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WeAreTogetherNow

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  1. hello all together!!!

    it's been a week since I arrived in washington! it was pretty easy to get in, only the question who I'm gonna vistit and if he's a us citizen.

    so now I'm here in alexandria and I love it. but the best thing is to be with my schatz!!! :D

    the funny thing is, that we still sleep on an airmatress, cause we moved into a new apartment and have to buy everything new, but it's really not easy to find a good bed! ;)

    so I hope everybody is doing well and let's look forward, only one moth and maybe we'll all get an awesome christmas present!!! :star:

    ps: we got 2 touches, but I guess we only got them, because we changed the adress :(

  2. Ok let's try to understand his point of view. Does he have a choice on whether he gets deployed or not and when? Will he lose his job if he does not follow orders? Try to find out if he has YOU as his top prioritity. Sounds like he's trying to fit you and the wedding in accordance to what is convenient for him. I find it hard to believe that his superior / employer will not be considerate about making some timing adjustments to allow for this important phase in his/your life. It's the same concept as filing a vacation from work. Isn't he allowed that? The whole operation will not shut down without him. No one is indispensible. If you go through with the interview, you would be able to join him very soon and file an Advance Parole to follow him wherever he is assigned... in about 3 months. And he's asking you to hold on for years! As I advised above, do not go through with the visa application if you are not 100% sure he is treating you right. You will feel even worse if you went through the paperwork (and expense!) for nothing. From the NOA2 date, i heard that you are given 4 months to file the visa. You can schedule the interview near end of the 4 months. Then the visa is valid for 6 months by which time you need to have entered the US.

    sorry, but it's not that easy! If you have a relationship with a soldier then you have to understand, that the army comes first. always!! if he gets deployed then he has to go! no chance to get out of that!!!

    I know a lot of people who married before the deployment and got divorced after, cause the wife cheated on her husband or the other way around.

  3. I got my flu shot yesterday... does anybody know if I still have to get the chickenpox shot, even when I had the chickenpox when I was 5 years old? :blink: (in here the shot costs 350 euro, that´s like 470 $)

    oh thanksgiving turkey... I made my first one last year and it was huge. we don´t have thanksgiving in germany, but we should! on christmas we always make goose or duck.

    I´m so happy and thankful that I can spend thanksgiving with my honey and I feel the pain of those who won´t be able to be with their love! only a few more weeks and all of that (stupid) long waiting has an happy end!!! :thumbs:

    I wish you all a great weekend!

    ps: good luck mara

  4. hello all together!!!

    I can´t believe it and I´m so excited, cause I´m going to visit my honey at the 23rd of okt!!! he bought my ticket today! :D oh I can´t tell how happy I am!!!!!!

    but I´m a lil bit worried too, cause I heard so many stories about not getting in...

    so it would be nice if anybody can tell me what to take with me or what to say?? (it will be my first time in the states)

    hey happydancer, don´t worry!!! in my opinion that´s a lil problem which can be fixed and maybe they start to work on it now, so you will get your NOA2 soon!! ;)

    I wish you all a nice night or morning or day! (oh how confusing) :wacko:

    AND A FAST NOA2 :thumbs:

  5. good morning everybody! :D

    in here it´s wednesday morning at 11:13 and I hope all of you had a good start already or gonna have a good start in the day!

    my honey is a virgo and I´m a scorpio, but I don´t know that much about astrology...

    my fiancé moved to washington dc last month so now we have only 6 hours of time difference instead of 7! :thumbs:

    we gonna do the same like you gemmie and chris& mara, cause we won´t be able to get our two families together so fast.

    the funny thing is that he will plan our wedding, cause when we talked about it the first time I said I´ve never thought about how I want "my wedding", not even as a lil girl, what he couldn´t believe. :blink:

    where did you, the ones who´ve already bought their wedding dress, bought it? in the internet or in a wedding shop?

  6. oOOOHHHH WEEE!!! I hate my time zone. Got my daughter's passport all sorted out now. Just waiting for it to be released three weeks from now.

    Fred, I have added you. :)

    Mara, girl you both look terrific. Awww, people in love are just a sight to behold.

    Dani, I have missed you yesterday.

    Harsh, we all have our venting moments. Feel free to b*tch about the process. We can all relate.

    Maliciant, it's been a while I haven't heard from you.

    BeTogetherSoon, I ams seeing approvals for K1 for Texas filers. Hope yours come soon.

    Missed everyone. Let's start the day guys. :D

    hey HappyDancer, where did you get that from? I´m mean, that would be awesome!

    yeah, I know the problem with explaining so I do it like you gemmie. this is the shortest and easiest way.

    For me the hardest thing will be to say goodbye at the airport to my family and friends. In some way I´m a lil bit afraid of that cause I know it will break my heart to see them all cry... :crying:

  7. hello all together!

    I´m new here and I hope I´m not to late to join the family of august filers. :blush:

    I´m from germany and my fiancé is from Houston. we met in my hometown, where he was stationed as a soldier. happy us he got out of the army in aug 08. so now I don´t have to share him anymore :lol:

    we sent our file at the 25th of july (from germany) and we got our NOA1 at the 13th of aug and got touched at the 18th of aug.

    it´s so nice to know that here are so many nice people going through the same and share all the feelings and be there for each other!

    I wish you guys all the best and a fast NOA2!!!

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