Hi,
So I (UK citizen) visited my partner (US citizen) in June and was going to stay for a couple weeks as I was in between employment and thought it the perfect time. We then got engaged and decided to elope and get married at the start of August as neither of us cared for a big wedding. I then decided to stay in America for the whole 90 days as per my ESTA and had plans to go home and start consular processing at the end of August.
A few weeks after the wedding, I felt unwell and decided to take a pregnancy test which said we were 1-2 weeks pregnant. We then looked into our options and saw I could adjust status from The US because we were married.
We started the process of gathering documents etc and filed the i-130 pretty quickly and sent lots of evidence of our relationship with that. Whilst preparing to file the i-485, I had a chemical pregnancy and was no longer pregnant. We hadn't yet scheduled a doctors appointment regarding the pregnancy.
Our main concern now is that we've lost our main reason for me adjusting status and I'm now out of status. We've paid for and started the immigration process and after the loss, I don't want to be away from my husband.
I have been looking online for information and I came across this article which has terrified me - www.citizenpath.com/90-day-rule-adjusting-status because staying here, getting married or even engaged was not on the agenda when I got here in June but I don't have a lot of things to back that up such as current employment or car payments. I did pay my monthly rent on my apartment in the UK the day I got here as I was still renting at the time and im still paying monthly for my UK phone bill, UK credit card and have two active UK bank accounts.
I'm just looking for advice on what to do now. The article above has made me feel so much anxiety and upset on top of everything. I'm thinking about getting advice from an immigration attorney but is it too late considering we've already submit the i-130?