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As I mentioned, he's going to try to file for VAWA to adjust status. One of the things that helps one's case in vawa is filing a restraining order from abusive spouse .
He's getting help.
Get an attorney.

1. Wanting him to leave will do u more harm bcos he'll opt to stay illegal, and your wish not coming to pass will cause you pain. You might keep checking up on him on Facebook etc n seeing him do ok will psychologically affect you.
It's someone else's (gov't) choice and obligation whether and when he gets removed. Making it your job will be fighting a losing battle which will stress you out.
2. some US spouses have the notion their foreign spouses may be using then for GC instead of thinking about working on their new family/marriage. And therefore lookout for trivial things that hint their suspicion. This chokes the life out of the marriage.
Marriage on its own is difficult enough, everyone's thinking of what he/she wants.
It's not like in the fairy tales.
3. Whether he used u or not, it's your choice to withdraw everything as suggested by the forum.
4. Yes, there are evil people who take advantage of others.
But I have this stance, partly because it's one side of story, if u hear my ex wife say what caused our marriage to fail, u'd hate me n believe I'm the worst husband on earth n married her to be here.
I'm ok that she kicked me out(in apartment I paid rent) and withdrew paperwork, but I'm not ok with she telling lies to have me removed.
I know for a fact that if GC wasn't a factor, we'd still be together.
5. Again to answer your question, u may withdraw the affidavit of support, he won't be able to get a GC. Unless he gets VAWA approved, so it'll good to stay away from him if he's the type who's capable of framing u up. There's one more way is doesn't happen.
6. It's emotionally difficult, but once u decide to move on, do so, because the more u think about it, the depressing it is.

Happened to me, I moved in with my wife to stay with her parents, it was not good, I felt her parents didn't like me, we lived in suburbs, she didn't want to move out being the only child. We didn't have our space, her parents were everywhere.
Her parents kept telling her I married her to be here, she eventually filed for divorce.
Cost is important but living with in-laws isn't a good idea for marriage.

since you are both now currently in USA, he ought to be the one to needs to work on understanding America and American people (which is a complex equation) by the way.
I really think you should rethink your future with him.

since you are both now currently in USA, he ought to be the one to needs to work on understanding America and American people (which is a complex equation) by the way.
I really think you should rethink your future with him.

Since he came on K1 and you haven't married, i recommend you let him go home and move on.
You dont want to spend your life trying to make him like the place/ or be 'happy'.
I came with K1 as well and I do understand, when i open my wife's fridge to cook, there was literally nothing i could cook because i wasn't familiar with the groceries here. and living in the suburbs being isolated was tough. but i learnt to get things done. i got a cook book and worked on adjust to stuff here.
i didnt really complain, i was obvious i wasn't happy though.
The extent he expresses dislike for the place is not acceptable.
Then again, i think you should communicate with him and let him know how his actions make you feel.
I use to tease my wife about a subject, and she didn't say she didn't like that.
We later went for counselling and she expressed how my 'tease' makes her feel, and i was very very shocked, because i did not know and she did not express dislike for this either.
so let him know, once you let him know and he keeps on doing so, then you have to advice yourself, this country is stressful enough by default.
Wish you the best.

Happened to me, I moved in with my wife to stay with her parents, it was not good, I felt her parents didn't like me, we lived in suburbs, she didn't want to move out being the only child. We didn't have our space, her parents were everywhere.
Her parents kept telling her I married her to be here, she eventually filed for divorce.
Cost is important but living with in-laws isn't a good idea for marriage.

Since he came on K1 and you haven't married, i recommend you let him go home and move on.
You dont want to spend your life trying to make him like the place/ or be 'happy'.
I came with K1 as well and I do understand, when i open my wife's fridge to cook, there was literally nothing i could cook because i wasn't familiar with the groceries here. and living in the suburbs being isolated was tough. but i learnt to get things done. i got a cook book and worked on adjust to stuff here.
i didnt really complain, i was obvious i wasn't happy though.
The extent he expresses dislike for the place is not acceptable.
Then again, i think you should communicate with him and let him know how his actions make you feel.
I use to tease my wife about a subject, and she didn't say she didn't like that.
We later went for counselling and she expressed how my 'tease' makes her feel, and i was very very shocked, because i did not know and she did not express dislike for this either.
so let him know, once you let him know and he keeps on doing so, then you have to advice yourself, this country is stressful enough by default.
Wish you the best.

Happened to me, I moved in with my wife to stay with her parents, it was not good, I felt her parents didn't like me, we lived in suburbs, she didn't want to move out being the only child. We didn't have our space, her parents were everywhere.
Her parents kept telling her I married her to be here, she eventually filed for divorce.
Cost is important but living with in-laws isn't a good idea for marriage.

Since he came on K1 and you haven't married, i recommend you let him go home and move on.
You dont want to spend your life trying to make him like the place/ or be 'happy'.
I came with K1 as well and I do understand, when i open my wife's fridge to cook, there was literally nothing i could cook because i wasn't familiar with the groceries here. and living in the suburbs being isolated was tough. but i learnt to get things done. i got a cook book and worked on adjust to stuff here.
i didnt really complain, i was obvious i wasn't happy though.
The extent he expresses dislike for the place is not acceptable.
Then again, i think you should communicate with him and let him know how his actions make you feel.
I use to tease my wife about a subject, and she didn't say she didn't like that.
We later went for counselling and she expressed how my 'tease' makes her feel, and i was very very shocked, because i did not know and she did not express dislike for this either.
so let him know, once you let him know and he keeps on doing so, then you have to advice yourself, this country is stressful enough by default.
Wish you the best.

