have nothing better to do, so I did take pictures right now.

    Hey try Runes of Magic. Is a game extremely similar to WoW and its free. I'm sure you'll like it.

    PEACE.............

    I've heard of it/seen others playing it at my internet cafe. But the WoW addiction is four and a half years and running, haha..

    Oh man I used to play WOW all the time.I played it when it was in Bata.WOuld do testing on battle gorunds hahaha those were the days,It was so cool to see it all for the first time.Like finding a diamond in the dirt hahahaha.My daughter stell plays.I just dont have time right now with business and trying to get my house looking nice before my wife gets here.

    I have a 75 Shadow Priest,I loved melting poeples face off hahahaha,Or killing rogues,They are a pain but killing them was so much fun.

    Okay Im starting to miss the game I beter go before it sucks me back in LOL

  3. I feel you man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Its been 5 months sents the last time I have kissed my wonderful Anya!! I miss her so much!! Its like my life is on hold untell she can be in my arms again. Some days are really bad and some days I dont even know how I made it to work and back home again.Mostly now I just work hard and keep busy.I do a lot of cleaning my house and building stuff.I have a nice book shelf in me and Anya's bed room not.

    I have built a hole new room for our son,He well have a play room with a Tv on the wall so he can not pull it down on himself LOL.And a Xbox and all the russain Movies I could find online to buy.And I set up a sand box out side my house and now Im puting up a fenice around the back yard so he can not run off in the woods hahaha.I was a boy once too I know what they like to do.Frogs ad snakes if it was there I could find it LOL.

    This wait is killing me and I feel you pain.Every day i walk into my bed room and my bathroom and think what it would be like to see her cleaning or watching tv with me.Or go into our son's room and think how nice it would be to read him a bed time story before bed.Its very hard and it sucks!!

    The nice thing is the poeple here are very nice try to give you support.Im happy I found this web sit.It has helped me out a lot.

    Just hang in there me and you both are close to the end.Only a 4 maybe 6 weeks left I hope.And I payed for a lawyer,1250.00 I thought that made it go faster LOL But nOOO still takes the same amount of time.

  4. I have to say I have not done any thing before this hard.I used to fight Professionally all over the US.I wont go into the typ of fighting but lets just say it was very hard to train for.I can tell you this waiting for my love is much harder.I have never felt the pain of missing some one so bad.And it has been making me a little crazy this past month<oh lets be honest I have been going crazy from day one with out her.I try and stay focused on my work and going to gym and doing some hard training at first that worked but now nothing helps.

    And my future wife has gained a little wight hahaha because she has been eating so because she misses me so much,I love her and she can gain wight I dont care.I know how much we love each other,I wish i could go see her but Im saving the money.My business is doing good but Im not making the same amount of money i made 2 years ago.

    I have to work 2 times as hard to make good money,And I want to fly in for her interview.If I spend money on plane tickets to see her now I may not be able to afford the trip,if her interview comes in the next month or 2.I want to stay there with her untell she gets her visa so me her and our son can fly back to the USA together.

    It well be a dream come true when we walk off the plane with my new family.

    I just need to share with some one,I think my poor Anya is tired of me crying to her LOL

    Hey buddy how did you deal with all this stress?? And did you get jealuse at any point?? Im not going to lie man I had some crazy thoughts and was freaking out for about a month in April. Did you ever feel like you got in over your head at times?/ I have never had a long distance relationship.I trust my baby and I love her very much but we are all Human.So how do you deal with not being able to touch her,or feel the warmth of the only women You love in the world?

    Yes I know we wont be able to stand in there with her,But its only about 10 to 15 minutes and they will want to talk to us too.I just talked to some one that just had there interview and he said it took about 35 to 45 minutes because they talk to her and him.

    You said some thing about 90 days?? Is there a way to get it done faster??Shoot if I would have known that I would have put all my money to that real fast.I mean Im not rich but Im one hell of a worker and when I want some thing I can get money fast!! I just have skills in the deportment hahahaha.

