We will not get marry until we have a fiance visa. As I stated in my post we are doing the right thing and since we have not met in person....the only option at this point is for HIM to come over since I CAN NOT FLY OVER THERE.
We have explained in the letter the intent of the visit and we also stated we are not in any way want to do anything that is illegal. I have included in the letter to the embassy my medical condition ans verificarion letters.