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  1. 13 minutes ago, JeanneAdil said:

    I found out when we went thru this we had to not talk about immigration

    day after day with no news was heartbreaking enough but bringing it up in our video talks didn't help

     

    so, unless we needed to get a form from each other or actually discuss something about the process,  we kept our talks about each other,  romance and our families

    this is actually a honeymoon time (or suppose to be),  so keep it that way because this process is so stressful and when the immigrant comes, you are right into living together and all that that involves

     

    you need this time to know everything about each other like you are dating and getting use to the other person

     

    I don't know if i say it all the way i mean to but FORGET  immigration or it will drive you nuts

    and i know this as we 1st applied in 2009 and he finally got his visa and came in 2015

     

    Thank you so much❤️

  2. 56 minutes ago, Ed&Midori1031 said:

    I know you've asked for women, but let me tell you what my wife and I did.  We were apart for about 18 months, and seen each other physically for about 1.5 months total out of the 18.  

     

    While we were away from each other, we communicated daily, whether just chat or video call.  The big thing for us was to support each other, patience and not give us stress (even though ths visa process, we couldnt avoid stress at times).  

     

    Not only give time for each other, but time for yourselves, like meeting a friend, going for a walk, concert, etc.  Something for your own individual times.  We set goals and ideas for each time we traveled to meet each other again.  

     

    Support and patience. Hope this helps.  

    Thank you for your share🙌

  3. 16 minutes ago, Lucky Cat said:

    I am not a woman, but I will tell how we managed.  My wife and I had video conversations 2 times a day for the 13 months we were apart.  It helped.

    Thank you🙏 

    13 minutes ago, JFH said:

    As strange as it may sound, have a look through some military forums for ideas from military spouses on how to keep going through the separation. 
     

    When we went through this process I used to have a “rule of three”. I always made sure I had three different things to look forward to. Even small things like meeting a good friend for lunch or a drink, maybe a new film or book that I was waiting to see or read, and so on. After each one was done, I would add another to my list so that I always had three things to look forward to. It really helped the time pass by. 

    I’ll try it out. Thank you ❤️

  4. 13 minutes ago, Myroslava said:

     It's hard but it's possible. Just requires a lot of patience, trust, love and communication. After the wedding we were able to spend wonderful 2 months together with my husband. We had really hard time at the airport letting each other go. Returning to online relationship was hard also.

     

    Ability to do video calls daily helps a lot. We have learned how to communicate which will definitely help us when we are finally together permanently. 

     

    It's comforting to know that we have each other. Another thing that helps is reading this forum and understanding that other people going through the same long process. Separation will pass. We will be together with our loved ones soon❤️

     

    I feel you😟 it’s been 4 months right now without my husband sometimes I feel like I have zero patience I don’t know how! too much stress to handle every single night I keep crying my eyes out sometimes I’m super good and I can wait other times I feel everything is falling apart I can’t wait to see him I don’t know when but I’m praying for it! Thank you so much for your sharing❤️

  5. On 12/16/2007 at 8:24 AM, ♥Sora_9_Dam3a♥ said:

    hello MENA..

    ..so this process is super long.. :crying::crying:

    i found that my playlist changed completely since i left my husband in january.. :( i have a new list of "favorite songs"...

    ...so i thought we could all share them here...i'm sure i'm not alone on this one... :unsure:

    ..i'll start by posting a few of my favorites...

    [videos always ruin the song... :unsure: ]

    Ramy Sabry::Ba7ebak

     

    Samo Zain::Mosh Aader

     

    It’s so frustrating! I miss my husband so much I just can’t handle it anymore!! I saw your posts and it made me cry my eyes out! 

  6. 1 hour ago, Lucky Cat said:

    ***Moved to the Middle East & North Africa regional discussion area as OP has asked specific country/consulate question***

     

    Duplicate thread removed.  Please don't post duplicate threads in different areas

    Im still new I don’t know where the right place to ask! I didn’t know it was posted twice!!!! It’s no big deal

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