You have a 10-year GC so you have no further immigration things to do except renew your GC every 10 years. You can apply for citizenship later on if you wish but you don’t have to. There is nothing she can do that will affect your status here. She brought you here. But she can’t send you back. It doesn’t work that way. Too many USCs use the “I will report you to USCIS” and “I will get you deported” lines as a way to express their anger or embarrassment that the marriage failed. Truth is, only a criminal conviction will now get you deported (unless it is discovered that you obtained the GC fraudulently, which I doubt you did).
No one can force anyone to reproduce. A vasectomy was perhaps overkill as reversal is not guaranteed to succeed so it could have been permanent. But it’s your body, your choice. And you were the sensible one as the environment at home didn’t sound very healthy for raising a child. So thank goodness there is no child in this mess.
She’s bitter and angry. But it’s a waste of energy because nothing will come of it except more bitterness and anger. Divorce her and move on. I hope you find happiness with someone else.