Happened to me, I moved in with my wife to stay with her parents, it was not good, I felt her parents didn't like me, we lived in suburbs, she didn't want to move out being the only child. We didn't have our space, her parents were everywhere.
Her parents kept telling her I married her to be here, she eventually filed for divorce.
Cost is important but living with in-laws isn't a good idea for marriage.

since you are both now currently in USA, he ought to be the one to needs to work on understanding America and American people (which is a complex equation) by the way.
I really think you should rethink your future with him.

Since he came on K1 and you haven't married, i recommend you let him go home and move on.
You dont want to spend your life trying to make him like the place/ or be 'happy'.
I came with K1 as well and I do understand, when i open my wife's fridge to cook, there was literally nothing i could cook because i wasn't familiar with the groceries here. and living in the suburbs being isolated was tough. but i learnt to get things done. i got a cook book and worked on adjust to stuff here.
i didnt really complain, i was obvious i wasn't happy though.
The extent he expresses dislike for the place is not acceptable.
Then again, i think you should communicate with him and let him know how his actions make you feel.
I use to tease my wife about a subject, and she didn't say she didn't like that.
We later went for counselling and she expressed how my 'tease' makes her feel, and i was very very shocked, because i did not know and she did not express dislike for this either.
so let him know, once you let him know and he keeps on doing so, then you have to advice yourself, this country is stressful enough by default.
Wish you the best.

Since he came on K1 and you haven't married, i recommend you let him go home and move on.
You dont want to spend your life trying to make him like the place/ or be 'happy'.
I came with K1 as well and I do understand, when i open my wife's fridge to cook, there was literally nothing i could cook because i wasn't familiar with the groceries here. and living in the suburbs being isolated was tough. but i learnt to get things done. i got a cook book and worked on adjust to stuff here.
i didnt really complain, i was obvious i wasn't happy though.
The extent he expresses dislike for the place is not acceptable.
Then again, i think you should communicate with him and let him know how his actions make you feel.
I use to tease my wife about a subject, and she didn't say she didn't like that.
We later went for counselling and she expressed how my 'tease' makes her feel, and i was very very shocked, because i did not know and she did not express dislike for this either.
so let him know, once you let him know and he keeps on doing so, then you have to advice yourself, this country is stressful enough by default.
Wish you the best.

Since he came on K1 and you haven't married, i recommend you let him go home and move on.
You dont want to spend your life trying to make him like the place/ or be 'happy'.
I came with K1 as well and I do understand, when i open my wife's fridge to cook, there was literally nothing i could cook because i wasn't familiar with the groceries here. and living in the suburbs being isolated was tough. but i learnt to get things done. i got a cook book and worked on adjust to stuff here.
i didnt really complain, i was obvious i wasn't happy though.
The extent he expresses dislike for the place is not acceptable.
Then again, i think you should communicate with him and let him know how his actions make you feel.
I use to tease my wife about a subject, and she didn't say she didn't like that.
We later went for counselling and she expressed how my 'tease' makes her feel, and i was very very shocked, because i did not know and she did not express dislike for this either.
so let him know, once you let him know and he keeps on doing so, then you have to advice yourself, this country is stressful enough by default.
Wish you the best.

Since he came on K1 and you haven't married, i recommend you let him go home and move on.
You dont want to spend your life trying to make him like the place/ or be 'happy'.
I came with K1 as well and I do understand, when i open my wife's fridge to cook, there was literally nothing i could cook because i wasn't familiar with the groceries here. and living in the suburbs being isolated was tough. but i learnt to get things done. i got a cook book and worked on adjust to stuff here.
i didnt really complain, i was obvious i wasn't happy though.
The extent he expresses dislike for the place is not acceptable.
Then again, i think you should communicate with him and let him know how his actions make you feel.
I use to tease my wife about a subject, and she didn't say she didn't like that.
We later went for counselling and she expressed how my 'tease' makes her feel, and i was very very shocked, because i did not know and she did not express dislike for this either.
so let him know, once you let him know and he keeps on doing so, then you have to advice yourself, this country is stressful enough by default.
Wish you the best.

Since he came on K1 and you haven't married, i recommend you let him go home and move on.
You dont want to spend your life trying to make him like the place/ or be 'happy'.
I came with K1 as well and I do understand, when i open my wife's fridge to cook, there was literally nothing i could cook because i wasn't familiar with the groceries here. and living in the suburbs being isolated was tough. but i learnt to get things done. i got a cook book and worked on adjust to stuff here.
i didnt really complain, i was obvious i wasn't happy though.
The extent he expresses dislike for the place is not acceptable.
Then again, i think you should communicate with him and let him know how his actions make you feel.
I use to tease my wife about a subject, and she didn't say she didn't like that.
We later went for counselling and she expressed how my 'tease' makes her feel, and i was very very shocked, because i did not know and she did not express dislike for this either.
so let him know, once you let him know and he keeps on doing so, then you have to advice yourself, this country is stressful enough by default.
Wish you the best.

since you are both now currently in USA, he ought to be the one to needs to work on understanding America and American people (which is a complex equation) by the way.
I really think you should rethink your future with him.