    LOL im so used to typing to my ANYA in russain I know write english words like she does LOL. LIke Ill write women and not woman,Ill put words in front of other words hahahah,Like we would she a little of this please.In Russin its back words.

  5. I have to say I have not done any thing before this hard.I used to fight Professionally all over the US.I wont go into the typ of fighting but lets just say it was very hard to train for.I can tell you this waiting for my love is much harder.I have never felt the pain of missing some one so bad.And it has been making me a little crazy this past month<oh lets be honest I have been going crazy from day one with out her.I try and stay focused on my work and going to gym and doing some hard training at first that worked but now nothing helps.

    And my future wife has gained a little wight hahaha because she has been eating so because she misses me so much,I love her and she can gain wight I dont care.I know how much we love each other,I wish i could go see her but Im saving the money.My business is doing good but Im not making the same amount of money i made 2 years ago.

    I have to work 2 times as hard to make good money,And I want to fly in for her interview.If I spend money on plane tickets to see her now I may not be able to afford the trip,if her interview comes in the next month or 2.I want to stay there with her untell she gets her visa so me her and our son can fly back to the USA together.

    It well be a dream come true when we walk off the plane with my new family.

    I just need to share with some one,I think my poor Anya is tired of me crying to her LOL

    Hey buddy how did you deal with all this stress?? And did you get jealuse at any point?? Im not going to lie man I had some crazy thoughts and was freaking out for about a month in April. Did you ever feel like you got in over your head at times?/ I have never had a long distance relationship.I trust my baby and I love her very much but we are all Human.So how do you deal with not being able to touch her,or feel the warmth of the only women You love in the world?

    Yes I know we wont be able to stand in there with her,But its only about 10 to 15 minutes and they will want to talk to us too.I just talked to some one that just had there interview and he said it took about 35 to 45 minutes because they talk to her and him.

    You said some thing about 90 days?? Is there a way to get it done faster??Shoot if I would have known that I would have put all my money to that real fast.I mean Im not rich but Im one hell of a worker and when I want some thing I can get money fast!! I just have skills in the deportment hahahaha.

  6. I have to say I have not done any thing before this hard.I used to fight Professionally all over the US.I wont go into the typ of fighting but lets just say it was very hard to train for.I can tell you this waiting for my love is much harder.I have never felt the pain of missing some one so bad.And it has been making me a little crazy this past month<oh lets be honest I have been going crazy from day one with out her.I try and stay focused on my work and going to gym and doing some hard training at first that worked but now nothing helps.

    And my future wife has gained a little wight hahaha because she has been eating so because she misses me so much,I love her and she can gain wight I dont care.I know how much we love each other,I wish i could go see her but Im saving the money.My business is doing good but Im not making the same amount of money i made 2 years ago.

    I have to work 2 times as hard to make good money,And I want to fly in for her interview.If I spend money on plane tickets to see her now I may not be able to afford the trip,if her interview comes in the next month or 2.I want to stay there with her untell she gets her visa so me her and our son can fly back to the USA together.

    It well be a dream come true when we walk off the plane with my new family.

    I just need to share with some one,I think my poor Anya is tired of me crying to her LOL

  7. He got his figures from the U.S Citizenship Immigration services. You click on processing time and it tells you that they are working on case's from nov, 25 2008 and that he counts 6 months out and that gives us our time line.

    Hope I explained this right. I file my paper work on March the 30.So if I go by what other poeple have told me, we should be getting close to getting the first part done.

    But I know some people take a lote longer.

    Lawyers are often wrong.

    He is using the USCIS timelines which are worthless, they list the oldest case in the system. Unless your case becomes the NEW oldest case, it will be shorter. Be happy you are using the Kiev consulate. Their time to interview once the petition is approved is lightning fast! Get you interview documents done NOW because once Kiev has your case (usually about three weeks after NOA2) you can get an appointment in as little as FOUR days! DO NOT wait for packet 3 to be sent from Kiev. Ukrainian mail is so unreliable it is possible your fiancee will never get them. Download the forms and instructions from the consulate website and get them ready.

