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Lawny, im going to pray for your friend right now, because my heart hurts hearing what is going on with her. My ex, may he rest in peace, two days after he proposed to me, i was on top of the phocking world, we had been together for years, had two kids together and i was pregnant again with our third, well 2 days after that i recieved a phone call from a woman, which was december 26, yes he propososed on christmas eve, anyhoo, i got a call from a woman stating she had just had his baby!!!! i was in such shock and disbelief i thanked her and hung up, called him at work and confronted him!!! he had the nerve to curse me out claiming to not call him with such lies, but then couldnt be man enough to come home and face me, until 4am the next day pissy drunk, full of tears and apologies. The stress of the situation made me miscarry and my heart was never the same after that day. Maybe she is somewhere clearing her head, i would honestly hope that in her state of mind that she has not attempted to go to JA. Can someone please send out a prayer for her on this site.

JG, i am in agreement with you about the negativity on the other site, that you speak of, it is offputting to say the least at times. Sometimes i feel the less said the better.

Overall with the comments from the coworkers, it gets quite annoying, i have told them before regarding JA that it is my business on a need to know basis and that since none of them need to know dont flippin ask!!!!

Thanks Lawny, i know what you mean, i have already gotten questions like, " so is this a fling?" " how do you afford to go?" or " your going again? (smirk, smirk), how was the sex!!!!! shyt like that..i had to just put on my headphones take a couple deep breaths and try not to act a nut up in here....lol

Morning ladies,

Back to work today after returning from JA and for some reason i feel like im about to have a dyam anxiety attack. Cant stand my coworkers in my face asking me questions ...guess im just in a crab a$$ mood today. I miss my SO, but im not gonna complain i got a bonus check that wasnt enough to put gas in my car with but i agree something is better than nothing.

Hope everyone has a good day today.

Island woman,

Thanks! yes I did have a good trip. Actually got to spend some time with the inlaws as well. Its so hard for both of us

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Tymoore -- that is such an understatement... I definitely feel you about how hard it is to leave your SO ! I just left JA on Tuesday and I cried at dinner the night before I left, I cried in the morning when we woke up on Tuesday, I cried on the ride to the airport and I cried when we had to say goodbye at the airport. Everytime I started to cry my SO would start to tear up too-- we must have looked crazy to the people around us, but I couldn't help it. It definitely doesn't get easier to leave.

Unruly, sorry i missed you gal, i had a great time in JA, and like you said i didnt leave until sunday morning but the tears for me started on thursday night, and then saturday night and then sunday morning was really difficult for us both. It took everything in me not to cry all the way from Ochi to Mobay, the driver kept trying to make small talk, and the airport was the worst, sitting in the terminal with a snotty nose and a tear stained face I am planning on going back in October, but right now that seems so far away.

Okay I have to put this out there. Those of you who remember my cousin's ex fiance INDIAN who showed up for his interview after my cousin ended the relationship with him after finding out he had another woman pregnant in Jamaica. Anyway, I was in Pier 1 with my fiance and about 40 or so of his friends celebrating his friends marriage earlier that day. I see my cousin's ex who pushes pass me. I didn't say or do anything. My fiance's friend went to grab after him, but I told him don't worry cause he's looking to start trouble. Well, I walked out to the Pier to get some fresh air and here he comes cussing and carrying on calling me a P**SSY and informer and that I messed up his relationship (so, I turn my back to him) now, he's in my face. I told him to back the "F" up and fi go wash im tinkin mout. I turned to walk away and he tried to SPIT on me. Now, the Pier was packed and I didn't know that my fiance was walking towards me. r I don't know when my fiance's FIST made contact with INDIANS's face, but he was out like a light. Security picks him up threw him and his friends outside and told the friends after he wakes up he's not allowed to come back to the club for several months. That was Friday night.

Fast forward to Saturday night at Magaritaville he tries to start sh*t in there too, so my fiance and his friends was like anytime you ready. I told him and his friends NO, he's not worth and and I told my fiance your A$$ don't need to get into any trouble because our interview is in a few days, so we left and go to a dance one of his friends was having. Well, you think he would have learned his lesson from getting knocked the hell out from the night before. Him and his massive crew shows up and the dance (which had no SECURITY) tried to start some mess. My fiance's best friend gave him his car keys and told him to leave because our car was parked to far up the hill and the crowd of men were coming down the hill. We leave and go back to the hotel since it was about 5 in the morning. My fiance's friends call us around 5:30 and told us that the police had to rescue INDIAN and his friends. First of all how you going to try and start a fight with your crew in an area they not from and no one knows them. So, they got beat the hell down and a lot of men who was at the dance remembered that he tried to spit on me in the club and my man had to knock him out.

