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1 minute ago, missileman said:

Honesty is the foundation of any relationship....I doubt you will ever trust him again.........move on......just my opinion

Exactly!

It was not a simple weed charge as he is claiming. I did ask him directly about his charges and gave him lots of opportunities to be honest. He was not, so it gave me red flags to not trust him yes. So he lied on the k1 application and even put no to have you ever been arrested, uscis will find out and runs a background check to protect both parties. Onus is on him to explain his lies but you do not see a trend here?! I can't believe you are siding with him.

Yes people change and leave that life behind but if you cannot be honest rite from the start with someone you are planning on starting a life with what else are you hiding?

Hi everyone

Just wanted to share my news as I just discovered my fiancee lied to me with the k1 and did not disclose he had 3 drug charges against him. We applied back in the summer and I explained the steps required. After sending the application in he tells me he has not filed his taxes in 3 years! I said that is tax evading and he better file taxes asap and straighten out that mess. 

Now the drug charges, his lie is it happened 20 years ago and was a charge of selling a joint to an undercover cop. I was able to do some investigating and found out it was 3 charges of manufacturing to distribute and was just 7 years ago, which is a very serious offence . I have not confronted him with the drug charges information i recently recieved. In the meantime I have left his sorry ###. I know there was no way the k1 would have been approved. How did this moron think he was going to hide that from me. He led me on the whole time and would say let's deal with that when time comes lol. I am just grateful I found out now what a pos he is and saved myself from a huge mistake.

Should I confront him with proof of his charges and give him an opportunity to explain?  He tells everyone this lie including his so called friends. Also report him to IRS for taxes?