fahim

Things are working for me alhamdullillah.. as far as me and wife are concerned we are almost on the phone 24/7 she needs me and I need to her.. and very soon we are gonna be together..

Spraileness, I have a meeting with her family very soon and things are working for me.. hopefully next month we will have a reception inshaALLAH..

For those who think negative about me: Like I said if I wanted I could simply ask her to leave her family but I didnt want that, if your parents are happy then you stay happy for the rest of your life else you better be prepared that your daugther will oneday betray you.. This is how I think, what goes around comes around.. I simply care abbout my wifes feelings that how much she loves her parents and I didnt want her to leave them right away and hurt them.. there is always a solution for everything which is TALKS or Negotiate.. So this is what I believe and so far I have almost done that.. I am not just sitting and doing nothing what I am going through none of you knows.. so easy for you to judge bad things about me but hard for you to find what really the problem is.. So I am satisified right now I was worried before but not anymore things are working out for me

Fahim

and I am with this lady since 2001, we got engaged in 2002.. So there should be no doubt that this is legitimate relation and there is no falshood involved in it...2001-08 is bigtime for those who really care.. It's easy to discourage people but it's hard to make or settle things.. So far I have tried to convienced her father her sisters and her brothers.. the only person I need to connence is her mother.. The day she is fine inshaALLAH we are gonna have a big reception.. if I wanted I could hold my wifes hand and ask her to leave her family but I am that cruel.. I want to see her happy too.. she loves her family as well.. so I am trying to settle things and I am determine everything will be alright by the end of this month.. and my wife invited me to live in NY so I am moving to NY for good in 2 months now.. where I will tell her to start a life with me.. when you dont know things please stop going negative...

This whole story sounds a little suspicious. If its in your culture to listen to your parents and respect their wishes, its also in your culture to get their blessing to marry their daughter, which I very highly doubt you did.

Seems like you conned a girl into falling in love, and she faught for you, she got you here. Now when it comes your turn to fight for "love", you say screw it and move to Arizona? #######! If you wanted to work on the situation, wouldn't you try to stay somewhere closer to her NY house, instead of busting to the other side of the US? Seems quite suspicious indeed.

And in all this drama, your biggest concern is not her, not saving your marriage, not working on the in-law situation, none of that. Its whats going to happen with my GC & SS? I'll tell you what. Its coming to her house, her dad is going to take that envelope and hold it. If he hates you as much as you say, and wants you as bad out of his daughters life, you will never see those cards.

So if you really got into this for love, you better start showing & fighting for it asap... and not in Arizona. Otherwise get packing.

Watch out before you speak, you have no right to talk negative about me or my wife.. moving to Arizona or Alaska is none of your business.. As far as my wife and me are conerned she is still with me and I am there for her.. I met her in NY and I amgoing to see her again next month.. we have to planned to live together after some months.. we have decided to quit our families and giving them last 3 months to decide wiehter they are happy or not. else we will start a life.. so before you start thinking negativfe about people think positive too..

Living near NY, that was impossible for me to do.. This country is new to me I only knew my wife in NY and I can't live in a state without my ID without Social without my Greencard on my own, I needed someones help, I got some help here in AZ I moved, it is not hard to move back to NY once I am used to this place.. you need to understand that for someone who been to US for the first time how hard will that be to settle on your own in a state where you know no one..

I am already going through alot I can't tolerate such nonsense no more.. sorry for being aggressive.

I am sorry GiGi

Thank you for your kind reply, yes it is kinda weird story.. She got married to me and left right away to United States, she came for 2 weeks.. yes we spent few days back there in Pakistan together.. her family lives in USA, she came for me.. I got VISA on 13th August 08.. I am trying these days to settle down issues with her and her family.. yes she is from pakistan as well.. The only option for her is, either she lives with me or with her family.. so she has to decide... which she is gonna answer me in somedays..

Hi guys.. just yesterday I posted you about my Interview and today I am going to share my marriage life with you guys ..

Alright this is how it is.. I came to USA for my wife but I think she was'nt ready or be there for me.. She refused to accept me as her husband since my inlaws do not want me to be with her.. some of you must be wondering that what do my inlaws have to do with me and my wifes life. We belong from a country (Pakistan) where we have to respect our parents feelings and sometimes listen to them what they want us to do.. So my inlaws do not like me no more and forcing my wife to quit me.. I went to NY to be with my wife she decided not to be with me so I planned to move to Arizona ... we been talking on the phone she still loves me.. and so do I .. she crys all the time on the phone and I am upset too because we been together for last 8 years.. that's not a short time.. we deeply love each other but our families do not want us to be together anyway.. today she called me and told me that I am going to call INS and tell them to remove my name from you so that I should'nt be responsible for any of your action here.. I told her do whatever you want just do not file Divorce which she says I will see if I am forced from my family I might file Divorce as well..

