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    HAPPY Sunday MENA

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    package to:

    USCIS California Service Center P.O. Box 10130 Laguna Niguel, CA 92607-0130

    A. Form I-129F Filing Locations for K-1 Fiancé(e)

    If you live in the United States:

    File Form I-129F at the service center listed below based on where you live.

    If you are filing abroad:

    File Form I-129F with the service center listed below based on the last place you lived in the United States.

    NOTE: Your petition cannot be adjudicated at a USCIS office abroad.

    California Service Center Filings

    File Form I-129F with the California Service Center if you live in:

    Alaska, Arizona, California, Colorado, Guam, Hawaii, Idaho, Illinois, Indiana, Iowa, Kansas, Michigan, Minnesota, Missouri, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, North Dakota, Ohio, Oregon, South Dakota, Utah, Washington, Wisconsin, or Wyomin

    HAPPY Sunday MENA

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    wish all having happy sunday. it is very special sunday to some memebers here as it is the fisrt sunday they are with thier loved ones

    i want to pray for who all waiting long time for thier visa and also for melinda and tarek thier interview is so close . wish them luck

    today most of poeple not working to show goverment objection to the very bad condition that egypt reached to . every day prices go up crazy and the salaries still as it is so almost all egypt poeple not working today. hopfully that will change some and prices go down and make them increase the salaries.

    have great day everyone

    salam my brother plz you need to help my fiance filed for me the i 129 f at the nebraska office in last novembre 2007 but people here saying that is the wrong offcie what do you think how its looknig knowing that she knows what she s donig is it the wrong office and she called them they said they sending her a mail do u think they giving ehr her file back tell me plz ligth me brother thank you

    i really dont know about the biographic in usa or where she had to file in which office but i am sure there are some poeple here can tell . and u can make your fiance call them and ask if that the right place or no

    have great day

    HAPPY Sunday MENA

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    wish all having happy sunday. it is very special sunday to some memebers here as it is the fisrt sunday they are with thier loved ones

    i want to pray for who all waiting long time for thier visa and also for melinda and tarek thier interview is so close . wish them luck

    today most of poeple not working to show goverment objection to the very bad condition that egypt reached to . every day prices go up crazy and the salaries still as it is so almost all egypt poeple not working today. hopfully that will change some and prices go down and make them increase the salaries.

    have great day everyone

    The Guilt

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    to love tour husband or wife that not mean to not love your familly there is no conflict between two of them.

    but what i am talking about is arab tradition and also islamic sure wife is very imortant in man life to support and be beside him and for the man to be pretect and take good care of his wife and kids and also his parent who made him and spent money to educate him and make real good man . thats thier right on him to take care of when thy are older and need him..

    i think it might be different from man to other and familly to othe familly and from conutry to anothe contry

    to take care of ur familly that not mean u dont for ur wife . thats the husband duty to take care of wife needs and wants .and to love your parent and care about them wont effect your love to your wife any . Alhamodlillah she understabd that very well and accept it completly

    The Guilt

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    My Mother in law always tells me take this monkey with you to america soon hahah :jest:^_^ He's always making her crazy and playfully ruining her work and cooking.

    She said to us she'll be sad at first and cry but shes so happy because we are each others first love (bfgf)and we will stay together forever (gave us a blessing) . He always told her not to force him to get married that he didn't want to so when we started flirting,dating, and got married she didn't care about where he was as long as he got married and she didn't have to worry about him.

    You know today I'm so thankful to God because my husband always catered to my needs and wants before anybody there. I actually feel bad because he brought me expensive stuff there and got his sisters some cheap brands. Anybody tried to show me washing clothes by hand or dishes by hand he'd tell them stop and to leave me alone and we speak arabic so they hear EVERYTHING he was like its ok babe continue what you're doing. I really feel bad about those things but I never asked him to be like that or do that! I do agree with alot of women on this board Wife is before anybody in your life (after Almighty God of course).

    I hope nobody gets money hungry now that we're married b/c that's going to start alot of drama. Couple of my uncles have moved to france and married in france so they told me in privacy that they are demanded to send money back home all the time & they don't tell their wives. Hopefully nobody will DEMAND that from my husband as it won't work that way. But I know I have to be open to accept if they needed money bc I don't want him doing that behind my back!

    For Melinda and Mohammad - Your wife's heart will be the first to run to you if anything happened to you. If youre sick she's going to baby the heck out of you more than your mom or sisters can think to do. It's a different love from mother to son wife to husband sister to brother. You wife holds motherly and a lover's personality. Everything you said about a husband caring to his family before a wife and a wife shouldnt get jealous then do you also follow that with your wife? Her parents have favor in her eyes more than you have with her. If her parents need something and you also she will think to them first as you would for your parents. Can you accept that? I think like my spouse you will get jealous if she cared to her parents before you bec she is your wife. She can give you everything and more if you asked. It's not to say who is more important never like that just that when you think to marry a woman and American woman at that you have to respect her 100%. No offense to you brother. I'm sure your wife struggled alot and sacrificed alot more than you think she did to bring you to USA.

    sarahaziz yes i follow same way with my wife i would be so happy when she care about her familly cause that show how great and pure she is . that will never bother me or make me upset cause as u said it is different love son to mother and husband to wife. and any wife will be in comptetation with the parent she should know she will be losser cause it is differnt kind of love and caring.

