Marcia27

1 hour ago, Daria Parkinson said:

Words won’t do anything, but I respect you for keeping sanity. 
This is unimaginably painful and I sincerely am sending you support and good energy.

You will be happy, please never doubt that.

Thank you so much!!!!

7 minutes ago, Jorgedig said:

Sounds like you're getting bad advice from this lawyer.  

 

Also, annulment does not 'withdraw' or in any way affect your affidavit of support, just as divorce does not.  

 

And, he does not need VAWA to remove conditions and get his 10 year GC.  He can do that with a divorce waiver.  It doesn't sound like you have any concrete evidence pointing to marriage fraud.  In fact, you must have produced evidence to the contrary when you went to the AOS interview.

Unfortunately, yes I did. I was still under the impression we were a couple! before his final betrayal. 

10 minutes ago, NancyNguyen said:

An annulment in New York requires a trial and hearing before a judge. Unlike a divorce which can be granted upon written or sworn testimony without a trial, an annulment will require at least one of the grounds to be proven in court. This will require paperwork to be filed with the court and you to bring evidence including documents and/or witnesses that can support your claim for annulment.

Well what ever happens just want to be done with this evil person.  My lawyer is taking care of everything. 

3 minutes ago, Ray.Bonaquist said:

You’re wasting your time and not thinking clearly. Forget about him, there’s almost absolutely nothing you can do. That’s life, people get used. Erase him from your life as much as possible. Divorce and move on. You have no control over his immigration journey. He doesn’t need you.

 

For your own sake exorcise the bitterness, you will be the one that bitterness will damage further.

not bitter more hurt by him then anything. I did so much to bring him here and he embarrassed me, used me!

But thank you! I know I need to let go and let god. But best assure I will do everything I can to untangle myself from this mess. 

2 minutes ago, JeanneAdil said:

As hard as it would be for you to prove fraud as photos with other women don't do it,  it would be just as hard for him to prove domestic violence if he did not make any police reports (at the time an incident happened)  

so, don't worry about that part

you don't have to support his ROC when it comes up

divorce and move on 

Thank you!

8 minutes ago, Lucky Cat said:

Why in the world would he sign an agreement for annulment ??????  I am no attorney, but, tbh, I think you are fighting a losing battle here. 

Well if he doesn't sign it will be annulled in 30 days. 

15 minutes ago, Luckycuds said:

I'm sorry you are in this situation. You need to take care of yourself. Please create your visa journey timeline so we have more details of your situation. Did he come on k1 or CR1? did he come to the US and you guys adjusted status? If you create your timeline we don't have to keep asking these.

 

 

Thank you, I applied for K1 it was approved in 6 months. 2 months delay with the embassy in his country. he arrived here 7/3/18- married 8/1/18- submitted 9-1-2018, interview 1/4/2020. approved. Green card in hand 1/20/2020 

4 minutes ago, Unlockable said:

Oh no. I am so sorry to hear this. Wish you could have seen the warning signs before he got here.

 

But as said, you can't withdraw the affidavit. If you read the affidavit carefully, it even states that divorce does NOT absolve the affidavit of support. Which means if you two divorce you are still legally responsible for him.

 

As Luckycat stated, you provided the US government tons of evidence that the relationship was real, so you will have that against you. 
 

Going for an annullment is a smart move because it will mean the marriage is invalid which makes him ineligible for a GC through you. Hopefully, you will be successful with an annullment.

 

TBH, fraud cases are extremely tough to prove. Be sure to have a lot of evidence. and I mean a lot. 

Thank you! I was blinded by love. I never would of though this would happen to me he made a complete 180, I can't believe he is so evil. I did so much for him.

He has 30 days to sign. one week down. 

4 minutes ago, designguy said:

Is he coming back?

He has been back since march. He is living with his sister. There he was served papers!

2 minutes ago, Georgia16 said:

Okay then you can't withdraw anything that is too late.

 

If you have proof and it has to be hard proof of immigration fraud then you can submit that to USCIS. There is nothing he can go by for domestic violence now (is he talking about the 10 year GC)? 

 

What id the timeline. Coming to us, getting AOS approved?

I have pictures of him with his daughter mother. I have proof he was having relationships with other woman while married. HE never wanted to marry me thru church or have kids (he always used condoms with me) 

I petition for him in 2017 and he was here in 9 months with a K1 visa. We married and he had a greencard in hand in a year 2 months. 

34 minutes ago, Lucky Cat said:

1.  Protect yourself both physically and legally through an attorney..  

2.  If you have evidence of fraud, you can report it.  Other than that, you have no control over his immigration status.  If he was issued a Green Card, your affidavit of support remains in effect....you cannot withdraw it.....and it will remain in effect for several years...maybe even many years..a divorce will not alter your responsibilities.....the best solution might be for him to gain citizenship...which will remove you from financial responsibility for him.  Remember, You verified that the marriage was bona fide.

3.  Seek happiness for yourself.

 

 

 

Tagging this thread for future reference "Tales of the Green Card".

I have a lawyer and he was served with annulment papers. He refuses to sign and said he will file under domestic violence. I reported him to uscis. I truly fell in love and still love him but he has done so much damage to me my home and my mental health is a mess. 

7 minutes ago, Luckycuds said:

You can not withdraw the affidavit of support. You are bound to this legal document until he works 40 quarters, becomes a citizen, gives up his residency or dies. It is all in the instructions and Sections 212(a)(4) and 213A of the Immigration and Nationality Act (INA). The provisions are codified in Title 8 of the Code of Federal Regulations (CFR) at 8 CFR 213a

 

If he is planning on accusing you of domestic violence make sure you are NEVER alone with him; it will be his word against yours. Divorce, change your phone number, forget about him and move on.

He threaten to file divorce under domestic violence. I was reading on here I reported him to USCIS just now. provided his new address. I wish I never met him. He has made my life a living hell. I even been on anxiety medication. 

32 minutes ago, Georgia16 said:

What's you complete timeline? 

 

Did he get his 2 year GC already? Because then you can't pull it. 

 

 

Yes, he received his 2 year GC and left to DR to be with his baby mother I have pictures. He is now living with his sister. 

Hi all, 

on here looking for advice. I married a man who I though loved me and I brought him to USA. We are now going thru a divorce. He used me to come here. I would like to withdraw my affidavit of support and he was issue a 2 year greencard I will like to contact uscis and let them know he married me based on fraud. I filed for an annulment based on fraud. He said he will file under domestic violence. please help!!!!