TiffandDai

Most times you just need a social security number to open a bank account, saying that though each bank is different. If your fiancee has a bank account in the states I would try them first.

Insurance in this country is crazy! We're moving from Arizona to Louisiana because my husband has military orders, and it is jumping from $587 per 6 months (for 2 cars and 2 people) to $1087 per 6 months. I also think it's disgusting that they even look at education - just because you dont have a BA degree doesn't mean your irresponsible!

LA has a military discount program that you may qualify for if you are still in LA. It is a pretty hefty discount. I work for a company who issues policies for mostly military folks, so tell them that!

I think it really depends on who the insurance company is. I work for an insurance company (who does business in NC) and have never asked someone how long they have had a 'US' license when I issue a NC auto insurance policy.

I talk to more immigrants/non-USC than probably a majority of other agents due to our clientele.

California Service center is taking about 6 months or less if you look at this thread CSC I-751 Processing Times and the info on the USCIS website.

I wouldn't anticipate it taking longer than 2-3 more months. They are getting out cases faster than VSC.

Quick suggestion:

Resend your previous evidence and add anything you might have missed.

I completely agree. They may have 'misplaced' the original documents. Like others have said include this years Tax return and any other evidence you may have acquired in the last year like Christmas/Thanksgiving pictures.

Good luck!!

I think he should counter sue the illegals for his property damage and emotional distress. This lawsuit is ludicrous. It's these frivolous cases that cost time, money and clog up the judiciary system!

What Charlie doesn't say is that in an effort to cut taxes he has greatly cut spending in the most needed areas like schools and police/fire departments.

Down with the Orange Man!!

It really depends on how picky he is, living in the Tampa area myself (as I see you do) it's really tough to find a good paying job here now. I have a family member who works in Human Resources (in Tampa aswell) and she had 120 applicants to fill one position.

It really depends on if he would be willing to do entry level work or get a job out of his field and get paid less now. I guess it depends on his/your priorities.

Wamu not so good. If you don't move around a lot you may want to look into getting a local credit union, they usually are a lot better than larger banks.

Congratulations!

Im jealous...

However depending on how far behind they may get.... you/your spouse may need to get a stamp in your passport extending it another year. Like we did

Where I live in Florida they've started putting up those type of Electric Signs in the 'bad' areas of town saying things like 'Be Aware' and 'Lock your doors' i don't know if its funny or sad....

My husband did get the one year extension letter (between his NOA and biometrics appointment) which I thought you automatically get (i am probably wrong though) when you file for the I-751 due to the processing times. We just recently got the stamp in his passport because it had passed the one year letter extension letter. If that makes sense....

I found this interesting.... he lists the website goodwife.com and this was there

The Good Wife's Guide

From Housekeeping Monthly, 13 May, 1955.

Note: This article may actually be a fake. It has also been listed as coming from a High School Home Economics class.

Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have be thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they get home and the prospect of a good meal is part of the warm welcome needed.

Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you'll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.

Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.

Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. Run a dustcloth over the tables.

During the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering to his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.

Minimize all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Encourage the children to be quiet.

Be happy to see him.

Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.

Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first - remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.

Don't greet him with complaints and problems.

Don't complain if he's late for dinner or even if he stays out all night. Count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through at work.

Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or lie him down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.

Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.

Don't ask him questions about his actions or question his judgment or integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him.

A good wife always knows her place.

I would wait at least a few months after you filed for the I-751 to get the passport stamp, I know the processing time is different for everyone but as someone who is still waiting after filing in January 2008 I wouldn't get too soon.

The best one I found to use is the Royal Mail phonecard. I think they can be purchased almost anywhere... my husband used to get them from Tesco or Asda I think.

I don't know if they are still sold though, it was over 4 years ago I/my spouse used one

As long as you file your taxes as married you should be fine. Being single just means that Uncle Sam takes more of your money. I still claim single (even though I am married) and my spouse and I get a nice check in February of each year. You get the biggest deductions if you file married 'jointly'.

what do we do next after our marriage? i don't understand what her status is, or when to send the adjustment of status form. please help

Next step would be to Adjust Status (to permanent resident/Green Card) - on the K1 Flowchart Shortcut - you're on Step 20. It is best to submit your AOS package (AOS, EAD and AP) documents as soon as possible after you're married (sooner is always better than later).

I concur, get them done asap after you are married! You don't want your loved one in danger of being deported.

Tiffany (USC) and Dai (UKC - Swansea Wales) - Tampa Fl

Being a 'curvy' girl as well I had a similar problem. I would avoid at all costs buying a dress online. If you live near a big city go to a Consignment Wedding dress shop (if they have some where you live) I was able to find a really niiice dress at a reasonable price and with a little alteration it was perfect!

Good question! Being an insurance agent myself in Florida not NY, most insurance policies are written as a family policy where all family members are covered automatically. However there is a clause with most policies aswell that states any change in risk in the household (added family member for example) could cause the policy to not pay out.

It most likely would be more expensive to add you to the insurance as when I added my British husband even though he had experience driving he didnt have an american license before (we are in our twenties so that could also explain the increase).

I agree with Nich-Nick though there needs to be open communication between you and your spouse regarding your personal finances. Even though you aren't working at the moment you still need to know about the finances. I would talk to him about your concerns openly and honestly.

Good luck!

Depending on if you plan on seeking a divorce prior to the approval you may need to file an amended I-751 to waive the requirement for 'joint' relationship status. I would make an Infopass appointment at your local office (if it isnt too far away) and speak to an immigration officer about your situation. You may need to do nothing. Hope things work out for the best.

I am 25. I know it's been a long time since then but I just wish the process was easier and less time consuming.

I don't want mine to go to CA either. I am already past a 12 month wait! What happen to the good ol' days when you could just marry someone and snap you were a citizen...

Went for I-551 today and was advised by Immigration agent some people are on an 18 month wait with VSC