I landed here on 21st August and it's today I havent yet recieved my Social or Conditional GreenCard yet.. soo now could you guide me what's gonna happen if she calls INS? will they block my GreenCard? & Social?.. or anything I am just confused .. your help will be really appreciated..

I just need your help guys...

Note: I am on CR1 Visa here.

Fahim

Thanks guys .. thank you soo much ..

As for timeline is concerned I can't promise that I can update it because i'll have to ask my wife to look for the reciepts and all that.. but I will try my level best to update my timeline.. but if I can't please dont' mind..

Fahim

hey guys sorry for not being active since my interview because I've been very very and very busy I couldnt come online anyway lets share this interview session with you..

Ok I had my CR1 Interview on 13th August, 2008 08:00 at Islamabad Embassy... I was nervous since I left my house in the morning around 06:20. You have to leave early because there are many security checks before getting into US Embassy at Islamabad.. anyway, I reached at 06:35 there we had to catch a shuttle service which takes us to the US Emabssy.. We left around 7:00 and we reach embassy at 7:30 .. there are many Security checks and after all I finaly got into the embassy at 8:20 did my Fingerprints and asked to wait for my turn..

I was called at 09:20 at a counter and asked for the passport and asked if I needed a Translator then the guy asked me to sit and wait for your turn again.. I waited and was watching people getting rejected on Visit visa.. which was making me more nervous lol.. It's hard to get VISIT VISA from Pakistan anyway I was called again at 9:30 then the guy asks me to give him my Medical Report and Police Report and gave me DS-230 to sign.. he asked me to wait again.. this waiting part was annoying and making me more nervous lol..

at exactly 10:00 I was called at counter 2, I went there and the guy greeted me soo well.. he was smilling for all the time, he noticed I was nervous.. anyway he started like this:

1. Let's start with Oath.. I took Oath..

Now Questions begin:

1. How did you meet your wife.

2. Where does she live in USA.

3. Where does she work in USA.

4. Have you ever been to USA.

5. Be more specific how did you meet her.

6. Did she come in person to marry you.

7. Do you have wedding pics, show me.

APPROVED!..

Ok after all these questions, he returned me back my original documents and gave me a coupon and told me that I should recieve my passport in 1 week.. so I asked me should I consider it as approved he goes like ya you're approved congratulation..

I got my passport in 2 days, in next 6 days I came to USA.. I am in Tucson, AZ these days

Staff at Islamabad Embassy are really nice, but don't think they'll issue you visit visa hehe j/k

Regards

Fahim

My agent and my wife received appointment letter right after 2 weeks since my case was completed, but I in Pakistan recieved those documents 6 days before the interview, since it was an international regular mail sent by NVC so it took sometime to reach me. However, I already did my medical on the docs my wife recieved.

Thanks alot, counting hours now

Same here, 2 more days to go... can't wait for it ;p

Hi guys, I have my Interview on 13th August 2008 so I will be leaving to that city tomorrow. I am uploading the last page of my appointment letter.

I have already sent NVC all the original documents, now should I only take copies of those docs?.

Pictures, Passport and Medical Report are with me already with me.

Thanks

Fahim

An urgent reply will be highly appreciated.

But whenever a Birth Ceritificate is required, the scanned or just a copy wont work. I have been that situation, they declined my birth certificate and they asked me to provide either "Original Birth Certificate or Certified copied from the authorities of that country". So I recommend when they ask you for Birth Certificate not at this stage but later, then you should submit Original Birth Ceritifcate and Original Marriage Ceritificate.

they do not charge for fingerprints. caz my wife had the same case and she said they did not charge her, any way if they do i think its just $45.00 and u can also pay in rupees too if they ask for payment

hey thanks alot imran, yeah I'll keep the cash with me.

Congrats..

hmm.. yeah I should check that website Thanks

I just wanted to know that do people at the counslate/embassy charge you for FingerPrints and Delivery of the passport / visa (If approved), if yes then I would like to know that how much will they charge and do they only accept US$ or they will also accept the local currency of that country. I have an interview on 13th August 08 so I am trying to gather all the information as much as I could so I wont face any troubles there.

Thank you soo much.

Fahim