TedA

You can google birth certificate and the state. I can order as many copies of my birth certificate as I want from the kansas department of vital statistics for 15 bucks each. Takes like 5 days to get here and order online with credit card. Same with divorce certificare, birth certificate my kid, etc.

I can tell you from personal experience if you don't get along or are not compatible before you get married it will not get better when you get married.
If you both are thankful and respectful now you will remain that way. If you are not now, you will remain that way.
I'm a divorced man who is engaged now to a filipina lady I talked to for 6 months and visited one time. We spent 14 days together and now we chat every day. Not one time during any of this have we been anything but thankful and respectful for having met each other.
My ex-wife was not thankful and not respectful of me and I also was not thankful or respectful of her.
It sounds to me like, unless there really is a language or cultural barrier, this guy is not for you.
Find a man who is thankful of you and is respectful of you. And you have to be the same, or it won't work.

I can tell you from personal experience if you don't get along or are not compatible before you get married it will not get better when you get married.
If you both are thankful and respectful now you will remain that way. If you are not now, you will remain that way.
I'm a divorced man who is engaged now to a filipina lady I talked to for 6 months and visited one time. We spent 14 days together and now we chat every day. Not one time during any of this have we been anything but thankful and respectful for having met each other.
My ex-wife was not thankful and not respectful of me and I also was not thankful or respectful of her.
It sounds to me like, unless there really is a language or cultural barrier, this guy is not for you.
Find a man who is thankful of you and is respectful of you. And you have to be the same, or it won't work.