    Good luck

    Thank you so much for your Advice.When My lawyer said this to me I almost got a plane ticket and left to see her right now.I was like Damn i can not wait another 4 or 6 months.

  8. He got his figures from the U.S Citizenship Immigration services. You click on processing time and it tells you that they are working on case's from nov, 25 2008 and that he counts 6 months out and that gives us our time line.

    Hope I explained this right. I file my paper work on March the 30.So if I go by what other poeple have told me, we should be getting close to getting the first part done.

    But I know some people take a lote longer.

  9. K-1 Visa

    Event Date

    Service Center : Vermont Service Center

    Consulate : Ukraine

    I-129F Sent : 2009-03-30

    I-129F NOA1 : 2009-04-02

    I-129F RFE(s) :

    RFE Reply(s) :

    I-129F NOA2 :

    NVC Received :

    NVC Left :

    Consulate Received :

    Packet 3 Received :

    Packet 3 Sent :

    Packet 4 Received :

    Interview Date :

    Visa Received :

    US Entry :

    Marriage :

    Comments :

    Processing

    Estimates/Stats : Based on timeline data, your I129f may be adjudicated between July 31, 2009 and August 7, 2009*.

    If this date range has passed or your application is past due per USCIS processing times then you should consider calling the USCIS to inquire on your petition. If you have been approved please update your timeline.

    This is the time line they are saying on this site.

  10. USCIS lost our Case in March this year, we were given two options, wait around and see if they find it, or refile with an expedite, the officer we have been dealing with told us that honestly it would be quicker to go the way we have.

    This month is the start of our 4 month not beiing together.We had hard one last month,the missing each other really got to me.She handles it much beter then I do.We are at the half way point,thats just for the first step,and it all ready feels like its been a life time.TIme really does stand still when you are in love like this.

    I find myself really going to the gym a lote.I alwas went to the gym but now its like Im in there 6 days a week.I have lost all my body fat,my future wife is going to think half her husband is gone hehehe.

    It did not help that I got the worse news this past month.My mother is dieing from Lue Garrets disease,(form of Lue Garrets at last stagies) so my emotions have been pretty raw.Thank god my Anya is so clever and smart and so calm.SHe knew I was having a hard time dealing with this and she was trying to make it as easy on me as she could.I love her so much.

    Even with her in another country she helped me deal with it.She is a wonderfull woman.

  11. During that time, my fiancée were discussing other countries we would like to live in if the USA didn't accept her. We did everything we could plus more to satisfy the DOS and the USCIS, and doesn't help being an engineer with worse case design and asking that "What IF?" question a zillion times. But hey, this is my honey and we only wanted to be together, so never argued about these delays. Another answer was, "Maybe Tomorrow!".

    Thanks a bunch every one.This help me out a lote.My sweety is so much wiser then me! She all ready knew what was bothering me and we talked about it and she calmed me down.

    She is wise beyoond her years,she is alwas Calm and never thinks bad.I love her so much.

  12. It seems this last month I have been acting more and more like Im crazy? I say the wrong thing or Im just missing her so much if she does some thing I start to think crazy?? And we tend to fight a little online?? We never used to to this.Now its like we do it once a week.Is this normal?? Is it the stress of what we are going through??

    Please help I think Im going crazy here. :crying:

  13. You know what I find ironic in all this? That after all the paperwork.....all the waiting.....all the process.....at the end some mass of flesh and bones can decide if you can be with your loved one or not. It's incredible. hehehehe.

    PEACE people....................

    WOW I was going to rant with some of you but I see that I have no room too.LOL Its been over 33 days and nothing for me and my girl but most of you guys have been waiting a lote longer! WOW I know how hard its been for me this past 33 days and I can only think how bad I will be when its been over 100 days.I feel for all of you guys,I wish there was some way it could go faster but I guess thats life.SOme times you can wish as hard as you want but its going to do no good.

