sarahaziz

Things are wonderful with spouse since he got here. Yeah we got those stupid fights about how to work a coffee maker and no you can't put instant coffee in a maker yet I can't express the happiness turning in bed and seeing his eyes waiting for me to wake up. He works with my father currently and just waiting for the visa process to be over (couple of years boooo ) just got a brand new mazda car for my birthday really excited about that we're never home now! currently enjoying the ramadan time going to my family members houses and our friends. We might get to travel back to our country to visit our families soon after january. I'd say I'm pretty blessed and i hope everyone gets to feel this happy when they're with their spouses again if not already together. God bless!

Is anyone else going thru this romantic Fall weather???

We're together now , but we were apart for longer than a year and our bond got closer and deeper than ever. I think someone going through this kind of problem is someone who rushed into marriage. I'm kind of sick of hearing these kind of stories cuz we all know where they all end up at. Sorry not to offend anyone it's probably just me.

im only speaking on drinking because she posted his reaction to it. Other than that it's not my buisness.

I have a short temper with people who act moronic and unnecessarily online on this board. Sorry.

I'm an american too you retard. ^^^

Her spouse or future spouse is from the same background as me and I'm advising her it's a huge deal to old fashioned men back home. Reading her post doesn't sound like she's interested in someone who is ok with that kind of stuff.

All I can say is if you respect your future spouse/spouse you will refrain from doing things that could harm the marriage. This kind of thing seems small to an American but trust me it's a big deal .

Can anyone post their experiences with the K3 even if you aren't entirely finished with your journey. I really don't want a estimated timeline i'd much rather see from other mena member experiences with the K3. Step by step of what you've had to do and the outcome and times an interview, or papers were mailed to you. Thanks in advance.

We're currently about to send in the I 485 in and wanted to know if any other forms should be mailed along with it? like the I - 785

We have the k3 - please take the Cr1 if you can wait. We couldn't wait to be together again and he's worth it but for someone else who has more patience don't take k3

i really wanna know why mena men lose hair so dang fast?!?! the bad diet with coffee?? I haven't experienced it yet and i hope we can prolong it

he wants to move back home but it's impossible wiht my studies

can't wait until ramadan!!!

Eid

My spouse has been here for a month or longer ??? Since the airport we were in honeymoon stage up about until couple of days ago we started having our first fights over stupid stuff. You're not alone and I believe it's sometimes not seeing each other all the time (bz with shool work)/missing the family/new environment/not being able to work all packed into 1. Making up and being friends again is great though Let him go out with your dad or brother any male figure close to u it will give you guys a chance to miss each other !

What's new... sometimes I think a couple of women who have been divorced from MENA men still come here to start stuff out of jealousy .

^^^ That's so true

I think if alot of angered people do something about this and it gets out and makes those people look bad you wil get a good case out of it. A petition or something against those specific people because I'm sure Immigration services don't train their people to be rough and punch people. Definitely go after that specific A hole. Make him lose his job. Tell your father to get checked out at a doctor if the injury was that bad. I honestly think somebody should def do something ot make this a public announcement and I swear you will get so many Arab/Muslim supporters just because he was Morroccan.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

yes and HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!!!

If I were in your place I'd speak up without being scared that he will leave.

and then say here is he door

arab men are stubborn ommmgg he will actually try to leave and sleep in the street or something i swear they have too much pride

I in the kindest way possible will try to say when you absorb your husbands ways (culture,beliefs) and lose yourself you will lose everything. I believe whatever problems I've had or will have it's entirely my fault at how I respond to situations and how I went into that kind of situation. Small things I see happening with some people on this board is trying to change themselves to adjust to their men's lives. If you as a woman can't be yourself and speak what you desire then you're not in a loving relationship. You're in a dominating relationship where your spouse is the beneficiary and you're suffering or feel incomplete - That eventually leads to hard feelings.

I think that if you'd SPEAK up to your husband explain to him your exact situation and shoes instead of babying him and trying to be something your not he will listen and understand you. Again, I really do feel for any woman going through this kind of thing because it all boils down to wanting love. When you're real with somebody they will appreciate you more. If I were in your place I'd speak up without being scared that he will leave.

I'd fight to give my kids and myself a wonderful life and cater to their needs before taking care of any man who could possibly go or stay. This is my honest opinion and thoughts. I hope things work out before a divorce is considered.

I don't know any specific name for Black henna besides aswad but I would def avoid and ask beforehand if the black henna they are using has any chemicals and see if they are harmful. My dad is my connection actually but you can go to local Arab stores or if you have any arab friedn to help hook you up. Wedding is postponed until 3 more weeks !! I don't care he's already my husband I'm so happy enough with that but we got alot of family friends driving us nuts for the ceremony! I'm lookin forward to the younger crowd after party with all my friends

veryyy handsome baby

I'm pretty sure if everyone lived near we'd kick their asses especially people who only know how to communicate like animals instead of politely speaking.

I guess the only way to understand it is put herself in his shoes. I'm thinking though, If you haven't seen your spouse in a long time the first thing you'd do is go nuts over seeing yoru spouse again. I'd think home sickness would hit after a month - 3 months or something. Talking on the internet constantly with family/friends and neglecting a wife I've just never heard of soemthing like that happening regardless if he was american or foreign. A man who RESPECTS his wife wouldn't do that. If you don't feel right in your gut obviously something is wrong. That's my thoughts at least

I still can't forget about this story with Allousa. I'm just so sick at how a human could treat another human so badly. I don't understand why they couldn't ask for more fees or whatnot instead of deporting their Father. Very disgusted and I'm not too sure if I want my mother in law to come thru that kind of border protection.

Personally if my husband was doing that constantly I'd be scared as to what his intentions were comming to the USA. Came For me? or to get work and keep contact with his family

Shorba...does that count as your "homemade" soups?

I so agree with that. It's about how a man was raised his etiquette is every man for himself.

am taking my spouse to the bank tmoorrow then hahaha