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I am so happy that things are going well for you and your husband Moon!

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I am so sorry to hear the outcome of your interview. I traveled on 2 occasions to meet my fiance in Senegal. The CO asked him why and he told the CO that I did not want to travel to Nigeria with the US Travel Advisory. That satisfied that particular quesions. Just stay proactive and positive.

I am so sorry to hear the outcome of your interview. I traveled on 2 occasions to meet my fiance in Senegal. The CO asked him why and he told the CO that I did not want to travel to Nigeria with the US Travel Advisory. That satisfied that particular quesions. Just stay proactive and positive.

I am so sorry to hear the outcome of your interview. I traveled on 2 occasions to meet my fiance in Senegal. The CO asked him why and he told the CO that I did not want to travel to Nigeria with the US Travel Advisory. That satisfied that particular quesions. Just stay proactive and positive.

I am so sorry to hear the outcome of your interview. I traveled on 2 occasions to meet my fiance in Senegal. The CO asked him why and he told the CO that I did not want to travel to Nigeria with the US Travel Advisory. That satisfied that particular quesions. Just stay proactive and positive.

I am so sorry to hear the outcome of your interview. I traveled on 2 occasions to meet my fiance in Senegal. The CO asked him why and he told the CO that I did not want to travel to Nigeria with the US Travel Advisory. That satisfied that particular quesions. Just stay proactive and positive.

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Yes, all I can say is "wow." Unbelievable.

Omoba,

You will be there with him soon. I know it is so hard right now and he is extremely shaken up. But in a few days you will be there with him in Dakar and all will be better. I believe that you will receive the Visa after this interview. If anyone has ever deserved it, you and Stephen do! You have been through so much! But, it will all be much sweeter because of what you endured to get to this point.

Go with God! Keep us updated from Dakar if you can, but if not, we will all be waiting for your news upon your return!

I have flown on that flight and recommend it. My ticket was 1600.

Wow! I am so glad he is okay. You will be with him soon!

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I have been a member on VJ for sometime. I am under a different name because I don't want my husband to find out. I met a man online (Nigerian) and petitioned for him to come to the United States. Once he got here things were great he was very attentive, eager to learn and to get a job (he’s working now) and God-fearing man. Now that he’s been here for awhile and getting acclimated, he’s become distant, argumentative, secretive and rude. So, I decided to do some investigation. Of course, I wanted to know what was going on, I love this man. I wanted to know if it was something I was doing or something he was hiding. Yes, it’s a trust issue. After considering my options, I found and purchased software to monitor his activity online; we all know that email can tell the story. I purchased Family Cyber Alert, which captures keystrokes, password, etcs. To my amazement, the man is already married. He’s promising his “wife”, that he is trying to get her and his children here soon as possible. I was floored, what the heck is this. You look for trouble you find it. The pain is unbearable. I can’t say anything to him because he would convince me that I am being paranoid and continue to lie. My first thought was to kick him out. I took my vows serious and he has deceived me. And I don’t want to say much because I want to see how he’s going to work this out. Does anyone have any suggestions? What would you do in a situation like this? How can he bring his family here and he’s not a citizen of the US? Please help. I am devastated.

To answer your specific questions about whether he can bring the family here, it is dependant upon how far along he is in the process. You will need to provide some more specific details. I understand your hesitancy to list much because he reads this site. But you can pm many of us in this forum and the MENA forum and we can help you without him knowing.

All I can say is that I feel very bad for you. I agree with all the other posters who have said to be very cautious, but deliberate in your approach. I realize that you are SO emotional right now. And rightfully so. But, push the emotions to the side (for the moment) and do what you need to do take care of this situation. There are specific steps mentioned above which you should follow to disengage yourself from this man. After you have successfully, but safely, done this, then you can "break down."

I agree with the other posters that this could have happened with anyone from any country. So, don't blame the entire country. There are good people in all contries. The situation in Nigeria is unfortunate and obviously contributes to these situations, but don't blame the country.

You are in my thoughts and prayers. If you want some specific advice, I would be happy to speak to you via pm. Please contact me at anytime.

I will say it will be an interesting weekend!

They are gone this year, but NOT forgotten. THEY'LL BE BACK!!!

Congratulations to you and your husband!

I hope they both make it to the Final Four!

Congratulations! I think a nice dinner is appropriate.

Good Luck. I know this is difficult. Please act upon this quickly.

Hi all....we were pleasantly surprised yesterday morning (our first day back to visit my hubby s family in Turkey) that his AOS has been approved (as of 03/21/2008)

Thanks for all your support & wishing a fast approval to all those still waiting!

No more USCIS for 2 years!!!

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I received the email from CRIS today. I-485 & I-130 APPROVED! YAY! YAY! YAY! :dance:

I want to thank everyone on VJ and Good luck to all the November filers!!

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