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Bro I have passed through this situation am telling you to try and make her do jogging almost every day she will stop snoring I promise you. Stay safe man 

Hi everyone...
Am Dec from Ghana... Got married to a US citizen in 2018 October in Ghana , got to the USA early January 2020.. And now my wife has given me 30days to move out from the House. 
 
I love her soo much....Its all started when i got here..my wife snores very loud and even when you at the couch relaxing..u can hear her snore from the bedroom ..which have recorded number of her snores for her to listen to it...and she  felt soo bad abt it...i told hear...she should not worried..we gonna see the doctor after the lockdown and see know the way forward. - so because of her snore i applied for midnight job which we all agree to it.....  start work at 7pm to 6am..work 3days in week or sometimes 4days (so she can sleep peaceful for me not disturb her..- because am always awake whiles she is sleep and she feels bad...but i can't help it ..i cant sleep because of her snore)._- when she came to Ghana. She never snores like that.---  The only time i sleep is when she is up in the morning, ever since i step foot in the USA...In All this , i never told her i Want any break up or divorce because i believe we can solve this issue...marriage takes alot of patients and hardworking......my work is such that..we unload long trucks and stocks items in the factory...and after closing from work..., most atimes i walk home.  20min walk...she told me she can't pick me back to back..because she need to rest...well i told her..am cool with that. I will walk home - bus don't run that lane....so i always walk home....i got employed in March.. 
 
I normal get 3days off...and i make sure we spend some time indoors..like watching tele together..cooking for her most atimes..because she does not know how to cook..i do most of the cooking and wash the plates..we go 50/50 on bills since i came...but because of the lockdown.. Most offices are closed so i don't have any of my name on any bills for now..we planned doing that when the lockdown is lifted...So most often, She used my bank card to pay half of the bills and all that shows is the receipt i get from the bank informing me u card has been used to pay your this amount for ur rent or DTE.. Some time ago.....i try to sleeping in the sitting room because i needed rest badly and she was snoring loud...so i walk out quietly to go get some sleep...as soon as i walk to sitting room...she came to warn me..if i keep sleeping in the couch... Then we have to divorce.. She got mad and went back to sleep...i have no other option than to go back and sleep by her side ... I went back to bedroom and she sack me to go back..i slept in the couch for 3days... With all this body pains... I never told anyone...because is all about sacrifice... I have try to sleep with the ear piece, we bought nostil trips..we have try different method-  but did not work...And we all know..if one dont sleep during the night...they wake up not functioning well... Thats what is happening to me now.. anytime i want to sleep whiles she is awake..she gets upset and tells me...all i do is sleep during the day...and i told her..because i dont sleep during the night... And its affect me during the day time..and i must go work in the night too... When i look at me in mirror i can see something is not right with my face... My eyes always red.. - the issue is  when am off and even at home....i cant sleep during the night...am always up listen to her snoring ...and she goes of the mood when am about to have 6 to 7 sleep during the day....Now she want me out the house...Given 30days to get a place to sleep....and this is the fourth time she is using the word divorce in any situation that comes up
 
Now i don't even know what to do...i explain it to my boss at work...and he told me to file a report to the police department and tell them this is what am facing at home and show them the text message that says she want me out of the house.. 
 
Am just lost in this country....have no friends or knows nobody around...hmmmm

Figure out who’s filing for divorce and get divorced. You have a job so getting an apartment shouldn’t be a problem. File for removal of conditions either when divorce is finalized or when you’re in the 90 day period of 2-yr green card expiring. 

if you’re uncertain how things work and what your rights are, read the USCIS booklet titled Now that you’re a permanent resident.