sweety&baby

We are really hoping that these new employees speed things along, as all of you are. The waiting sucks!! I don't know why, but we've been together for over a year and have waited for so many things, but this wait is the hardest. I just hope everything goes smooth and we'll be together soon. Is anyone else going crazy yet?

Also, I have tried several times to add one of those countdown sigs to my posts and I can't figure it out. Any advice? Thanks

Very interesting!! I wonder how people think of these things...lol

I'm with Vermont also. Good luck!!

Ok everyone. I know that touches don't mean a whole lot in general, but mentally they mean something to us. So I have a question. Does it say touched on the main page when you enter your case? I had to mail a new check and it cashed Monday, so I think my case should say touched. They'd have to do something to it to cash the check. Don't you think? I'm just getting curious here. Thanks in advance.

Finally my new check cleared the bank. I was starting to get a little nervous about it. I have had no touches either. I'm hoping that doesn't mean anything. I'm just relieved to know that they have it and they are still working on it and it isn't just sitting on a shelf somewhere.

To answer the question about where we'll live. Hopfully, my fiance will be able to find work in computer science where I live now. I have 3 kids and I'm sure they'd like to stay here, but we'll see what happens.

To the OP. I have been a single mom from the birth of my son, and I can tell you that it is extremely hard to do alone. There were many days that I wished I wouldn't have done it. If there is any chance of reconciliation, you should at least look into that. This isn't like a marriage between 2 Americans in the same country. He will be sent back to Morocco and if down the road you see that you want to try again, it will be too late. Just be sure that you want this. I'm sorry everyone, but I also think that you need to remove you mother from the picture if you do decide to work things out. A marriage is between husband and wife, not husband, wife, and mother in law. Too many times a mother in law can interfer. If she did it this time, she'll more than likely do it again. I've seen situations like this with couples here, and usually the husband will find someone to talk too. It is all too common. Again, good luck to you, whatever you decide to do.

This is a lesson in culture folks, a bad one.

Know how women are treated in the culture that your romantic interest was raised in.

In Morocco, women are virtual slaves in parts of the country.

Really, after talking with someone for months or years, you should have a good idea of how you will be treated. Not by the country or culture they come from. I've been to Morocco, and I didn't see any women that were treated like slaves. Yes things are different there, but most men from Morocco treat their women with the highest respect.

I am so sorry that you have had to go through this loss of someone that you love. You have been blessed with a child though, and I hope you will stay strong for him/her. I know from experience that this is a hard time, and you should not feel embarassed by this. You did nothing wrong. Good luck to you in the future and take care of yourself.

NOA1 recieved in the mail today. It is dated Oct. 17th even though they sent my application back because of the amount on my check. I'm very happy to see that they still process it even with that.

I recieved my packet back today I wrote my check wrong. I can't believe I did that. Anyway, I will try to mail it back today.

Lucy4, VSC recieved my I-129F on Oct. 13th, so hopfully my check will be cashed soon also. I keep checking, but nothing yet. I see myself going crazy if I keep this up....lol. Good luck!

Hello everyone. This is my first post ever on Visa Journey. This site has been very helpful to us as far as preparing our application. I mailed our I-129F to the Vermont Center for a K-1 Visa on October 11th. They recieved it on October 13th. We're now just waiting for the check to clear and hoping that we have no RFE's Good luck to everyone here!!