Even better; his new wife was sent a letter informing her that he had two prior filings that were no completed. I'm guessing from USCIS. We also found out that he was married before in Jamaica in the 90s (don't know what happened with that) The new wife also found about the pregnant woman. So, now he's facing a lifetime ban. Haaaaaaaa is all I can say.

Lawny, is Indian's real name Brian? real thin, dark skinned, works on the beach with AL? Lawd, say it aint so...lol...he was trying to holla at one of my girls, who is probably three times his size when i was down visiting my SO in april. guess the game is the same no matter where you go!!!!

oh my, ladies, TYMoore even after continuing to read up on the filing process it just makes me sick. When i left JA yesterday i was so sad, i didnt eat until today around 1 becuase i felt so sick. Im still really sad and when i hear about the delays with Shrewdie and Lita and people waiting for interview dates, it just stresses me more because i know it will be just that much longer. Fortunately my SO is really good at "conserving" as he calls it, but being off of work for two weeks, has kind of set him back a bit and OMG he looks like a starving child, he lost so much weight while he was out, not eating much until his mouth healed...LOL...poor thing, i just want to bring him home, feed him and love him up so more

thanks ladies, i will check into it

COngrats Gill, to you and Ken....LOL... things are truly working in your favor. Just enjoy it to the fullest.

Honeychild

Ok ladies, i have a question... i know my SO cant come the states until we complete the process, but i have heard we can island hop without issue. If we were to go visit Trinidad, or another island would all we need is our passports?

Morning Ladies,

Sunny, yeah i was in Ochi. Sunday was the hardest for me, i think i woke up crying. I could barely talk to my SO without getting all teary. The cab driver on the ride to Mobay kept saying " why you look so sad, you sad to be leaving JA?" i wanted to tell him to shut up and stop talking to me, before i start up again. I tried real hard to maintain myself in the airport and then talked to my SO again on the phone, and here come the tears again...LOL... i know the people were like damn lady, get it together....lol

My initial plan was to go back to JA in october, but i think im gonna have to figure out how to do a quick 4 day weekend, in august...lol

Hey ladies, just wanted to say hello to all. Just returned from JA after many delays and getting stranded in Florida, but im home. I miss my SO already, and must have spent the last 8 hours crying off and on . As for him, he is doing well, his head looks like someone tried to split a coconut with a machete... but it is healing and he is back on his feet. Im not complaining and wouldnt allow him to either, as GOD is good and he is here to tell about it. He is all pressed about the scar in his head and his hair not growing properly in the area, i told him you better wear that dyam scar as a badge of honor that you are able to live and tell about it. The weather was nice and we had a great time, now i have to figure out how not to fall into depression about us being apart again. Does this ever get any easier???? doesnt feel like it sometimes. alright it is nearing 3 am and im getting delirious with sleep. Plus i have a lot of reading to do to catch up.

Unruly, PM me when you get a chance and tell me how your trip was.

Be Blessed Ladies

Honeychild

Congrats Wakey,

I am happy for you, i know that must be a good feeling to know that Dwayne will finally be on his way to you.

I am tail dragging today, tired as *&^%, but happy because im leaving for Ochi tonight when i get off work so that will inspire me to get thru the day as productive ( yeah right) as possible....LOL.... I cant wait to see my SO with his stitched up self....LOL

As i tend to be the one with anxiety all the time, about everything, it didnt help to find out tropical storm Bertha has now turned into hurricane Bertha( cross your fingers and pray it doesnt head toward JA for me....LOL)

Congrats Lawny, and Welcome Marcel!!!!!

Unruly and Tymore,

You two be blessed and safe on your trips to JA. I believe Unruly, your leaving on Thursday and Tymore your leaving on Friday. You two enjoy yourselves and try not to wear them men out....LOL

Im right behind you two,leaving on Monday,and lawd knows i cant wait !!! my clients at work getting on my nerves, my kids getting on my nerves, Monday cant get here soon enough.

Peace

Honey

Yeah JG, i read that in the Gleaner too, that was unfortunate. It does suck that our fares are so high, i check all of the websites for a cheap flight, but no matter what i cannot seem to get a good rate. Domestic flights i normally use priceline, but with international i dont want to be at the mercy of the airline to fly at whatever odd hours they decide to give.

