eric_and_teresa

You were denied a NON immigrant visa because you failed to establish your non-intention to emigrate; every consular officer reviewing tourist visa applications MUST presume that the applicant intends to emigrate and the applicant has to prove otherwise. With a K-1 visa what you're doing is openly stating that you want to emigrate, and that's what K-1 is for. So this instance will not affect your progress.

Like many, you don't see the big picture. In 2010, we had a record number of deportations: about 220,000. However, since there are at least 11,000,000 illegal aliens in the U.S. (perhaps many more), it would take about 50 years, that's half a century, to deport them all before they even can check up on those who entered legally, like your husband, but overstayed.
ICE's focus is on deporting illegal aliens that have served prison time for felonies. Your ex can live happiy in the U.S. until the end of his natural life, unless he gets in trouble with the law.

I would have your husband read all these responses then maybe he would realize what he is doing is wrong. Just keep in mind he is going to do what you let him do at some point you have to put your foot down and say no more. I am not saying to divorce him but maybe go to your sister in laws for a few days or a week and really make him think about what he is doing. I pray that things work out for you. Stand up for yourself do not let your husband walk all over you.

This guy is not owning his ####### (I am a guy myself). You do not owe him for school, cruise, or anything, he choose to marry you, period.
Maybe in another planet this is not cheating, in mine it is.
The fact that he created this FB account in a hidden way is already saying that he himself knows this is not right, even when he does not want to admit it.
Not saying you need to run or anything like that, but you would want to define what is what you want to do about it, it does not matter whether he or the sister-in-law think this is cheating or not; it affects you, you don't like it and consider it wrong, that should be enough.
At the end, the decision is yours, all we can do here is give our opinion.
Take care. Don't let anyone make you believe that you have to put up.

I'm an American man and I would call this cheating.
To the OP: Your husband is showing very bad behavior. If you decide in your heart to forgive him (again) do so knowing that it is possible for him to do it again. Bad behavior without repercussion is usually repeated. Think of some men like big kids, sometimes you need to slap our hands (figuratively) to let us know we have done wrong. I agree that adults in a loving relationship shouldn't have to do this but I think it's time to stand up for yourself.
Wish you the best of luck.

I'm from the U.K & arrived in the U.S on a K1 visa. I'm a man & I think your husband is being deceitful & sly. If I contacted another female behind my wifes back I would expect to be accused of cheating. If he wanted to remain 'friends' with this woman he should have discussed it with you first...just my thoughts.
I think you've posted this in a wrong forum though, it will probably get moved to the correct one.