Mike_Zandy

Grace says it didn't make it so it wasn't in the april 14th batch

what? what happened kuya Mike.. so when they will send ate zandy's case # to NSO??

sorry to hear this

Primie.. they're guessing april 21st ... but it seems that she or no one knows.

Grace says it didn't make it so it wasn't in the april 14th batch

PBut my Zandy will be here very soon and the long wait will all be forgotten... Good luck you you and Ryan and I know you will keep in touch with Zandy.

Michael

Thanks eheh yah i alwys disturb her when u two are talking ahahaha

yah Ryan and I are like brothers, he's teaching me to become man , we are bestfriend too, lovers,, and the least we are mortal enemy also

Im glad we met u and Ate Zandy here in VJ

She will be there very soooooooonnn, and be with ur arms

Primie

you're welcome to chat anytime you feel like so You was one of the first people that reached out and was so helpful with your uplifting messages and kind words.

Ryan is a very lucky lucky man.. also lots of fun to kid with..

My Sweetheart and Lot, ARR giving me nose bleeds.. gosh! where is my towel?

Congrats sugarplum..

Hoping my Zandy will be getting the same text soon..

she found out yesterday that she is in AR because of the doc verification junk.. Hopefully today when she calls she will be getting the same news... she is part of the march 14th batch.

Everyone here who got pink slip were approved. She should get her visa soon. Glad she didn't get a white slip which accordingly means a long wait for doc verification.

-Riza

Why can't people read what's written on the pink slip..

It doesn't say approve!! It even says if visa is not granted Visa Delivery fee is entitled for refund..

wow.. I guess you know everything.. maybe we should come to you for all the answers.

Hmmm I think you and Mom are in cahoots with God to get me to shave... ( but I like my hairy face. Seriously though this is wonderful news and Im so very proud of you for all the hard work you have done to speed our visa process. Im very lucky and I cant wait to see you. Im off to go buy a razor, to prepare for your arrival. I love you Loterly.

hehehe so u dont have any reasons not to shave anymore though hairy face is kinda cool for me too but mom would prefer u to be skinned head hahaha

ok becoz u mentioned seriously here, ill be serious aswell.. thank u hon and you know i wouldnt have done this if not for the most loving, most understanding, most gwapo, most intelligent, sweetest, sexiest richard whom i love with all my heart and soul, my inspiration!!!

i love you more richard. hold on tighter coz im coming home!!!

and yeah send me the bill for your razor so mom can pay for it hahahaha

see hon.. i told you God has great plans for us. diba?

mahal na mahal kita, alam mo yan right?

thats soooooooo sweet!

Richard.. I too have to get a razor.. My pic below has me cleaned up some hehehe but I actually have a fuzzy face too..

I will need to buy a razor too very soon for my Zandy .. even though she will be happy either way like Loterly...

Its been 4 months now, since I been having a Early Medical Exam at St. Lukes. I was excited in first place before i go at Slec and hoping that i can have my Medical result as early i was expected and wait my Interview time at USEM. But all the feelings was turned into Blue when they tell me that i will doing a sputum test and wait 2 months for culture result. Mixed emotions, Depress, disappointed, and Lonely all the expectation those time was really cant imagine and express.

After 6 weeks to wait they called me to go back at Slec and to get my result. Expected so much the result was good and there is no trouble in my health but then all the depression, disappointed and lonelyI felt was more worst when the Doctor confirm me that i was have a inactive TB and need to have a Medication it takes 6 months.....Lesson: Don`t too much expect too much it will make you disappointment and depress more. To make you unhappy and hard to accept the Reality. Do i hear it good when Doctor said 6 months of Treatment? You how long it was and to be waited again? 6 months of treatment and to be wait to be with my Husband again.

My husband was expected too that I dont have any problem with my Health. But those time the fate was not us, Im not lucky like others those time. Now, How do I tell my husband that I am going to have a 6 months medication? Where to I start to tell him that I was infected and have a TB that needs to have a 6 months Medication? Worried! Scared! I was so scared more to tell him co`z i was thought there was changes his feelings to me. ( Lesson: Trust you Husband/Fiancee/Fiance with all your Heart and Soul.)

But still I decided to call Him and tell him all what is going on my Medical result, unexpectedly in the middle of conversation tears was flow in my eyes when I explaining him whats going on but my Husband stay clam, listen, understand my feelings, cheer me up those time even I was know his feeling that he was affected too for my Medical result. Lesson: Don`t doubt his Love to you, He loves you much more than what you think think of.. My husband, My Love and My Best friend showed me how what Love more means and ear to listened my depression. I am Lucky have a husband and friend like him.