Sus,

I agree, i was trying to book for October, as i try to get to JA every 3 months, while me and SO figure out what were doing, and i swear the fares were pretty outrageous. Now is it me, or did it used to be that the earlier you book your flight the cheaper it should be? And then im scared about going in october since they are stating this year is supposed to be a bad hurricane season.

Anyhoo, My SO gets his stitches out of his noggin today and seems to be sounding and feeling alot better...YAY, so when i see him next week, he will be functional and not requiring me to baby him the whole week...LOL

I have absolutely no plans for the holidays , my son has requested i take him to see the Incredible hulk, im kind of bummed though. I was planning on going to the Taste Festival in Detroit on saturday though, but im on call which means if any one has any psych issues, requiring hospitalization or a phone call or some phone coaching, i have to be sober , which takes all the fun out of it. But on the upside, i will be leaving to go to JA, at 4 in the morning on Tuesday, so that makes up for my crappy weekend. Maybe i will spend Saturday, polishing, waxing, shaving and plucking...LMAO...so i will be good to go!!!

9 days and counting...Ocho rios, here i come!!!!!

Congratulations to you and your husband.

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Good Morning All! Happy Friday!

Happy Anniversary JG! Have fun celebrating!

Honey - good to hear the update on your man.

Lita - hit by a bus??? I am glad you survived that. Ouch.

May I request a collective prayer? Something is up with the DS-230 part 1 that my SO returned to the embassy. They received it two weeks ago and have not assigned an interview date. I have sent two emails and I've gotten no response. Please prayer that whatever the problem may be that it gets resolved quickly and that the interview gets assigned. This is making me nervous. Thank you ladi

Thanks quana

Mrs H. I am a firm believer that prayer changes things, so im gonna pray for you, that it will all work out in your favor. Dont get nervous, or anxious. I can say for two days i felt like someone was squeezing my chest, from the anxiety of my SO's situation. Once i talked to him, i felt better, we are praying and pulling for you, Okay.

im so dang mad at him, stay your *(&^% outta margaritaville and go home!!! ( im not really mad..lol). But if you know your gonna be on the street late at nite, which everyone seems to be all the time in JA, be careful. I am just really thankful he isnt dead, judging by the knot and stitches in his head, he is very lucky.

I am glad it turned out like it did.

Did they catch the guy who did it, HC?

So what is everyone doing this weekend?

We are going out to dinner tonight to celebrate Andre's birthday (Sunday).

Tomorrow we both work opposite hours.

Sunday we are doing something......not sure what yet.....to celebrate our 2nd Anniversary (woo hoo!) and then having dinner with my family to celebrate Andre's birthday.

JG, i dont think so, he said he was so fortunate his coworker was with him, the guy had his headlights off, when he hit him, but fortunately there was a police officer near, one thing i dont understand is he told me it took them almost 40 minutes to get him from ocho rios to st annes bay to the hospital...WTH??? over here in the states if a ambulance takes longer than 5-10 minutes to respond to a call, it is all over the newspaper the next day claiming negligence, someones family is filing a lawsuit, and more!!!! I guess i am still amazed at the differences in JA and the US. He gets his stitches out i believe he said Tuesday, but i didnt ask if they caught the guy or not.

I hope you and Andre enjoy your anniversary and do something fun. I havent been to St Louis in a long time, so i can remember what we did when i was there, but maybe dinner and a movie and then some nookie...LOL...cant think of anything else....ROFL

Thanks Sus and Lita

im so dang mad at him, stay your *(&^% outta margaritaville and go home!!! ( im not really mad..lol). But if you know your gonna be on the street late at nite, which everyone seems to be all the time in JA, be careful. I am just really thankful he isnt dead, judging by the knot and stitches in his head, he is very lucky.

Lita, he was walking from the Margaritaville with a friend and got hit from behind by some fool who ran him down, we dont know if he was drunk( the driver or what) he has 25 stitches in his head and a not, plus a gash on his tongue, from where he bit down when he got hit. He said his phone cracked from the impact. He went into town to talk to me on webcam and to show me his battle scars, poor thing...LOL.. i feel bad for him, but i will be there on the 8th so i will check on him then. He has called me from 3 different numbers today, borrowing phones, but said today was the first day he could actually get up and move around, without laying back down.

Alright ladies, im giving you an update on my SO. He was leaving Margaritaville and was hit from behind by a car, he has a big gash in his head, which has formed a knot. We are chatting on webcam right now, and he called. I thought i would feel better seeing him, but now i feel worse, because im not there!!! at least he is alive and well. again thanks for everyones well wishes!!! i will be back shortly to talk, i think im gonna need it...LOL