DaveB7

Of course, but if we get married in a 3rd country as it has been suggested, having 2 lawyers and a proper translation into both of our languages aren't big problems. The real problem is a potential challenge in a US court (potentially by a 3rd party). That's why lawyers seem to suggest a K1 with signing a prenup in the US. But using a CR1 route  makes it difficult. ..    (and yes to all negative Nellies here -she's all for the prenup :-)

Your aunt was lucky to be one of the 10-20%. Most women aren't. And after the age of 43-44, the chances of ever becoming pregnant using a woman's own eggs is almost 0.
 
https://www.nytimes.com/2016/10/18/well/the-misleading-promise-of-ivf-for-women-over-40.html
 
https://www.advancedfertility.com/fertility-after-age-40-ivf.htm
 
Whether having kids now is good for their relationship is debatable. Whether waiting till she's 40 is a good idea is not.