But, even i realized I am lucky. I still have made a DABDA. Denial= that i dont have a TB. Even I was start already my Medication at St. Luke I still deny that i dont have infected. Angry= to the people at SLEC and God why Me. Every time i go there at St. Luke I was felt so much bad to them co`z I will gonna wait 6 months, expensive to go there everyday just to take a Medicines. Yes, they not allowed you to bring your Medicines you always go there everyday at St. Lukes to take your Medicines and Yes, I was spent a lots of money for my Transportation, most of all you can always tired and inhale the polluted air in the street.Bargaining= my anger was passed and I ask forgiveness to God what all I said to him. Depression= for what happened me. I still have a depression co`z takes so long to me to be with my husband. Acceptance= I calm and wait the God`s will now and believe he plan us the best time to Me and my Husband one day to be reunited again. And 6 months is good for the lifetime Happiness together with my Husband in the best time to reunite again. ( Lesson: Believe him (Jesus) whatever happened your life co`z He was really knows what best you are in this time. He has something planned to you and He was prepared you the lifetime Happiness.)

And Now, Yes Now! I am almost 3 months of treatment and try to move on now with Happiness and Love with husband, most specially faith in God. And I was taken as of now a short course while I having Medication May 2, 2008 will be my first X-ray test and I already lift up to God all what happened co`z he was know what the best to me this time. By my help, support to my Husband and my loving family. ( Don`t give up.)

" God Is Good All the Time. "

Rachel,

For the very first time in my life, I found someone that no matter what comes my way.. I know that Zandy will be there for me/us. From reading your post, You have also found the same with James. I wish you and James the very best..

God bless you..

SEXBOMB LOTTY! WHAT DO U THINK OF EYEBALL THIS WEEK? IT SEEMS SOME ARE ALREADY AVAILABLE. HMMM...THINK...THINK...

AT MADAMI TAKOT SA SUN EH, DAMI PALA VAMPIRES DITO LIKE US, HAHA!

LET'S KEEP EACH OTHER POSTED NA LANG. MUAH!!!!

hi mike_zandy,

na AR din ikaw? dami na natin anu....keep praying that we will recieve our Visa soonnn...cyah nga pala late Register kaba ? baka un ang basihan nila ..kaya na AR tayo.

Basta maganda daw kasi naka AR,haha! The infamous doc veri lang yun, as always. At priority din merong mga fiance here. Dont worry, we will get our VISA soon din. We just have to patiently wait. Birthday nga ni Mike May 27 so we're praying I can get there before that time.

Hope you can come to our eyeball. I'm coordinating with Lot and Shape about it.

Ok, I'll keep u guys posted! God bless you!!! Muah!

ZANDY

COUNT ME IN PRINCESS!!! somewhere in makati, where there are lots of malls around hehehehe and pls wag naman yung kainitan ng araw, mainit sa taxi huhuhuhu

HAHA DONT WORRY SEXY LOTTY! TAKOT DIN AKO SA SUN EH :DHAHA ! MUAAAAAAAAAAAH!

Too bad my Zandy won't be here by then. I would love to bring her to Del city.

Noel,

I don't know you.. and it's far from me to respond negative to someone on this board.. since in reality.. this is a place for helping each other..

I don't believe I have a right to tell anyone what they can, and cannot post on this board..

But have you known anyone that has has a issue in their life concerning suicide?

To be honest.. it's quite sensitive issue in my view. no one had any idea how long ago the incident happened.. for all we know.. it could have been 20 years ago for anyones concern! he or she could be a Christian now.

I can see the concern in someones mind if the doctors see this what should I do? Should I be truthful and loose my chance at being with the person I love? I think in the Philippines that anything could happen.. So, I can see the worry that it could cause to think of doing something like that to cover it.

I can't see where thinking of something like that would cause anyone to think they need to see a doctor rather then a visa to be with their love one.

To me, I think if you don't have anything positive to say about a issue like that.. I think it would be best to not have any input at all if your going to throw out something as hurtful as that.

I know you may or may have not meant any harm with that post.. but, if you known my life.. I was also offended when I read that post.

I just didn't feel like my input at the time would have helped anyone.

I suppose that is my point.. if the suggestion is hurtful.. then why post it?

Mike_Zandy,

You are right. You dont know me. And yes I have known someone who has an issue concerning suicide attempt. I told him the same thing I told Loterly... That person needs help.

And to be honest, when Loterly posted that twice, once under jom's account, and once under herself pretending it was a friend's issue, there was very little info included. She didnt say when it happened or what "religion" she subscribed to.

The only thing she asked was basically... Do I lie or not about it.

Back to topic.. Is it hurtful to tell someone that I thought was suicidal to forget about the visa and seek professional help instead? Maybe. I don't know. But I do believe thats the best advice I can give.

Funny though, for someone who dont believe they have the right to tell someone what they can and cannot post to this board, you are doing the exact same thing.

Is there anyone else out there who got offended with my response to jom or Loterly about a few weeks ago? Please come forward so I could apologize to you too.

WOW .. I suppose you have a degree in advice..

This is a waste of time.. You continue on with your advice..

enjoy.. I have a life outside of posting negative things on a message board.

