ParisHeart

Very best wishes on your immigration journey, may I ask, what was your RFE about?

Not picking you apart, but at interview, don't tell this it is your God given right to

have your wife with you, otherwise you may be so deeply into AP, you wont get out of it

till retirement.

Remember, God don't control our government OR USCIS, so don't spout off to

them. USCIS is God over our lives while in this nightmare immigration journey.

Best wishes on your journeys in life.

KayDeeCee, Yes, I totally agree with you on the timing of completing the medical, that is what we were planning to do. Thank you again for all your help on this.

Your husband just needs to go to the Ministry of Justice and get the divorce, no money, no lawyer needed, just witnesses. Takes maybe a whole 20 minutes to do. Then have the US consulate in Cairo stamp it off, that was valuable in my divorce there.

OR you can do your divorce here in the USA, and send him the papers with a wavier to

sign it in front of notary at the US consulate there in Cairo, then send it back to you, then you turn it into the courts, and poof your LEGALLY divorced with with no BS from

Egypt.

Just because you married there (and I presume at the Ministry of Justice), does not mean

you have to get divorced there.

Now if an Orfi marriage, run like hell girl, and forget about him, and never step foot

in Egypt again. Orfi marriage = one night stands or tourist shack ups.

I went through this hell a long while back.

If I may chime in here, don't take your children. Its risky enough of you going by

yourself, but don't drag you children into it. If you need to go, then go, check him out, his family, surroundings, etc. then if you feel comfortable later down the road, then

take your kids the next time or the trip there after. Its amazing how someone can be so

different face to face then on video chat, Dr. Jekyll & Mr. Hide comes to mind. Be safe ,

be smart, keep eyes open ,and thinking cap on.

Also don't stay with him and or his family, book a room for few days, then if he is the

true deal, then stay with him or his family.

The RFE letters don't normally go out on the same day as issued, they are sent U.S. mail. Give it another 5 days, and if still nothing, call back and request to speak to a

supervisor.

Just be calm and respectful, and you will make your way to a supervisor.

Thank you very much, & the same to you. Sounds like your all prepared, you will triumph!

We are gathering our paperwork, my husband came here legally, a visitors visa for the 2nd time in March of 2012 we met months later when he was already out of status,

We just married , and filing to adjust his status. Going to be a bumpy ride, but we are ready for it, and have the evidence of a true marriage

Ohhh Sams Club memberships, we have those too, I will make copies for our AOS.

Yes on the apartment, I understand, I'm in same boat as you, I'm going to ask the

apartment manager if she can write letter saying I rented the apartment before he was

here, and why he is not on the lease, blah blah, blah. you know how that goes.

But NO, I do not think the apartment lease will be an issue. You have plenty of other

great evidence. Sounds like your well covered

I also plan to ask the apartment complex if they could write a short letter, explaining he lives there, but is not on the lease, as I rented the apartment before I knew him.

And when the lease renewed, I could not put him on there cause he was not originally

listed on it when I signed.

Health insurance, I have it but to put him on mine is $500.00 a month, he did have

dental work done, we paid cash, and 2 weeks ago at the ER with him, face first in Texas fire ant mound, again cash paid.

He does not drive so he is not listed on my auto insurance , and I bought my SUV before I knew him, so he is not on the contact either.

Will look around for low cost health insurance for him, he needs it, with the cost of

medical alone is obscene.

Yes I agree with you, & we also expect and welcome a surprise home visit. We have nothing to hide, its all out there for them.

We still want to get at least 2 affidavits from my boss and a friend about our marriage.

Along with pics to show we have not hidden from the world or our marriage, pics of us with people I work with, and the soccer club, as he is a volunteer coach.

Firstly,congrats on such a smooth journey and a rather speedy one.

I would bring any new evidence with you, new pics, or receipts for new items under both your names.

Any mail , cards, letters addressed to you both, anything you can think of. I rather lug new evidence with me to interview, then not have anything if they ask.

Very best wishes for a smooth interview.

