malika215

M & M you are a person after my own heart. I have your exact sentiments. We need brains in this country and most of us are attempting to bring people who would make fabulous citizens as well as spouses. This is all bull..... Our kids can't read or write for heaven's sake - our professors can't write a complete paragraph. I have a husband who corrects MY english sometimes!!!! He speaks four languages. He's got such high moral standards, so sincere, he's one in a million and I want him. I'll take him there if I have to but the weather is a little tough on me year round. You know how they are in the universities to try and get more money - that's what USCIS is doing now. I absolutely resent that this low-life interviewer had the audacity to accuse my husband and I of our marriage not being "real". What makes a marriage real outside of love, respect, caring, wanting to spend the rest of your life together, etc?" Is that "not real"? Who the heck was our interviewer to say ANYTHING about us when she doesn't even know us. Yeah, the first day was a shock, and lots of tears for the both of us. But we re-grouped, stood up on our two feet and we're going to fight. You and I are American citizens - doesn't that count for anything. I wish you the best but these people are not like the consulates of old. It's all about the money and power trips. You know how Michelle Obama said "it's the first time I've ever been proud of my country?" Well, it's the first time I've ever been ashamed of my country. Are are many many more desirable places to live in this world than America and don't get me wrong either please. The America of old is gone. Morocco is a fabulous place to live. Europeans are flocking in there as well to escape the VAT tax that is coming America's way. It's hard to come back to the states with their non-plastic, non-cardboard, non-tainted food and a low stress life. No, it's not perfect there, but it sure has a lot of things I enjoy in my life now and it won't be a problem to live there.

I get all this about 150 years ago and immigration. HOWEVER, we are letting in people who are illiterate, people who could care less about making a future here to build this country, people who had previous criminal records and overstayed their visas. Alongs come me and my husband who has his masters, is brillant, wants to share his knowledge with his students, wants a wife that thinks the same way he thinks. I WILL go there to live if they don't let him in but I take umbrage with the fact that all these other illegals are getting amnesty and benefits which I am paying for, in one way or another. If they threw out the illegals, then legals could comel

My dear, I'm very sorry to hear about your problems with your husband. I would like for you to take a quiet moment and re-read your letter. to us. How many chances did you give him? Count them! As someone who has worked with drug addicts, which he appears to be, I will tell you the stories, the abuse, the emotional pain will continue until he goes into a drug treatment center. I am assuming he is American??? Did you ever ask his mother, anyone in his family or friends if he had a previous history of doing drugs? Therein lies much to what action you should take. I am suspecting he tried to stay clean when you first got married. He may have been doing drugs the times he slept in the living room and you didn't know it. I'm hearing from your letter he has a very serious problem. There are shelters for women who are abused and they take your child with you as well. I do not think the government can take your child if you and the baby are in a safe place. They are experienced, very very experienced, with cases like yours and they will give you good advice, keep you safe, feed you, and counsel you. Honey, you are a victim of spousal abuse. It sounds lilke his mother can do nothing with him as well. You need to get away from him before you and your child are hurt or separated. Look online for an organization who takes in abused women. If you can't find it call your county mental health system and ask for a number of a place where they abused women. He will not change without rehab and even then who knows because we don't know exactly what drugs he is taking, do we? He doesn't tell you the truth. I don't know your history, but if his mother is here, I just assumed you are Moroccan and he is American. Good luck and may God help you in your decisions and protect you.

I have seen this video but I have an issue with the fact that they are never fair or unbiased. They rarely look at your file and tend to make premature judgements before one shows up for their interview. I know that there is fraudulant cases from Morocco, but they should show respect to the interviewees.

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