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I moved out in November and I filed for divorce one month ago it (takes roughly two months to be divorced), so I wanted to be honest and explain the reason why I moved and join a copy of the divorce application. I don't think it's very good to answer the RFE and not tell them about the divorce. What do you think?

Hello,

I gathered evidences for the RFE, and was abroad for two weeks to see my family, I just came back and need to finalize my documents. I would like USCIS to  amend your petition to Divorce Waiver, but I don't know how to do that properly. Should I join a copy of the divorce and write something on my cover letter or is it a different document?

You are right, but i was more worried about the USCIS, because my GC is very important. I wish my wife could help me, but she refuses to talk, so I'm on my own.

I got some documents today including "police records" they had. I can't create evidences but gather what i can. I plan to make a package containing evidences from our relationship, pictures, tickets, etc... and apply for a divorce and obviously explain everything in a cover letter. I'll do my best.

Currently I'm  short with money and that's why i didn't start the divorce process. Also I was afraid to not get my GC and wanted to give it a shot. Now, I have a RFE and because we didn't have joint bank accounts or stuff like that, I can only provide IRS transcripts, some insurances cards and pictures, in order to demonstrate that our marriage was legitimate. It hurts because it was an unusual relationship in many regards, but was real and I have almost ten years of emails and pictures, flight tickets to prove it. I'll prepare a package containing all the evidences i can gather, a cover letter and ask for a waiver.

Do you know where i could find resources explaining how to get a waiver please?

They don't arrest people all the time, it's what they should do, but sometimes they don't, especially if the husband and the wife try to mitigate the consequences. The showed up and talked to us, each time.

Anyway, I don't want advises about the violence which occurred during my marriage, but help to move forward. As I said I have simple pictures, nothing else.

Currently I can't provide anything else to the USCIS than IRS Transcripts with our SSN; some insurances cards ( car and Health) and one payment I got after an accident with our names. I have plane tickets and pictures for the last eight years but nothing establishing strong financial assets or responsibilities.

I just need to know if I should answer the RFE or cancel the I751 (Is it even possible?) and reapply, what do you think?

I created as post today:

I currently live in DFW and need a free lawyer in order to clarify my situation. I could afford to pay a little bit, but currently struggle, any help is appreciated!

I know the situation is complicated, can someone tell me how to stop the 751 if i fill an application to divorce and how to restart one with a waiver?

Hello, I'm writing on this forum because i really need help. The last year i filled an application to remove the condition on my GC and received a I797.

However, in November I left my apartment and my SO because she was more and more abusive toward me: i got my own apartment and updated the address with the USCIS because I didn't have the choice.

Today i got a request for evidence ( the lease submitted has expired and doesn't establish the commingling of assets, financial responsibilities and co-habilitation during marriage) and I can't really prove that my marriage is not a fraud since we don't have the same lease anymore. When we were married, we had very little things in common because she never wanted to share her money. I can find old lease, health insurances, taxes and car insurances, but i thought i submitted these already...

Now I have until may to resolve this issue, should I divorce and reapply on my own? Should i send the evidences i have and continue? 

I'm lost, the last months have been awful and the only evidences of abuse I have are some pictures...

Each time I called the cops, i felt guilty and asked them to not take her away, because i care about her.

I really need help, I'm very vulnerable and want to make the best decision possible in order to protect my GC and my job. Please help me.

Ps: I can't afford a lawyer in my current situation...