Will keep this short as possible. Wanting thoughts on possible outcome of our case.

My husband arrived in March 2012 in the USA on a visitors visa for the 2nd time for a festival , he is part of a group/band , (we were not married or even knew each other)

We met end November 2012 & been together ever since, married now July 2015 So been together nearly 3 years under same roof.

We are filing for AOS as he is out of status now and has been since September 2012

We have lots of evidence, life insurance policies on each other, joint checking & savings, 2 credit cards together, Electric bill in joint names, and home insurance under both names.

Along with pics with my family, his family in Morocco,, we have not met face to face, but we talk via camera and have chat messages, for his rather large family, we keep in touch via social media mostly.

We did not have anyone with us when we married , only our lab dogs,, just us, the dogs and the Pastor who married us, pics were taken. We plan to do a dinner with friends from the soccer club and my family, which is only my bother, his wife, their kids. Have a small dinner celebration with a cake before we send in petitions.

Cut to the chase,

Red Flags:

#1 I'm 20 years older, though I do not look it at all, I'm 50 he is 30 I look 35.

#2 I have 2 past filings, which I cancelled, one when I found out my ex husband was living with another woman, shortly after our interview, I contacted Paris Consulate immediately and withdrew his visa.

& the 2nd time, my ex husband re married his first wife without my knowledge while still married to me, , (men can have 5 wives at one time) . He did this when USCIS asked for a final copy of his divorce, and when also I could not send him the rent money for the apartment in Cairo, (yes I was a dumbarse and paid his rent), . he only had a 1st Revocable Divorce. USCIS does not accept that type of divorce, . anyways when I found out he remarried, I withdrew the petition, BUT USCIS could of closed the case when proper info was not provided for deadline for RFE. As I thought his divorce was accepted with USCIS at time of filing, and explained it was a Islamic divorce for the reply to the RFE, I later followed up with them reporting he re married his ex wife while married to me without my knowledge or his family's knowledge and submitted the paper to prove it I obtained from Cairo.

In both cases I was used, and betrayed, & even considered a walking ATM for the 2nd one. I have proof of all financials given to him. Even his family was surprised when they found out he re married his ex wife , as he told none of them, and now don't even speaks to his family.

My current husband never asked me for a dime, he works for himself , and we put the money he makes in our joint account. We have no kids, just us two & 2 lab dogs. I have a very good job, 17 years with my company, and a good person, he is too, never in trouble in Morocco or USA.

I ask , don't judge me, until you stood in my shoes, I request your answers to be respectful please.

I have never hurt anyone, in these marriages I was the one hurt, used and mis treated.

I know USCIS can be brutal, as I have helped many -many people with immigration right here on this site years ago with respectful answers, as I know how ugly people can be while ripping a person apart when they ask questions. Bad things happen to good people, especially the ones with my heart then brains.

Thank you.

Thanks you KayDeeCee , yes I found the info yesterday and even printed the forms.

I think we will do physical and send in with the petitions. Don't need any RFE's for something like the physical, its going to be a very bumpy ride for us anyways . Already praying hard all will end well.

Have a good day KayDeeCee

Oh thank you for your reply on my question, such a BIG help......... will read your previous post.

Have a great afternoon.

If I may ask, do you need the medical physical results when you send in papers for AOS? , that part always confuses me. Tried to find where to read up on it, but with no luck finding it.

Capital One bank will let you open a joint bank account if one does not have a SS#... tell them your in the immigration process. We opened a joint checking and saving account with no issues.

Thank you KayDee Cee

Yes, I was born here. and yes filing I-130 form with the I-485 form and the rest of the forms.

Thank you so much for your kind and straight answer........

Welcome aboard, I'm in the same boat, and trying to figure what box to mark on the I-485 Part 2 A - H

Very best wishes on your new journey.

Good day.

On the I-485 form PART 2 A-H not sure what box to mark.

My husband came here on a visitors visa, and now out of status for sometime now, what box do I choose for this form?

Thank you