    and we are here in arab muslim contries have special very strong bond with our familly we raised on this way of tradition and there is no conflict with ake care of ur wife and ur parent and familly needs at all.

    i cant deny that my wife struggled to be with me and how was so patient and how stress was on her to be with me . i totaly RESPECT my wife 100000% and she know that and she accept all what i am saying about my familly cause simply they care about her so so much and treat with her as thier own daughter and my mom and sisiter never let her do anything while she was in Egypt and spoil her too

    she always say she is close to them more than her real parents. here in arab muslim contries we have warm familly feeling and strong bond with each other . some not found in usa famillies

    and wise smart man who make his wife feel so good and also his parents

    The Guilt

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    Islam or no Islam...if a man cannot maintain his wife and children and does not feel they are most important then he shouldn't get married or have children. That's not to say I believe in neglecting your parents or siblings. Giving in to their every whim is ridiculous though. Some families take advantage and pull guilt trips. You just have to be certain that your husband knows what their *wants* are and what their *needs* are. I know this sounds crappy to some but in my book if it's between me wanting a new pair of shoes and a sister wanting them...I'm getting the shoes first. She can go ahead and find a husband of her own for that. On the other hand, if I *want* a pair of shoes and his sister is in *need* of something important...the sister gets her needs met.

    i think all women who married TRUE MUSLIM men should know about thier culture and religion and should have talked about that be4 they marry to make every thing clear.

    about wife and sister need something and wife should have it first cause that her hubby and sister should go ahead to find hubby to get her her needs WHAT if she doesnot find hubby as the time what she will do go find boy friend to spend on her? u see the difference between culture and religion her!

    thier is no competation between familly and wife and wife shouldnot get jealous if her hubby loves and care about his familly cause if he is this way to his familly and parent FOR SURE he will be good to her and his kids

    The Guilt

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    in islam wife shouldnot effect on the husband relation and if we will classify it so well parent will come first and thats the islam not wife first then parent . and if he isnot good to his parent who raised him and made him man so dont expect him to be good to his wife

    I suggest you take out your anger then on the scholars and the hadeeth and Qu'ran evidence. I was only going off of those. If you disagree I suggest you post the evidence of hadeeth and Qu'ran which says a man or woman's siblings and parents, cousins, etc. come before his wife and children. and that he is not responsible for their maintenance. I will be happy to look at your evidence.

    ETA: honoring your parents and maintaining your relationship with your family/family ties doesn't mean doing whatever they want, by the way.

    i am not angry at all i just wanted to show to all thats wrong information about islam that wife come first . quraan or hadith never said that

    all u posted about those questions were about obeying the wife for the husband and there is nothing say that wife MUST come first be4 parent . wife should obey her husband in every thing .

    and about the evidence u want me to post there is hadith say HEAVEN IS UNDER MOTHER FEET

    it is didnot say UNEDER WIFE FEET

    and when someone asked the prophet (SAW) about who is the person i should be good at him he said YOUR MOTHER and he said then who he said YOUR MOTHER he said then who he said YOUR MOTHER he said then who he said YOUR FATHER

    any good muslim know his religion good would never put his wife be4 his parents

    i agree with u about husband should spend money on his wife and take good care of her and his kids

    but also if his parent hasnot anyone to take care of them so thats his responsabilty too

    when u said about if the man has 10 bucks in his bocket who he will give too why they not split it

    u think islam said u should feed your wife and let your parents hungry?????

    and again i am not angry i just wanted to show whats islam is

    about bridget hubby he is so right to worry about his sisters that they will be alone when he is gone

    it is arabic islamic tradition and manners . i know it is hard for american to understand that cause most of teenager when they are 18 they move out and have thier own life . in islamic country it is so different . brother or father is responsable for the sisiters and daughter till they got married and if they divorced he is responsable for them too.

    inshaAllah they will be fine and i am sure he will be in contact with them always

    have great day all

    The Guilt

    in Middle East and North Africa

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    Still, you are supposed to be first. If he doesn't put you first then he is violating his religion and his culture.

    in islam wife shouldnot effect on the husband relation and if we will classify it so well parent will come first and thats the islam not wife first then parent . and if he isnot good to his parent who raised him and made him man so dont expect him to be good to his wife

    The Guilt

    in Middle East and North Africa

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    INSHAALLAH his familly will be fine and i think thats normal that they knew he is leaving to different country and different culture

    wish him safe trip

    . In Islam a man is supposed to have first responsibility to his wife and children, and second to his family.

    thats not true who told you that wife come be4 familly and parents ( completly wrong)

    Why Shariah?

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    i read half of it till now . it is very good article and deserve to be carfully read

    as i read till now

    yes shariah is muslim law and it supose to be the law in islamic countries it is to follow Koran and sunnah( prophet path) by by sorry most of islamic contries follow we steren laws as in turkey they dont allow girls to go the shcool wearing head cover scarf (HIJAB)

    even that consider personal freedom but they dont allow any girl to enter the school or the college if she wear head cover. about marriage in same sex or lesbain i think we all know how yuuky is it and it demand to deal all equal rich and poor and thats the fiarness

    thanks for posting this article and be back to read the rest soon inshaAllah

    Why Shariah?

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    long topic but seem intersting one . i will be back to read it all but from what i read

    shariah is the muslim law that Allah put for all muslim and most of arab muslim contries dont go by it as legal law. but for sure it provide justic cause Allah wont put unfair law

    read the rest and be back

    have good day

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