    I think of it now like a season.You all go thru seasons,I had a long winter for a long time after my first wife turn into a drunk and left me and my kids.I had no choice but to step up and take care of my kids and be a father and mother to them.I had prayed to God meny times and thought maybe God did not care.But I think he knew I needed to be in the season I was in,because if he would have given me her to soon I may have made some big misstakes.Now I understand much beter why I had to wait so long.

    You know the funny thing I had stop thinking about meeting some one just before I was given my Anya.I had a friend tell me I needed to meet a russain girl he was telling me about his wife and the way she was.I was like how did you meet her?He said online and then showed me the place,but I did not save the web site I just looked at it with him and said okay and left it alone.About 2 weeks later I was at my desk and thought hey Im bored let me check it out.I could not find the web site and thought oh well this is a sign,I was about to stop looking and then I saw the web site meet nice ukaine girl.I was like hmmm let me just look.The first person that poped up was Anya,I read her profile and was like I like this girl.The way she talked about her son made me want to send her a email.It cost 19.99 to join and the same day i sent her a email.

    She did not email me back for 5 days and I thought maybe she did not like me.I came into work one day and she had emailed me back.we exchanged like 5 emails and right off we could tell we had some thing good,We went to yahoo messager and I droped my member ship with the dating service.Later I found out that,the reason she did not get back to me sooner was because she thought she had stop being a member of that web site a month ago.And it was too a old email address.She for some reason had a feeling to check it and there was my email.She told me she never had talked to any one on this web site and it was the first time.She had given up on finding her man and left it in the hands of God.

    The crazy thing is she had never saw a photo of me.She had talked to me for a hole month before seeing me on a web cam,We had all ready fallen for each other.We have talked every day for over 7 months now.I would come in on sunday to work because I did not have a web cam at home and I wanted to talk to her.Now I have a web cam at home and a nice computer.SO sunday is still her day for me to just talk to her.My kids have been with me talking to her to and they like her very much.

    Im just happy that we now have a chance at being together and hope real soon we will be together for the rest of our lives.Hope I did not bore you with my story.

  14. not K-1... moving

    does not appear to be though some words were understandable and it does not appear to be Ukrainian either

    What words could you make out ??

    Russian remains the most common language in urban areas of Tatarstan and other Tatar-populated areas.

    Okay with some work I found out this is a Tatar-russain Mix. Any one know Tatar?? LOL Help If not Ill keep looking

    Thanks for the help guy.I have Tatar and russain translator.LOL Im stupid and not very smart man LOL I got it figure out in about 20 minutes hehehe Well Im not that stupid,just this waiting is killing me and Im so board I tend to look for things to read.Thats stupid on my part and I have learned my lesson.Serves me right I should not of been on this board anyway.

    Scrach what I just said this is ruassin.But i think its slang.I thought I had it figured out but I dont.My future wife is explaining it to me now.

  15. not K-1... moving

    does not appear to be though some words were understandable and it does not appear to be Ukrainian either

    What words could you make out ??

    Russian remains the most common language in urban areas of Tatarstan and other Tatar-populated areas.

    Okay with some work I found out this is a Tatar-russain Mix. Any one know Tatar?? LOL Help If not Ill keep looking

    Thanks for the help guy.I have Tatar and russain translator.LOL Im stupid and not very smart man LOL I got it figure out in about 20 minutes hehehe Well Im not that stupid,just this waiting is killing me and Im so board I tend to look for things to read.Thats stupid on my part and I have learned my lesson.Serves me right I should not of been on this board anyway.

  16. not K-1... moving

    does not appear to be though some words were understandable and it does not appear to be Ukrainian either

    What words could you make out ??

    Russian remains the most common language in urban areas of Tatarstan and other Tatar-populated areas.

    Okay with some work I found out this is a Tatar-russain Mix. Any one know Tatar?? LOL Help If not Ill keep looking

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    Thanks

    Is it code?? Or some thing like that??

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    Thanks

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