Loterly,

I'm sorry if I have embarrased you by linking to one of your old post. But I thought thats what you were referring to when you posted the quote below.

it doesnt sound like it is just an opinion, you stated a fact earlier, then restated that you dont know then now its just an opinion.

was it also an opinion when someone replied to a post that this "person" needs a psychiatrist more than a visa? it has nothing to do with this topic, but im just asking your opinion about this. is this a fact or an opinion?

What I didnt realize is that you actually hate me for something else. A post which you included in your latest post. Thanks for clarifying and I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings.

I'm sorry too if what I said is not what you wanted to hear. But a woman thinking about burning herself to cover scars caused by cuts she did to herself on her wrist, my initial reaction is that, that person needs help and should not be worried about a fiance visa. That person should be more worried about her mental state and physical health.

You asked for advice on a public forum. That's what I gave. Sorry if I offended you.

Noel,

I don't know you.. and it's far from me to respond negative to someone on this board.. since in reality.. this is a place for helping each other..

I don't believe I have a right to tell anyone what they can, and cannot post on this board..

But have you known anyone that has has a issue in their life concerning suicide?

To be honest.. it's quite sensitive issue in my view. no one had any idea how long ago the incident happened.. for all we know.. it could have been 20 years ago for anyones concern! he or she could be a Christian now.

I can see the concern in someones mind if the doctors see this what should I do? Should I be truthful and loose my chance at being with the person I love? I think in the Philippines that anything could happen.. So, I can see the worry that it could cause to think of doing something like that to cover it.

I can't see where thinking of something like that would cause anyone to think they need to see a doctor rather then a visa to be with their love one.

To me, I think if you don't have anything positive to say about a issue like that.. I think it would be best to not have any input at all if your going to throw out something as hurtful as that.

I know you may or may have not meant any harm with that post.. but, if you known my life.. I was also offended when I read that post.

I just didn't feel like my input at the time would have helped anyone.

I suppose that is my point.. if the suggestion is hurtful.. then why post it?

Our best wishes to the both of you the very best.. Congrats

Greetings.. I hope one day soon we could jump on the boat and go fishing.. while the girls chatter in tagalog.. will have to have 2 big umbrellas though.. they can't get to much sun you know

Zandy and I sure would like to meet the two of you some time later after you get settled.

Best wishes

Michael

Congrats to you.. Hope that the Visa arrives soon!.

Congrats to you wish you the very best

Can I join shopping with you girls ? hehe jk!

Have fun and have a safe travel to US.

God bless you always!

P.S. I admire you Zandy for having a such a great faith.I' ve read some of your post (:

Thank you MAYUMI! I hope to see you in the eyeball. Kailangan namin makita ang mga Prinsesa ng Banyera dun. Si Lot si MANINGNING! Mga di papa api! hee hee

I pray we all get our VISA at God's perfect time. Remember, PATIENCE is a virtue

All glory to God!

Muah!

Zandy

Your very welcome dear.... that shopping idea is great, pero may karag-karag akong dalawang anak pagpunta ko manila...

I sure hope you will get your visa way before my interview (May 21) and be on your way to your SO the soonest... I'm sure Mike is dying to have his beautiful bride with him already.

Best of luck to you and may you truly be your husband's greatest crown of glory. Stay sweet and beautiful. God be with you always.

Thank you DBEARS! Korek si Lot , meron naman day care sa malls eh, hehe. O kaya isa sa kin at isa ke Lot, haha. We wish to see you there. Hope you can come!

Stay cheerful and pretty! God bless you!!!

Zandy

What about the guys... Yeah Baby Yeah!!!

LOL! Exclusive for girls. Kidding

Congrats Zandy, we pray that you will get your visa soon!

Thank you RYANRIZA! I pray the same for you! God bless you!

Congrats!!!

Enjoy America soon, mauuna ka sa amin. . hehehe Ingatz!!!

Thank you, Loterly, Dbears, RonMay, Ghe, Primie, Cheryl and Shape and to all the Powerpuff girls! Those are very nice things you said. Yes, God always knows better and we just have to patiently wait.

Yeah, lets go out one time, shop and have fun before going to US! We can do it this May

Let's keep each other posted, okie?

Love you all!

God bless!

ZANDY

Thank you AMMIKE! Hope to see you in the EYEBALL! God bless you!!!

Loterly_Richard,

wow! congratz!!!

pls. pray for us... huhuhu... im nervous....

sure will pray for you and everyone else.

drain all your nervousness out of your nervous system hehehehe and tell yourself that noone can make you nervous nor worried coz God will be there guiding you on what to do and whispering to your ear the answers to the consul's question.

if God is with you...who can defeat you?

keep the faith-loterly

Loterly, Yes.. You and Zandy have lifted each other up and God hears you

by the way.. Shape and I wondering why we don't hear the dogs in the chat